This might sound extremely stupid but maybe not to you guys. I put it off most of the time because I feel like I'm being silly. I don't even believe in extraterrestrials. My boyfriend is weird, though. Let me explain.

How we met, the odd things we've done to be together, how he ended up in jail for 51 days because of me, and so on are irrelevant. I'll just start with the reasons why I think something is up.

First of all, he's extremely intelligent. I know, a lot of humans are. But he's the most intelligent man I've ever met. He likes to make fun of people every chance he gets. He could make Plato or da Vinci look stupid. He's got this aura about him where he gets hyped up in a rant or conversation; he jumps out and raises his voice and becomes very passionate. His eyes bug out and he moves his hands. He makes me feel uncomfortable and I get away from him. He doesn't get along with hardly anybody. To him, people are trash. He goes on about "the select few". He's also a communist.

When he hears music, it has to be without singing or else he mocks the voice. He's into psychedelic progressive rock from the 60s and 70s with no lyrics and lots of instruments. He plays the guitar when he gets high. It's c or d chords that sound melancholic.

Does this sound odd? Probably not. But I haven't told you about what really bothers me.

He has webbed hands and fingers that curve at the ends...

He has an incredibly long forehead...

His eyes are the strangest and most powerful eyes you'll ever see...

And importantly, he jokes about being apart of an alien race from Atlantis or being Aryan; from somewhere foreign. He claims to be Lebanese and mixed European.

This could be really stupid or I may be onto something. Help me out. Do aliens come in human form? Are these signs? I'm embarrassed to even be posting this but it's worth a shot. Please don't ridicule me.

Nothing weird I think...Well I mostly don't like people around me that much too, that is why I have very few good friends (But damn, those few are best people I have ever met), Like one of my friends makes fun of everything, not the lame not-funny teenage jokes, but sarcastic ones...nothing weird, he is very intelligent too, He really loves correcting people when they say something that's not really right...+ he used to play guitar, so I would say that's nothing extraordinary...weird in a good way, but nothing more.

yes i think you have a humanoid on you hands.
most of US are peaceful but some are very protectful.

do he like to drink alot?beer,liquor or water?also why
was he in jail for long>?did anybody mess with him in jail>?

hopefully this does not bother you but most people today
are mixed except for the remote areas of the wilderness

i have one more question what country is his grandparents from?

does he believe in GOD or what kolurs is his auroa greenie or red?

I thought Stephen Fry was gay??

I know most of what I said sounds normal but not a lot of people have webbed hands that curve at the tips or long foreheads or striking eyes. Nobody else I've met.


Nope, he won't drink alcohol. Isn't that strange? He says he hates the taste of it. He likes water but he's not fond of it.


He was in jail for helping me out illegally. There were a few people who wanted to fight him but he avoided it.


What do you mean? You think people are part alien but don't know it?

Lebanon and Europe, I guess.

He claims to be agnostic. I don't know what color it would be. I don't think I've seen one.

I'd say your Boyfriend ....From Space ........ Not . A Space cadet ....definitely.

This guy just sounds like a weirdo with a chip on his shoulder to be honest ....i'd tell you to lose him but if he's done bird for you it wouldn't be very nice would it ?...just keep an eye on his weirdometer and as soon as he steps up a gear....drop him like a hot potatoe.
Anyway tell us more about what he did for you to end up in jail ? We wont tell anyone

Umm...if he looks that weird, post picture of him or something...might try joking with him sometimes too, like - heh, sometimes you remind me of alien from outer space, and check his reaction or something (Personally I think it's not a big deal, a bit weird, that's all...but you never know )

+ I have this really weird guy in my school, he is...just weird, some psychological problem or something, he reminds me of alien sometimes too, we were talking about some shows, and it seems he really likes sci fi...and he is blond, somewhere someone said that aliens could disguise as blond humans...(Not that i believe it, just a funny coincidence, nothing more)

where does a dude with a gigantic forehead & webbed fingers get off making fun of anybody???

Well if you realy want to know ppl oppinions then please submit a photo of his striking eyes, and mayb tell him to solve something VERY VERY hard?

You should know that theres an human code to how smart we are, the smarter we are, the more social codes we loose.(Not saying that applys to every1, i mean those who are still young but knows and can do TREMENDOUS alot that ppl that have worked with the "stuff" in prolly 40years cant.

He should have told them they’re not part of 'the select few' and followed that up with a 'do you have any idea who your ****ing with' ?!





Hahaha

Yeah, i wouldn't worry i'm sure your boy friend is not an alien but he sounds like a complete tool.





School girl error, she should have got out whilst he was doing a spot of bird. Head start out the country.

Okay, well they're not really glowing in his jail picture but they still look weird to me. See how big his head is?



I don't think he's a bad guy. I'm just paranoid I guess.

thats just a bad blond joke

OK i see what you are taliking about now

does his eyes change color? like if wears a

blue shirt does his eyes blend to blue>?

Yes, I don't think your boyfriend is an alien.

But I think you both need help. Serious professional help.

Seems like ordinary guy...I mean, if I put my imagination to use, sure I might find some resemblance between him and well...greys or whatever, but nah, he looks like nothing out of ordinary.

Yeah, either that, or you just have a queer boyfriend.

Lol. I'm in a public place right now and I can't help but laugh. You're making me look stupider than I already am for posting this.

red_rum - Naaw, I read it in some book about alien encounters some time ago, and he damn sure looks like one of those guys pictured in the book So yeah, we are making jokes bout him being an alien sometimes

greenie - I've seen people stating A LOT weirder stuff.

Yeah, put up a picture. I wanna see what a stoned commie looks like.

I did. It's on p1.

lmao ya your boyfriend sure is weird
im not tryin to ridicule you
but y an alien?

How 'bout a pic of his webs? I'd say he just acts weird for attention.

He's actually the one who comments on how he's so elite. He's mentioned that he was an alien before...but jokingly. It still makes me suspicious.


I don't have a photo of his hands =p

Good god. Yeah, it's for attention. I'm surprised he hasn't been punched in the mouth. Or has he?

I hit him when he hurts my feelings and makes fun of me. Not hard, of course, but he thinks I'm joking.

I already know he's an attention seeker but I give him that attention and that's why we get along. After all, this whole ordeal was dedicated to him and it seems like I'm paranoid for nothing.

well then thats weird
as far as an alien goes highly doubt it
hes jus weird along with millions of other ppl in the world
no offence tho

Has he got a monobrow?

Greenie,

The picture looks like some ordinary guy, a little irritated that a corrections officer is taking his picture, and maybe a bit of a tall forehead, but not alien. He actually does look like he has Lebanese in his blood.

As far as his elite attitude, there are two reasons why he would have this:

One is that he is very insecure, and tries to cover it up by acting like a pompous ass, and the other is that he may be incredibly intelligent, yet lacks any kind of social skills. Honestly, I would like to suggest that he can't be that incredibly smart if he was busted and put into jail for 51 days because of helping someone illegally. But that's not for me to judge.

Biological anomalies, high foreheads, and superiority complexes do not equal an alien. I think you basically have a regular joe, but just from what you have said, and how he treats people, he is probably not someone I would want my daughter to be dating. Just take that into consideration. Be careful.

Sorry but he looks normal to me. When you described him I was like What? But his picture is not as bad as you say. Sounds like he is a know it all with issues. And if your not comfortable around him then its time to walk.

Well now i've seen the photo, actually he does look a bit 'shifty'

Yeah, shifty as in: don't let this guy hold your wallet for you.

Not shifty as in: I am a superintelligent being from Atlantis, and all you inferior humans will someday bow to me, your lord.

He's a commie stoner. That's all I need to know.

So, your boyfriend (who looks perfectly normal to me - his forehead is hardly huge - his hair is just receding, which happens to the majority of men when they get older) is sarcastic, rude, insulting, angry, goes into uncontrollable rants, brags about being alien, refuses to make friends with people, takes drugs, and willingly commits crimes. And, by the way, making fun of people is not a sign of intelligence. Not at all.

Sounds like a real catch.

Rather than ask if he is an alien, I would ask what you have against your own happiness?

By your pic and your discription, it looks like someone has done him some harm when your boyfriend was child.

Big head is not "et-alien" - a lot of people have large heads - no ego jokes please...

Web fingers:
I would suggest you do an internet search, like:

Healthline: Web Fingers.

As for his 'social interactions skills' - there could be a lot of reasons for that.

A. His childhood was hard - because kids made fun of him.
B. He does have a high IQ and found himself isolated because of it.
... I have a nephew who is now an adult. He went through this BIG TIME. In fact he still has issues w/inter-personal relationships and such. His IQ is his own "social problem".
C. Both the above.....

I honestly think if you just stepped back and looked at his "big picture" and did just a looked at this with a little objectivity - you'd likely see the reasons for his 'issues' - and they have nothing to do w/being an "et-alien". He's just a human that more than not had some tough issues he went through ....

Ooh. A lot of thoughts come to my mind. First of all, I think alien is a bit far fetched.
But there certainly are people, who are somehow more special than others. You may not see it in a photo, but you can feel something strange being near them. Some people just leave an everlasting impression. Maybe he has "strong aura"- but that doesn't make him an alien.
It is also common that wunderkinds despise other people, because they are simply bored living with the less inteligent...
Maybe he is an indigo person?
Or simply egocentric narcissist.
Or simply excentric.
OR you love him too much and it makes you think he is some higher being, and you notice every little weird thing of his, which seems to you more and more important and unusual, and you think you have met nobody else like that before, and while he is definitely a weird one, to you he becomes almost supernatural!
(It has happened to me )

Greenie...your boyfriend sounds like a jerk...

...why don't you let me show you how a real man treats a woman?

(If you are 18+ of course!)

Thanks for your reassuring sense. I didn't think strongly about it 'til I got bored today and decided to ask people I thought might consider it honestly.

For those that said he's human but with some issues, I'd say you're right. I surely have some for suspecting he's an alien, too. He was abused as a child etc. but he is who he is.

Which is a dousche bag by your description. You mentioned you give him the attention that he's always reaching out for and that's why you two get along.

Is that what you want out of a relationship? To always have to feed into someone's cry for attention. What if your attention stops being enough?

A few things to consider... good luck!


P.S. regarding the OP question; no, i don't think he's an alien.

L O L @ BP

He sounds like a scary guy that I would be running far far away from-fast!

It's ok people, I'm a psychic..
ok I'm tuning into his aura now..... focusing.. just give me a couple of seconds..
My god. He's .... he's killed people. lots of people.

wow... that's a turn up for book. I need a cup of tea... anyway, hope that info (breaths in) didn't ruin anyone's lives..

Ah, well. That clears that up...I think we can put this thread to bed now.

I advise you to get out of this relationship because your boyfriend is mentally ill, has violent tendencies and is also secretly gay.

He is rebeling against the society he was brought up in which is why he's a communist. He looks down on other people and has the attitude towards them that he does because in his mind he doesn't like some aspect of our own society which he see's in them. He see's communism as the solution and thinks he's more intelligent than others because only he reconises it.

His comments about Atlantis suggest that in his mind he thinks he's perfect. This plus the attitude towards other people suggests to me he is mentally ill and the illness is malignant narcissism. People suffer from this when they have been mentally damaged in some way and the over the top ego and looking down on other people are the outcomes. The rebeling is also why he does drugs and listens to the junk that he does.

He has already demonstradted he hates other people through his attitude towards them. Such hatred and strong belief in Communism means whatever it is he doesn't like about our society it has effected him badly. I think you will find it made him gay which he keeps secret. Just like you feel threatened by him when he starts shouting and ranting other people do to which is why he has no friends (plus the attitude as well).

I hate to tell you girl but I think he's a potential nut. You need to get away from him.

LOL

Alright, has everyone got that out of their systems now? It is not any of our places to tell her who to dump.

No, I don't think he's an alien, and yes I do think he sounds like a messed up guy who is by all of my definitions a complete jerk, but it's her decision. She didn't come here to ask whether or not she should stay with him, she asked if we thought he was an alien.

Jesus, since when did everyone here become relationship columnists?

That made me spit my drink everywhere

I'm feeling nice today. Yes, I think your boyfriend is an alien.

Somehow, I just can't see this thread going anywhere good.

Closed.