In this world, people like us are broken people. There's nothing "wrong" with us, but somewhere deep inside, theres and unspoken yearning, a hidden desire, just for once to be loved and accepted. We go through life making connections with people, through freindship, love, or hatred, each connection different than the last. It goes on like this until we find the one person who needs us just as much as we need them, and we fix eachother, we fill in the gaps in our hearts left behind by the ones we used to love. And then we are no longer broken.
we are loved.
Full Version: My odd take on relationships :/
A very romantic view on relationships. I hope you are able to find that person.
QUOTE(Juliet_Capulet @ Sep 25 2007, 08:25 PM) 
In this world, people like us are broken people. There's nothing "wrong" with us, but somewhere deep inside, theres and unspoken yearning, a hidden desire, just for once to be loved and accepted. We go through life making connections with people, through freindship, love, or hatred, each connection different than the last. It goes on like this until we find the one person who needs us just as much as we need them, and we fix eachother, we fill in the gaps in our hearts left behind by the ones we used to love. And then we are no longer broken.
we are loved.
we are loved.
But what happens to the ones left behind? not everyone finds love to fill the gapps left behind by the ones we've lost.Loseing someone you love and that hole that is left behind can never be filled,it can only be replaced.Love itself can be either short or long, it cant be forced and it can never remain the same,love is something that is sought and found only to those who are fortunate enough to find it,love can be lost and to which is something that can cause death,love grows,love dies but not to love is to live unfullfilled,all love is grand,One is better to know love than to never have known love at all,you can love someone,something or just love life,Yes you are right in your post and your words are inspiering which is something else love can do,Great post,Looking forword to more post from you.
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It goes on like this until we find the one person who needs us just as much as we need them, and we fix eachother, we fill in the gaps in our hearts left behind by the ones we used to love. And then we are no longer broken.
That's very nice, but I think that a relationship that's funciton is to "fix" or "fill in gaps" is not healthy.
In my view, a healthy and sustainable relationship brings two whole people together, not broken people who "need" another person to feel whole.
Nobody can fix you but you. "love" without being whole is obsession.
QUOTE(theghost @ Sep 25 2007, 04:50 PM)
not everyone finds love to fill the gapps left behind by the ones we've lost. Loseing someone you love and that hole that is left behind can never be filled,it can only be replaced.
You're right. Some things leave gashes so deep that they never heal. Everyone tells me that time heals all wounds; it doesn't: it just makes them smaller. And I don't even think it can be replaced; it can be covered up with a temporary band-aid, but it is still there.
Good thoughts, Juliet. You're a romantic, like me. It's not a bad thing; we're just a dying breed.
I absolutely LOVE it. It is the truth. Eventually you shall find someone who you no longer when your with them you no longer need to be happy because it just happens.
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