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by SunDogDayze:That is just stupid. I am sorry but I don't believe in the religious part of Christmas, but I think it is a fin holiday for my child. America is supposedly about freedom of religion and such, and as a person who wants a secular state, I totally disagree with the banning of anything pertaining to ones beliefs that does not cause harm to anyone else. .
but dont you think your right to a secular christmas is just as viable as christians' right to a christian christmas?
I agree, I do think it is not right to ultimately ban anything religious. I think secular means, that it does not follow an official belief system, but it does allow expression of all belief systems including Atheism. I believe religion and beliefs do participate in cultural traditions, I think it's fear that is persecuting Grandma. I grew up secular, and do not believe prosetylizing, but I also think it's ridiculous to ban the word God from the Pledge of Alligiance. To me, that is a part of tradition.
A friend and neighbor of mine had a son of hers sent home from the public school her son and mine were attending, because he wore a t-shirt that said, 'I love Jesus'. She got fed up and enrolled her son in a Catholic school. A relative of mine agree with the schoo and said that you can't mix religion or prosetylize in a public school. In one sense, I agree with him, but I understand with my friend's frustation. I do not think that the shirt was prosetylizing. It was only an expression. If it said, 'please love Jesus', I think I would understand the school's ruling, but this is now just holding a child's expression at bay, and I wonder what is really going to happen next with someone else. I just think we are just not capable of knowing what is the middle ground in this country. It's just fear and anger that either goes one way or way towards the other way. Do we feel it's alright to be prosetylized and do nothing about it, or just do we put a hold on all expressions for fear we are being prosetylized against?
But now there is something else here too, and I want to express it...
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by darkmoonlady: To christians who feel somehow "marginalized" by the removal of religoius themed holiday decor all I can say is B-O-O H-O-O, because in all reality they never once thought in all the last two thousand years that other people weren't all christian. They still don't think that. In the United States despite what religious fundamentalists would have you believe, its a melting pot. People of many faiths and no faith all have the right to belief what they will. Christians who insist on angels or baby jesus creche displays ON PUBLIC PROPERTY are in for fight plain and simple. If you want that up in front of a church no one can or will stop you. Try to put it on public property then yes you will be fought and you'll more than likely lose, depending on where in the US you are.
If I asked to have a Pagan Yule display put up on public property do you think that some christian wouldn't get his undies in a twist over it? You bet, because everyone who has beliefs deep down thinks theirs is IT. Its basically a religious pissing contest come every December, but in all reality the Christians started it. By believing that they had the hegemony over the holiday season to say it meant what they said it meant, they left open the door for others to say wait a minute, isn't Christmas really Candlemas, or Yule, not to mention now we have Kwanzaa and of course Hanukah? It's fine if in public spaces they covered all bets and put up stuff for everyone but the dominant (not by numbers but just by sheer pushiness) displays have tended toward the christian. That causes problems, because not everyone is christian. If christians would ever get this then maybe they'd stop feeling so "persecuted" and learn to play nice with others. Till then the fight continues...
I work in retail, and have been all my adult life. It's has always been the greeting, "Happy Holidays!' since I remember. Now, some people are getting quite angry over this, and think it's a war on Christmas and on Christians. I do get angry with this. I even had a guy, who I was waiting on, when I wished him 'Happy Holidays' yell at me about that and screamed 'Merry Christmas!' at me, like it's a threat! I couldn't do this, for I was working, but I so desperately wanted to scream, "Well, Happy Hanukah right back at you!" I wonder what his response would have been? Would he dare to act his rage with the possiblity of Jewish individuals in the store. I know of atleast two who I work with there.
The fact of the matter, as I know it. the term 'Happy Holidays' is for everyone, not against Christians. This is a nation of the free, right!?! It is a freedom of religion. I do believe also a freedom from religion, or this nation wouldn't be entirely a free nation then, right? If we wanted to wish everyone their holiday, then to every single customer, we would all say in one breath, 'Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukah, Happy Kwansa, Blessed be a Winter's Solstice, Happy Ramadan, and others I am sure that is celebrated at this time. "Happy Holidays is shorter and includes everyone! Inside your house it's your religion and holiday, outside of it, it's everyone else's!!
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by Beckys_Mom: Question...when was the USA discovered again??? shot in the dark here but wasnt it founded by columbus?? and didnt it happen in around the 1400's (1491/2) and found native americans there...so later America grew and grew and grew...that means America was built up long after Jesus was on the face of this planet.....and I believe christianity entered that country after that...so I think that all of those christian americans that have roots in the USA...that are christian..have a right to keep their christian holiday...its their culture after all
Yes, they do have a right, and so does everyone else, but mostly the Native AMericans! I'm a little ticked by this statement. Don't you think that those who do have the right to their holiday is the Native Americans? They were there first and pushed aside! They have their beliefs and celebrations long before the birth of Christ! I'm sorry, but this angered me.
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by DarkMoonLady: As for christmas as we know, by the way, its not an old tradition in the sense that it has crystallized from many traditions down through the years. That familiar christmas that we've come to know, isn't even old christian ways, its more like from the turn of the last century and a smidge before. Now WINTER traditions go back a heck of a lot further than christian traditions, so if you want to get in a debate over cultural capital, then by far the christians are out done by those winter traditions. Just because "it was brought over with christians" doesn't make it ok to exclude or assume that its the only relevant belief during a holiday season. There were Jews who came over too who do not expect JUST a menorah to be displayed during the holidays. No one is saying don't celebrate your holiday, just don't assume everyone is celebrating the same thing you are and that there just might be other beliefs out there besides yours.
And that is how I feel. Granted, I'm with the not keeping the lid of Christian holiday celebrations and stuff, but it shouldn't be the only thing everyone is feeling is being banned. When I was living in Jersey, I was so proud of a particular neighborhood that made the news. A particular Jewish family had their menorah on thier windowsill per their belief, and someone broke the window and stole menorah and smashed that. In response, the rest of the neighborhood, all Christians and displaying Christmas lights, all had menorahs lit in all of their windowsills. I thought that was so beautiful. Yes, they were expressing their faith in their religious holiday, but they also felt that their neighbor had that right too. Where I live now too, I have Jewish neighbors, and it doesn't feel festive until their menorah is in thier window. It just makes my festive neighborhood feel complete.
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by dggnumby: YES YES YES!
And THAT is why I get so PISSED when people start these "God is Evil and eats babies" posts! They are VILIFYING and entire religion! One that, like it or not, has FORMED the western world as we know it!
You're right, and it's just stereotyping the Christians in such bias hatred as well as others. I do not blame you.