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Paranoid Android
I don't have any problem with this school. Faith-based schools are quite within their right to teach whatever Faith they want. A Muslim school can teach Muslim values and beliefs, a Catholic school can teach Catholic values and Beliefs. A Buddhist school can teach Buddhist values and beliefs, and a Christian school can teach Christian values and beliefs.

Every parent has the right to bring their children up in the way that they think is best, and in whatever religion they follow. A school which incorporates prayer and Bible study is not a big problem. However, if it is found out that there is emotional or spiritual abuse going on, then there would be a problem - for example, the whole "Jesus Camp" issue where kids where locked in a room and shouted at until they tearfully claim to believe. However, from reading that article, there is no indication of anything like that happening. And therefore I have no problem with it.

~ Regards, PA
sede-x-teh-bomb
QUOTE(DeVoL @ Sep 26 2007, 02:21 AM) *
I'll humor you. By your estimate, God does not exist, correct? By your estimate, the Bible was written by man in the interests of man, correct? How then, by your estimate, can a nonexistent being act against humanity and inspire war, rape, etc?


uhh.. that IS the problem sir/mam, thats what every non believer HAS a problem WITH sir/mam.
Why DOES a nonexsistent being inspire so much war rape hatred against humanity.
Its not about if the "being" is real or not. Its about the people who claim it is real.

And kratos has every right to hold that stance on religion, how dare it alter any aspect of a non believers life, it has no right. Religion exsists in the believers mind, where it should stay.
MissMelsWell
QUOTE(Michelle @ Sep 25 2007, 07:05 PM) *
I wasn't either, Empress. I graduated in 80 from public school.


When I was in grade school and Jr. High school not a nary word was said about religion or God or anything else. I do remember a lot of hoot and hollering about math and english and I remember saying "oh my God, I have Speech this quarter".

In High School, we could take "Comparative Religions" as an ELECTIVE, if we wanted to. It was not required, but it was offered. I took it, it was a great history/sociology/humanities course.

I also graduated in the 80's.... '85 to be exact.

My friends who went to the Catholic high school that was literally dead next door, they had religion class, sorta. Mostly it was like our Comparative class.

This school is obviously a fundementalist Christian school. Probably no more than 300 kids (they said 175 families I believe). Probably half those kids or more will re-evaluate what they learned in thier school years. Some will choose to stay with what they learned, some won't. Yes, their parents have rammed their religion down their kids necks, HOWEVER, those parents believe they are doing the right thing. As parents, even those that did not ram religion at our kids will have other errors to atone for... I don't care who you are, your kids will dislike something about the way you raised them. No question.

Life is full of disappointments, letdowns and revelations... it's how you choose to deal with them that's important.
Buddharat
I'd have to say that this would have been outrageous if it was public school but since it's Catholic school, it makes a lot of sense. No parent is forced to send their child to Catholic school, so they know going into it what would be taught. I agree completely with Paranoid Android. :-) Nicely stated.
Guardsman Bass
QUOTE(Paranoid Android @ Sep 25 2007, 10:00 PM) *
I don't have any problem with this school. Faith-based schools are quite within their right to teach whatever Faith they want. A Muslim school can teach Muslim values and beliefs, a Catholic school can teach Catholic values and Beliefs. A Buddhist school can teach Buddhist values and beliefs, and a Christian school can teach Christian values and beliefs.

Every parent has the right to bring their children up in the way that they think is best, and in whatever religion they follow. A school which incorporates prayer and Bible study is not a big problem. However, if it is found out that there is emotional or spiritual abuse going on, then there would be a problem - for example, the whole "Jesus Camp" issue where kids where locked in a room and shouted at until they tearfully claim to believe. However, from reading that article, there is no indication of anything like that happening. And therefore I have no problem with it.

~ Regards, PA


I don't mind private religious schools either (although I think the brainwashing can be problematic) - as long as they meet and teach a certain standard of curriculum. That means that they teach history, real science, good english and writing, and so forth.
bee
QUOTE(Paranoid Android @ Sep 26 2007, 05:00 AM) *
[I don't have any problem with this school. Faith-based schools are quite within their right to teach whatever Faith they want. A Muslim school can teach Muslim values and beliefs, a Catholic school can teach Catholic values and Beliefs. A Buddhist school can teach Buddhist values and beliefs, and a Christian school can teach Christian values and beliefs.


I think that the grey area of 'faith' schools is when religion gets closely involved with politics....
which may be inevitable when the numbers of members of the said religion gets into the millions
or billions.

Specific religious values can be voted in through the democratic system (where democracy is the norm).
Or dictatorial power can be maintained through sheer power of numbers (without democracy).

So...when specific religious views get the upper hand...and are enforced onto the general population...
religion becomes politics.

So 'faith' schools become, in a way, 'political' schools....power bases for political aspirations.


momentarylapseofreason
We are moving back to the U.S. and already I'm being pressured by relatives to put my girl in Christian school. (Baptist-which I can't stand-the whole concept -everything about it !
They are even offering to drive her everyday and they are ready to save her.
I love some of my family but they are not going to like my answers to that one.
If my girl wants to she can,but she doesn't want to at all
. But she's alraedy rolling her eyes when she reads the creationist story & Noah's ark.
Our whole family is very much into the sciences (obssessed) and things don't match up to her either.

I wouldn't mind sending her to Catholic school they are very different from the evangelical christian schools.

I still feel religion belongs at home but hey-as long as it's not teaching hate and intolerance I can live with that.

They have an obligation to teach evolution too but can sum it up with "however this is what we believe and this is why".

IamsSon
QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 25 2007, 07:43 PM) *
Not all of them.

How can you be sure that it wasn't ALL of them? And if even SOME of the did make an intelligent, well-rationalized decision to maintain the values and beliefs they grew up with, they, along with you and those others who did walk away make a joke of your point, since that means those "poor brainwashed" children you are so concerned about are not so brainwashed after all. Sorry, but you do not strike me as being intellectually inferior or superior, just an average guy, so if an average guy can "walk away" then the brainwashing must be really bad, so stop worrying about it.
__Kratos__
QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 01:14 PM) *
How can you be sure that it wasn't ALL of them? And if even SOME of the did make an intelligent, well-rationalized decision to maintain the values and beliefs they grew up with, they, along with you and those others who did walk away make a joke of your point, since that means those "poor brainwashed" children you are so concerned about are not so brainwashed after all. Sorry, but you do not strike me as being intellectually inferior or superior, just an average guy, so if an average guy can "walk away" then the brainwashing must be really bad, so stop worrying about it.


I wouldn't go towards rationalized as I would self deluded but that's another story.

I am an average guy for the most part. Yet, I went to public school rather then having my education be religious. The fact still remains that these schools are brainwashing children. The purpose of their parents paying thousands of dollars for their kids to go there is so they will recieve that religious schooling to retain those beliefs for the rest of their lifes. It's no different really then the warlords in Africa brainwashing children to fight for them.
ragus
QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 26 2007, 02:22 PM) *
...The purpose of their parents paying thousands of dollars for their kids to go there is so they will recieve that religious schooling to retain those beliefs for the rest of their lifes. It's no different really then the warlords in Africa brainwashing children to fight for them.

It is evident that you really have no idea of why parents send their children to private Christian schools.

~HaParash~
I would chime in and say something about how it's wrong...but it's a private school Kratos. No use b****in' about it. Unless you want all private faith-based institutions dismantled and want only Atheism to reign supreme. If that's the case, you despise a person's freedom to believe as they will and to raise their children as they please.
__Kratos__
QUOTE(ragus @ Sep 26 2007, 02:34 PM) *
It is evident that you really have no idea of why parents send their children to private Christian schools.


To give their kids a religious education is the biggest reason.
IamsSon
QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 26 2007, 02:22 PM) *
I wouldn't go towards rationalized as I would self deluded but that's another story.

I am an average guy for the most part. Yet, I went to public school rather then having my education be religious. The fact still remains that these schools are brainwashing children. The purpose of their parents paying thousands of dollars for their kids to go there is so they will recieve that religious schooling to retain those beliefs for the rest of their lifes. It's no different really then the warlords in Africa brainwashing children to fight for them.

So, now you're equating insuring your children are raised with Christian values to kidnapping children from their families, terrorizing them and then rewarding them for killing other humans? No, Kratos, you are not attacking Christianity that is so obvious, how could Devol have even considered that? huh.gif
ragus
QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 26 2007, 02:34 PM) *
To give their kids a religious education is the biggest reason.

One can get religious education at church or home. There are many, many reasons parents send their kids to private Christian schools. I am a parent of two children that attend one and my list of reasons is numerous, to say the least.


Devol
Yes, I suppose it was quite the rant. Sorry I took the time to write it, as you're not going to take it to heart anyway.

QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 25 2007, 11:19 PM) *
So? According to belief it's fact. original.gif

For you, it is. For the rest of us it's bulls**t.

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I don't single out christianity though christianity is a big thing because of the huge population of them in the country I live in and in the media I read. This forum is also Spirituality vs Skepticism.

Of course not! Surely it's not you who posts all these anti-Christianity threads to start an arguments! Must be another Kratos I'm thinking of.

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Who cares if I don't believe it? I can still discuss it just like how I can discuss the Dark Tower series by Stephen King. Niether one is real to me. original.gif You're so mad that I critize belief and then you're mad that I do it when I don't believe. I know believers here that don't believe in evolution or such but still use evolution facts to critize the theory and I haven't (maybe you have?) see you slam on them for posting. original.gif

Two wrongs make it right, in other words? My, you're quite the intellectual, aren't you?

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Childish? You get over it.

Quite mature of you!

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My god (ha ha!) you're like obsessed with me. If you don't like my posts, I do not care. I simply do not care. Put me on ignore. Scroll over my posts instead of reading them. Just pretend I don't exist then. You say it's me with the problem but no, it's really you with me. I'm not going to change.

It's so simple to ignore those who speak out with hatred and contempt, isn't it? Surely, you do it all the time! Oh...wait...

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But here we have it... We're all entitled to our opinions and beliefs... Even ohmy.gif me.

True! But how many of us are entitled to our hatred? You go on and on about how Christians hate and segregate and murder and rape and this and that...but when has any of that been a common practice amongst Christians? I digress. Continue the war, Kratos, because fire is best fought with fire! Hatred with hatred. Contempt with contempt. The world doesn't change to accomodate any of us, Kratos. Why should it be any different for you? Sorry, you're not that special! Go call that bully a few more names now, why don't you?
Tangerine Sheri
QUOTE(Mr Walker @ Sep 25 2007, 08:05 PM) *
Well I guess society in general, and social institutions such as schools in particular, will always try to impose those beliefs and behaviours they see as best /most positive on all members of the society. Personally I get furious at Social movements in schools; based on false realities, and imposing one set of beliefs on all.

My two pet hates are ; encouraging kids to recycle, when in fact this is a political appeasement, which in terms of energy and resource usage is actually creating a net negative effect on the environment.
Second, and newly arriving in Australian schools, is the removal of Non -healthy food from the school environment. Some schools were actually(illegally) going so far as to remove food from kids lunch boxes, and replacing it with what they determined to be healthier options. Apart from the police/nanny state implications, there is a lot of disagreement about what is really healthy for kids.

Getting back into context, schools should not be in the business of either validating, or denying, matters of personal belief, whether these are; religious. economic, environmental or dietary. A lot of modern Australian high school courses have a distinct bias against capitalism because they were written by academics who are the product of a university system which, at best, has very restricted social view points, and at worst, is terrribly out of step with the realities of the world, and society in general.

Schools should not get in the road of kids developing a diversity of honest and balanced belief systems.

Having said that, I am talking about a govt/public education system. If people choose to send kids to private schools for reasons of economic advantage or social/ religious beliefs that remains their prerogative in a democratic/free society.

Mr. walker as a mother understanding diet is a big part of parenting....my gosh the rise in obesity and learning disability astounding and really its diet, a child must have minerals and vitamins and water, in my neighborhood alone most of the kids have broken something already.. the fast food junk diet is the biggest contributor, I feel one of the best things the public schools have done is take out the junk food, and soda machines can you imagine soda machines, IMo might as well of been cigarette ,and alchohol venders...My gosh as a parent one has to teach the child about good eating,just as we teach to not drink alcohol, smoke or do drugs for the sake of your vessel we call the human body, so many kids are sick that is what we noticed when my son was in public school running noses, coughing etc... we felt it was poor quality diets processed foods , processed means all that is good has been taken out also all is frozen for months nothing is fresh, i looked into it my son took a lunch ..its still disgusting the food i say kids eat, and they wondered why these kids were not able to focus, and were taking apart their desks , the behavioral issues alone are unreal, and really unfair to the kids that want to learn........ .... I was a kid , i had to eat my veggies, too few kids in my time were obese, or had learning disabilty or behavioral issues.....I do not drink soda never have, never will......
Michelle
QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 26 2007, 07:34 PM) *
To give their kids a religious education is the biggest reason.


No it's not.

Our public schools are sorely lacking and overcrowded. The best way to insure a top notch education is to go to a private school, most of which are church based. Some people even send their children to these schools to ensure that they are exposed to the most prominent families giving them a foot hold into the business world. It's much like Mom and Dad belonging the country club...to make contacts.

Outwardly being a Christian is, unfortunately, a good business move. It's basically the way I was raised, but without the Christian school. I went to a school across the state line where they were much better.
__Kratos__
QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 02:35 PM) *
So, now you're equating insuring your children are raised with Christian values to kidnapping children from their families, terrorizing them and then rewarding them for killing other humans? No, Kratos, you are not attacking Christianity that is so obvious, how could Devol have even considered that? huh.gif


No, I was merely comparing that out of all those child soldiers very few of them break out of their brainwashing - Just like in these types of schools.

QUOTE(ragus @ Sep 26 2007, 02:42 PM) *
One can get religious education at church or home. There are many, many reasons parents send their kids to private Christian schools. I am a parent of two children that attend one and my list of reasons is numerous, to say the least.


Again, the entire point of these schools is to keep children in the faith. If they weren't, they wouldn't have labeled them (enter religion here) school.
moonlit12
A few quick things...
I went to both public, and private school, and my son has attended both public and private school, and I find it difficult to relate to the opinion that religious education is wrong. The things I teach my son at home are best absorbed when presented in varying ways (ie. home, school, church) I am a responsible parent in the sense that I take responsibility for the way my son acts and thinks, and treats others, and I am proud to say that my (and others) teaching him religious values has had wonderful effects on his behavior and the behavior of the chidren around him. He tries to be an example in his public school third grade for honesty and obedience, and I know it is because I am always trying to reinforce these and (many other) values. Brainwashed? Of course! If I want my son to behave in a certain way I teach him the best I can to do so. How else does a person teach a child?
Christian school by definition teaches christian ideals, etc... I am undisturbed by learning that they actually do that in christian schools. If a public school did so, I think I would be shocked though, because it is not expected.

I wish I could understand better the reason that christianity offends people. I hope I raise my son well enough that he also chooses to lead his family to follow Jesus and teach his children to do the same. Generation to generation.
Devol
QUOTE(Zombie Jesus @ Sep 26 2007, 12:17 AM) *
uhh.. that IS the problem sir/mam, thats what every non believer HAS a problem WITH sir/mam.
Why DOES a nonexsistent being inspire so much war rape hatred against humanity.
Its not about if the "being" is real or not. Its about the people who claim it is real.

And kratos has every right to hold that stance on religion, how dare it alter any aspect of a non believers life, it has no right. Religion exsists in the believers mind, where it should stay.

I'd think my gender would be apparent from the MALE entry next to GENDER on my post ID, but some of us aren't that observative, apparently.

So, you're point is that because people believe in a God you don't, they should be slandered? Every one of us has the right to believe whatever we want, but none of us has the right to degrade anyone else's faith simply because they've got a problem with it. You can have all the issues you want with God, the Bible, the Church, etc...but what gives anyone the right to insult and attack anyone else's beliefs?

Believe whatever you want to, that's your choice, but leave me to believe whatever I choose in kind. The "Golden Rule" works no matter what religion you accept or deny. Take care!
eqgumby
I think Kratos went over the edge. It's no more brainwashing in this case than the indoctrination of political correctness that kids in public school go through. This is just another attempt to create an uproar when there is no need for one. These kids aren't being taught that Jews are sub-human by AL Qada Mickey. They are not being told that it's a duty and an honor to kill and die for their Deity. It's a private school, and if it was non-secular school that taught science and ignored spirituality altogether, guess what? It would be called PUBLIC school.

This is a non-argument. Scare tactics at best. In the future, when these kids are adults, they will likely be productive members of society. I bet the ratio of that happening compared to public schools is fun to look at.

Private School = success
Public School = roll-the-dice
MissMelsWell
QUOTE(eqgumby @ Sep 26 2007, 01:24 PM) *
Private School = success
Public School = roll-the-dice



Oh I don't know about that. BUT, here's the deal I think.

Kids who are enrolled in private religious schools have parents who are paying a huge amount of money to send their kids there. Because of that, parents tend to protect their investment quite carefully. Which means they take an active role in what the school is teaching and how well their kids are doing. There's no magic in a Private school education, but PAYING for it does tend to be a wake up call for parents. They don't want their money wasted.

Public school on the other hand is a hands off kind of deal. Your kids wake up in the morning, you send them there for 6 hours, kids come home, and when you finally arrive home from work 4 hours after that, the kidlette bats his cute little baby blues and says "yes, parental unit, I did my homework" ... a parent whose children are in a large public school has no way to find out of kidlette really did their homework or not. Not until report card time, and sometimes not even then.

It's a customer service issue sometimes. Public school teachers aren't trying to attract paying students, they have nothing invested in making sure your kid learns anything. They just do what the administration says to do. They brush off parents who want more information. They don't have to give it and most aren't even interested in giving it.

Private school teachers have to be pro-active if they want to keep their jobs. No students, no jobs. They are there not only to teach the child, but they're also responsible for being pro-active with both students and teachers to keep the almighty dollar rolling in the front door.

There's no real difference in cirriculum really... it's just the level of involvement and responsibility... the dollar is what keeps the private schools pro-active.
__Kratos__
The major difference in teaching PC (which is getting far out of control) compared to religious "values" is that you're not telling little kids that hell is very much real to scare the living hell (ha ha!) out of them. Hell and it's terrible description is very much real to a child in the same way Santa, the Easter bunny, tooth fairy and such are very much real.

Then of course then you have the instilling of bigotry that never gets old with religion... A good slant against homosexuals and lesbians, abortion is murder and not a woman's right, telling them that the bible is factual (despite their gross lack of evidence), among other lovely items. You're right, they're not all being told to kill or that jews are awful. I can agree that the ones that are in a very select minority.

Quite frankly the bible is innappropiate to give a child. You wouldn't give a child a Jenna Jameson DVD to watch would you? (I hope you just mentally said "no")

One quote from the bible - Ezekiel 23:9 to verse 21 which I will not post here because I know there are some younger eyes lately around this section but it's quite X-rated. Please look up that verse at Biblegateway.com or your own personal bible and then tell me here that you would be fine with that material in the hands of little children.

JMPD1
what difference soes it make? Its a private schhol. The parents obviously believe in the teachings and want to pass them on to their offspring.

Whats the flap? Its not like they are forcing their beliefs on others, meaning non-believers.
Tangerine Sheri
QUOTE(MissMelsWell @ Sep 26 2007, 02:57 PM) *
Oh I don't know about that. BUT, here's the deal I think.

Kids who are enrolled in private religious schools have parents who are paying a huge amount of money to send their kids there. Because of that, parents tend to protect their investment quite carefully. Which means they take an active role in what the school is teaching and how well their kids are doing. There's no magic in a Private school education, but PAYING for it does tend to be a wake up call for parents. They don't want their money wasted.

Public school on the other hand is a hands off kind of deal. Your kids wake up in the morning, you send them there for 6 hours, kids come home, and when you finally arrive home from work 4 hours after that, the kidlette bats his cute little baby blues and says "yes, parental unit, I did my homework" ... a parent whose children are in a large public school has no way to find out of kidlette really did their homework or not. Not until report card time, and sometimes not even then.

It's a customer service issue sometimes. Public school teachers aren't trying to attract paying students, they have nothing invested in making sure your kid learns anything. They just do what the administration says to do. They brush off parents who want more information. They don't have to give it and most aren't even interested in giving it.

Private school teachers have to be pro-active if they want to keep their jobs. No students, no jobs. They are there not only to teach the child, but they're also responsible for being pro-active with both students and teachers to keep the almighty dollar rolling in the front door.

There's no real difference in cirriculum really... it's just the level of involvement and responsibility... the dollar is what keeps the private schools pro-active.

I agree, Parental involvement is the key, regardless of the private versus public....the availabity of intellegence in the immediate enviorment, thats why they send home the questonairs it gives them an idea of what resources the kid has access too..... a teacher can do very little if a child has no support system..meaning many things are learned in the home and the teacher can only do so much if anything. ....
if a parent sits and does homework with the child even 5 minutes a day can be the differnce between a kid that struggles or sails smoothly , i know parents that work and they do what it takes... what few parents realize its really very little to do to help the child and it on the parent too...... Now they have parents come to meetings as a group to discuss the simple ways to help a child.... I do feel just because we send our kids to school doesn't absolve us of our part too...
IamsSon
QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 26 2007, 05:07 PM) *
The major difference in teaching PC (which is getting far out of control) compared to religious "values" is that you're not telling little kids that hell is very much real to scare the living hell (ha ha!) out of them. Hell and it's terrible description is very much real to a child in the same way Santa, the Easter bunny, tooth fairy and such are very much real.
Why are you so fixated on hell, Kratos? There is MUCH MUCH more to Christian beliefs than hell, in fact, hell really doesn't come into 99.99% of the conversations I have with my kids, and I would venture to say it's not a huge topic of most conversations between children and parents or students and teachers. In fact, you, as a non-believer, probably spend WAAAAY more time thinking and talking about it than most Christians do..... I wonder why?

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Then of course then you have the instilling of bigotry that never gets old with religion... A good slant against homosexuals and lesbians, abortion is murder and not a woman's right, telling them that the bible is factual (despite their gross lack of evidence), among other lovely items. You're right, they're not all being told to kill or that jews are awful. I can agree that the ones that are in a very select minority.

There are people who do not consider themselves particularly religious who are opposed to homosexuality and abortion, Kratos, and additionally, those are valid values for people to have, just because you do not agree with them does not make them improper values.
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Quite frankly the bible is innappropiate to give a child. You wouldn't give a child a Jenna Jameson DVD to watch would you? (I hope you just mentally said "no")

One quote from the bible - Ezekiel 23:9 to verse 21 which I will not post here because I know there are some younger eyes lately around this section but it's quite X-rated. Please look up that verse at Biblegateway.com or your own personal bible and then tell me here that you would be fine with that material in the hands of little children.

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"Therefore I handed her over to her lovers, the Assyrians, for whom she lusted.
(Eze 23:9) Oh my gosh!! Yes, that is just as graphic as a porn DVD!!! LOL give me a break, Kratos, this is fantastically childish of you. How old are you again?
__Kratos__
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Why are you so fixated on hell, Kratos? There is MUCH MUCH more to Christian beliefs than hell, in fact, hell really doesn't come into 99.99% of the conversations I have with my kids, and I would venture to say it's not a huge topic of most conversations between children and parents or students and teachers. In fact, you, as a non-believer, probably spend WAAAAY more time thinking and talking about it than most Christians do..... I wonder why?


It's a good point to make. Just because there are other elements of the faith doesn't mean I, a nonbeliever, am going to simply forget about the awful parts of faith.

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There are people who do not consider themselves particularly religious who are opposed to homosexuality and abortion, Kratos, and additionally, those are valid values for people to have, just because you do not agree with them does not make them improper values.


That there are others doesn't still mean that the faith doesn't preach them however. They're improper values to me... Isn't this what this discussion is about and what forums are for? Our opinions?

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(Eze 23:9) Oh my gosh!! Yes, that is just as graphic as a porn DVD!!! LOL give me a break, Kratos, this is fantastically childish of you. How old are you again?


Read on. I said verses 9 to 21. wink2.gif

Childish because I don't think graphic sexual references should be in the hands of innocent children? unsure.gif
IamsSon
QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 26 2007, 05:56 PM) *
It's a good point to make. Just because there are other elements of the faith doesn't mean I, a nonbeliever, am going to simply forget about the awful parts of faith.

There's a BIG difference between not forgetting and ONLY focusing on that.

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That there are others doesn't still mean that the faith doesn't preach them however. They're improper values to me... Isn't this what this discussion is about and what forums are for? Our opinions?
Of course they are, but then you should also be ready to have those opinions questioned shouldn't you? Isn't that what the forums are also for?



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Read on. I said verses 9 to 21. wink2.gif

Childish because I don't think graphic sexual references should be in the hands of innocent children? unsure.gif
I said it was childish of you to compare that to a porn DVD. But even so, doesn't it make sense then to have adult supervision when children are reading the Bible, so that they may guide them to the more age-appropriate passages?
__Kratos__
QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 06:18 PM) *
There's a BIG difference between not forgetting and ONLY focusing on that.


Hitler kissed babies... Why don't we remember that more often?

QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 06:18 PM) *
Of course they are, but then you should also be ready to have those opinions questioned shouldn't you? Isn't that what the forums are also for?


Indeed, I've learned a lot from UM by having my own opinions questioned.

QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 06:18 PM) *
I said it was childish of you to compare that to a porn DVD. But even so, doesn't it make sense then to have adult supervision when children are reading the Bible, so that they may guide them to the more age-appropriate passages?


It's not a far stretch. Not really, it doesn't make more sense. I honestly doubt they give bibles to children and then tell them not to read certain verses.
IamsSon
QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 26 2007, 06:27 PM) *
Hitler kissed babies... Why don't we remember that more often?
I'm sure the neo-Nazis do.

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Indeed, I've learned a lot from UM by having my own opinions questioned.
That's good to hear.


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It's not a far stretch. Not really, it doesn't make more sense. I honestly doubt they give bibles to children and then tell them not to read certain verses.
"It's not a far stretch"? Wow. OK, I guess from your point of view they are... makes me wonder how much porn you watch that you have gotten so desensitized that you think it's equal to this passage. huh.gif
Tangerine Sheri
There are people who do not consider themselves particularly religious who are opposed to homosexuality and abortion, Kratos, and additionally, those are valid values for people to have, just because you do not agree with them does not make them improper values.

son this is your quote, above i would just like to say as NB that i do not find bashing homosexuality"a value" or again forcing a pov (biblical) on another as to define how one should love for me as long as it does no harm....... nor do i find imposing a POv on one who has been raped or sexually victimized, or hasn't received a proper sexual education or whose live could be lost due ot a pregnancy or the child severly r******ed... who opts for an abortion a valueless person either...

i also want to say that a liberal christian, and most NB's enough to infer alot of them look to each situation on the abortion thing the same you ask us to do for you.. so your comment is a bit of a huge sweep ...IMO...
sede-x-teh-bomb

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I'd think my gender would be apparent from the MALE entry next to GENDER on my post ID, but some of us aren't that observative, apparently.

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So, you're point is that because people believe in a God you don't, they should be slandered? Every one of us has the right to believe whatever we want, but none of us has the right to degrade anyone else's faith simply because they've got a problem with it. You can have all the issues you want with God, the Bible, the Church, etc...but what gives anyone the right to insult and attack anyone else's beliefs?


THATS EXACTLY WHAT I SAID!
BUT when those beliefs are forced upon you against your will and your forced to live according to someone else's delusional "truths" you have every right to retaliate wouldn't you agree?
and you can understand why it would leave somewhat of a sour taste in the mind of a normal, curious, THINKING human.


Something Like Laughter
QUOTE(__Kratos__ @ Sep 26 2007, 02:22 PM) *
I wouldn't go towards rationalized as I would self deluded but that's another story.

I am an average guy for the most part. Yet, I went to public school rather then having my education be religious. The fact still remains that these schools are brainwashing children. The purpose of their parents paying thousands of dollars for their kids to go there is so they will recieve that religious schooling to retain those beliefs for the rest of their lifes. It's no different really then the warlords in Africa brainwashing children to fight for them.

And public schools are any different? Take a private religious school, substitute religious belief with consumerism, Marxism, or whatever view is popular with the powers that be, add weapons and lower the chance of students coming out functionally literate and you have got an US public school.

Unless you want to dismantle our entire educational system, which would probably be a good thing, we are going to be stuck with someone forcing their values onto students. It is impossible to be taught with out that happening.
sede-x-teh-bomb
QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 06:14 PM) *
How can you be sure that it wasn't ALL of them? And if even SOME of the did make an intelligent, well-rationalized decision to maintain the values and beliefs they grew up with, they, along with you and those others who did walk away make a joke of your point, since that means those "poor brainwashed" children you are so concerned about are not so brainwashed after all. Sorry, but you do not strike me as being intellectually inferior or superior, just an average guy, so if an average guy can "walk away" then the brainwashing must be really bad, so stop worrying about it.


so if a "average guy" can walk away
according to your logic.. what does that say about the remaining believers... lol

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__Kratos__
QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 06:52 PM) *
I'm sure the neo-Nazis do.


Indeed. Only people following will try and bring up the good stuff. Why would I bring up the fuzzy wuzzy stuff of what I'm argueing against?

QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 06:52 PM) *
"It's not a far stretch"? Wow. OK, I guess from your point of view they are... makes me wonder how much porn you watch that you have gotten so desensitized that you think it's equal to this passage. huh.gif


It's still pretty graphic for a young child. I don't see how anybody can agrue that it isn't.

IamsSon
QUOTE(Supra Sheri @ Sep 26 2007, 06:57 PM) *
There are people who do not consider themselves particularly religious who are opposed to homosexuality and abortion, Kratos, and additionally, those are valid values for people to have, just because you do not agree with them does not make them improper values.

son this is your quote, above i would just like to say as NB that i do not find bashing homosexuality"a value" or again forcing a pov (biblical) on another as to define how one should love for me as long as it does no harm....... nor do i find imposing a POv on one who has been raped or sexually victimized, or hasn't received a proper sexual education or whose live could be lost due ot a pregnancy or the child severly r******ed... who opts for an abortion a valueless person either...

i also want to say that a liberal christian, and most NB's enough to infer alot of them look to each situation on the abortion thing the same you ask us to do for you.. so your comment is a bit of a huge sweep ...IMO...

Sheri, please read what I wrote. I did not say "bashing" homosexuals was a valid value, I said opposing homosexuality was a valid value.

QUOTE(Zombie Jesus @ Sep 26 2007, 07:06 PM) *
so if a "average guy" can walk away
according to your logic.. what does that say about the remaining believers... lol

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It says that they are also average people who chose to stick with the values and beliefs they grew up with.
Heru
I went to Christian Private Schools most my childhood except my senior year. Based on teaching of facts, Private Schools (whether religious or not) blow public schools out the water. Public schools are a joke from my experience.

And only a small group of kids were what you would call bible thumpers (and yes like public school they were picked on). We had drugs, sex and rock n roll. Our school offered arts, computer courses, speech, trig and latin.
In bible class (we had 8 classes instead of public schools 7) we learned how to translate Hebrew and Greek. We memorized and had to recite infront of class a few of shakspear's poems plus many more victorian age poets. The only time god was incorporated into our studies was during bible class and homeroom. Yes we had to attentd chapel but only on thursdays. Every year we took placement tests, and while most scholarships were for christian colleges a few were looked at by universitys (my brother being one for Basketball). The school also had to meet state requirments for us to graduate.

And in 9th grade one of our group projects was learning about other religions and giving a oral report in class (we had lots of oral reports). In one of my classes someones mom had a divorce and so he brought up how the bible looked down upon it and on remarriage. The teacher told us where the verse was, read it to us and told us to ask our parents there view on the matter.
We learned about Evolution, and while my school didnt support it they taught it in science class.

There goal wasnt so much on keeping or converting people to christianity. But on teaching us in a christian evironment. Just like how our parents were raising us in a christian evironment. So if we were brain washed we were brain washed way before we step foot in class.



MissMelsWell
And you know, the vast majority of Christians don't even believe in a literal "hell" the Bible actually talks very little about it until you get into Revelations.

Most Christian kids are brought up with the "childrens versions" of the Bible. Young children are taught the simple stories like Noah, and how Jesus was a good guy that went around healing everyone and was nice to everyone. They're most often given the "Bible Lite" version. Very very few children are sat down with a KJV and told to read it cover to cover. Mostly they wouldn't understand what they were reading in the first place.

when they're older, they're able to understand, but by that age, they're also able to form their own opinions. And, by that age they've also been exposed to hmm... network news, violent video games, school yard fights, all 78 Halloween movies and much more. The Bible isn't going to come as much of a shock by then.

Sure, I've heard parents say "if you steal that gum from the 7-11 you're gonna go to hell!" But, I"ve also heard parents say "if you steal that gum from 7-11, the police are going to come and arrest you and throw you in jail for the rest of your life" ... it's not that much different.
sede-x-teh-bomb
QUOTE(MissMelsWell @ Sep 27 2007, 01:05 AM) *
And you know, the vast majority of Christians don't even believe in a literal "hell" the Bible actually talks very little about it until you get into Revelations.

Most Christian kids are brought up with the "childrens versions" of the Bible. Young children are taught the simple stories like Noah, and how Jesus was a good guy that went around healing everyone and was nice to everyone. They're most often given the "Bible Lite" version. Very very few children are sat down with a KJV and told to read it cover to cover. Mostly they wouldn't understand what they were reading in the first place.


if got wanted children to read a "bible lite" version wouldnt he have written eternal life for dummies or something?
why would children not get the full version unless there is something shamefull to hide from them?
dont they deserve the truth? what is it about the bible children should not know? what will happen if they find out about these things you dont want them to know?
when did the religious human become morally Superior enough to decide when a child is able to read what is in the bible, did jesus say anything about this? i think he said quiet the opposite.
(on a side note i do find that funny, one of the first main arguments a theist will use as a pro for religion is the moral benchmark it has provided us all, without it we would fall into chaos, yet, it seems the moral bench mark is constantly chopped and changed by contemporary religious society to fit in with the rest of the normals to simultaneously appear normal but obviously moraly superior because gods on their side :/ )
infact most of these "children" you refer to would have been married with children when this crazy book first hit the shelves.
go figure.
sam12six
I think there's nothing wrong with teaching religion in a religious school. I also went to private and public school growing up, had read the entire bible (even the dirty parts - maybe especially the dirty parts (loved those psalms innuendos)) several times by the time I was 12. I gotta admit - I've never in my life been unable to sleep because I was worried about hell.

The reasons there are soooo many christian schools are IMO:

1) Any church sponsoring/running a school will have a built-in customer base of people who feel obligated to send their kids.
2) When a parent wants their kid to get a better education with more teacher face-time, private school is often the answer. Except for the really high dollar schools, there aren't really private schools available that aren't religious. I think, if you opened a cost-effective, non-religious, private school, you'd need to offer free tuition for a couple of years or something. People won't trust a private school that has no track record unless it's sponsored by the church they attend.
IamsSon
QUOTE(Zombie Jesus @ Sep 26 2007, 08:47 PM) *
if got wanted children to read a "bible lite" version wouldnt he have written eternal life for dummies or something?
why would children not get the full version unless there is something shamefull to hide from them?
dont they deserve the truth? what is it about the bible children should not know? what will happen if they find out about these things you dont want them to know?
when did the religious human become morally Superior enough to decide when a child is able to read what is in the bible, did jesus say anything about this? i think he said quiet the opposite.
Actually, God provided parents who are supposed to be responsible for their children's education, to protect them from situations and content which they are not mature enough to deal with yet.


karl 12
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Such a sad and disturbing article. Those poor children being brainwashed from such a young age. sad.gif Amazing how this is allowed to go on.
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Great post -this clearly shows the high levels of conditioning and indoctrination that goes on at some 'religious' schools.
This kind of manipulative brainwashing should be seen as a diluted form of abuse and should be stopped.
Instead of being forcefed religious propaganda,these kids should be afforded the luxury of arriving at their own conclusions.
IamsSon
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Such a sad and disturbing article. Those poor children being brainwashed from such a young age. sad.gif Amazing how this is allowed to go on.
Great post -this clearly shows the high levels of conditioning and indoctrination that goes on at some 'religious' schools.
This kind of manipulative brainwashing should be seen as a diluted form of abuse and should be stopped.
Instead of being forcefed religious propaganda,these kids should be afforded the luxury of arriving at their own conclusions.

They are CHILDREN!! They are not born knowing how to reason for themselves, that's why parents stick around to raise them and don't just wander away like most animals do. They are not being brainwashed any more than kids in public schools who are trained to think "we're ALL winners and there are no losers" are being brainwashed.
Something Like Laughter
QUOTE(karl 12 @ Sep 27 2007, 09:38 AM) *
Such a sad and disturbing article. Those poor children being brainwashed from such a young age. sad.gif Amazing how this is allowed to go on.
Great post -this clearly shows the high levels of conditioning and indoctrination that goes on at some 'religious' schools.
This kind of manipulative brainwashing should be seen as a diluted form of abuse and should be stopped.
Instead of being forcefed religious propaganda,these kids should be afforded the luxury of arriving at their own conclusions.

Taken a look at public schools lately?

If you don't have a problem with public schools, then stop complaining. If you wouldn't mind seeing the whole system of compulsory education done away with, I guess you can continue.
eqgumby
I think this is a bogus argument. Private schools are better, period, and if religion is mixed in, so be it. The success rate of, and rate of kids that go on to college far out-weigh those that go to public schools. Go through Forbes, find the people that went to public vs private school, and compare that ratio to the amount of people that go to public vs private school. It's a no-brainer.

Tossing in this brainwashing crap is just the secular lefty agenda's way of scaring people, yet no one will balk at the liberal agenda that most students are subjected to in college.
IamsSon

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JMPD1
QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 08:19 PM) *
Sheri, please read what I wrote. I did not say "bashing" homosexuals was a valid value, I said opposing homosexuality was a valid value.



Why?
Beckys_Mom
QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 26 2007, 01:22 AM) *
So, basically, those who did not walk away from their belief MUST be brainwashed?

Well it's his opinion, actually a lot do think this too...just in the same way a lot of religious people think that those that don't hold the faith in God are brainwashed or braindead ohmy.gif or just stupid lol...I have seen a number of comments similar to that yup!!
ASOP
Call it brain washing call it lies call it what ever you want .I beleive in GOD and I teach and want my children to beleive. Mind you I dont think everything is in the bible I think alot of it is missing. My children go to public schools I dont think that makes them any less religious. I beleive what I beleive I dont tell others they are wrong if they think other wise.
__Kratos__
QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 27 2007, 08:08 AM) *
Actually, God provided parents who are supposed to be responsible for their children's education, to protect them from situations and content which they are not mature enough to deal with yet.


So now parts of the bible are unfit for children?

QUOTE(IamsSon @ Sep 27 2007, 10:05 AM) *
They are CHILDREN!! They are not born knowing how to reason for themselves, that's why parents stick around to raise them and don't just wander away like most animals do. They are not being brainwashed any more than kids in public schools who are trained to think "we're ALL winners and there are no losers" are being brainwashed.


That's part of our evolution that children will trust older people to guide them. They are being brainwashed into believing weird and cult like material. Shoving religion down a child's throat like this is nothing short of brainwashing. If it wasn't brainwashing these children would have more access to education without a biased approach.

I think "we're all winners" idea is completely stupid and it shouldn't happen. I loved being the winner... It's what kept me from losing in gym. laugh.gif Though teaching real facts to children in school and teaching them rules about society isn't brainwashing, it's giving them a real education.

QUOTE(eqgumby @ Sep 27 2007, 11:22 AM) *
I think this is a bogus argument. Private schools are better, period, and if religion is mixed in, so be it. The success rate of, and rate of kids that go on to college far out-weigh those that go to public schools. Go through Forbes, find the people that went to public vs private school, and compare that ratio to the amount of people that go to public vs private school. It's a no-brainer.

Tossing in this brainwashing crap is just the secular lefty agenda's way of scaring people, yet no one will balk at the liberal agenda that most students are subjected to in college.


What's that? My argument is that it's wrong to do this to children, regardless if it's lawful. What is always lawful isn't always right.

Scaring people? Are you high or something? They're teaching in school that Moses' story is fact. blink.gif
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