From a guys point of view:

We don’t care if you talk to other guys.

We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys.

But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there.

We don’t care if a guy calls >OR TEXTS< you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can’t wait
till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you’re pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/
cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don’t tell us we’re wrong.

We’ll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.

Don’t be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.

let us pay for you!

dont “feel bad”

We enjoy doing it.

It’s expected.

Smile and

say “thank you.”

Kiss us when no

one’s watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed.

You don’t have to get dressed up for us.

If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to
wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for who you are and not what you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up

Don’t wear things that will flaunt yourself to other guys.

it makes us feel like you just want to show off to the other guys when the only guy you should be impressing is me.

Don’t take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don’t get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don’t talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.

It’s boring, and we don’t care. You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word “handsome“/“beautiful”

I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me
with “Hey handsome!” instead of “Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy” or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )

Also “getting some” is not the only thing EVERY guy cares about.
Girls, proof of this is if a guy will wait for you to be “ready” to “take your relationship to the next level”

Not all guys are the same. And we’re not all perfect either. We’re only human.

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren’t being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change. ditch his sorry, disgrace to the male population ass and find someone who will treat you with utter respect

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your
lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes....and say “i love you” ..and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance

Guys reply to this if you agree

Girls reply this to if you think it’s cute

Every Guy who isn’t a jerk will agree with this, so I hope that all the girls that read this will repost this

*Holdin Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of
times.
Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.

*Cuddling
Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you’re cold
Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

*Loving each other
Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her
too… And mean it.

*Laying below the stars
Girls : When you’re both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers

The thing with alot of girls is that they have been so cut down by others its hard for them to understand that they are beautiful. Some dont know how to react to a compliment. The you have those who are afraid of being alone, afraid they wont find someone who will actually treat them right. When a woman is with a man .. and she gets a call in middle of the night, dont be afraid of anything, she is there with you, however the call may be something important. She should acknowledge that you are still sitting / laying / standing beside her when someone calls / stops by etc. But however this works both ways. Treat someone the way you want to be treated.
Thats just the way I am.

The thing is that when we are 13 years old this stuff works. at 22 it's like getting worked over.....again. I want some one to tell me...You are not the prettiest girl i know or have known but I freaking love you. I can't imagine my life without you in it.

I somewhat understand. Men wouldnt be men if they didnt have that built in evolutionary ego.
Some ppl are selfish and dont care for the depth of emotion behind such little things that are asked, beg and hoped for.

Your words arent just another poem but a realization of the woman that one day will make you very happy. respectivley.
Tis romantic I must say.
Theres not enough out there like you.

I remember feeling awkward and uncomfortable about being in public with a boyfriend or just goin out for a meal.
I so madly most of the time wanted to just say what I feel, but never had the guts.
"Oh and being a lady" "blah blah" was always in the back of my mind.

So dont take to much to heart, when you feel this way, the other one is feeling aswell.

but not put your arm around her shoulder and try to cop a sneaky feel of her chest.


Girls : Please don't ask us which dress the blue or the red is better on you, because it makes us sad because we know that no matter what choice we make we are still doomed and in for a ear bashing , even if when we say you would look good in anything you put on we still get a ear bashing and are told that we are useless at making choices.

Girls: Please don't ask us if a item of clothing makes you look fat we are never going to give you a honest answer because we like the use of our arms and legs.

Guys : When you wish to take a girl out on a date..a chip shop is not nice and bringing all your guy mates is even worse.

Guys: Telling your Girlfriend that the girl over the road has a nice cleavage always brings pain and suffering and loss of limbs.



Nice list to the OP

RM- I adore what you wrote. You are a true romantic; not many of your kind left in this world. I utterly admire you for that and please don't ever change. YOU are a good MAN. Any woman would be blessed to have you as their guy. Much love♥ Jody

I wish that people really loved each other still......Holidays are so lonely.
I was really sad the other day when I saw a pair of Scooby-Doo boxers at wal-mart. wierd huh.

People do still love each other hun. It's just a matter of finding the perfect fit for you (and don't ever expect someone to change - they usually don't). It's not always easy but sometimes when you DON'T look *poof* there they are... Never doubt love hun. It will be yours one day and then you can buy those scooby-doo boxers for him. Or hell, buy them for yourself and wear them! Always love yourself first; then others will fall into place. *words of wisdom from the old lady* hehehe.

Much love♥ Jody

You do realize he didnt write that right, it was a copy and paste job lol

I seen that on myspace

oh

well... I still liked it.

yeah it was good

Now put it into practice and people like me can believe in love again..and seriously guys you kinda have done a number on girls out there because look here...I believe in God, aliens, fairies, and the Loch Ness Monster, but I find it hard to think about love in terms of reality....hmmmm.....wonder why that is.....the pain?

Yeah but don't act like women are saints. We all have our fair share of piss poor qualities and piss poor ppl in the world.

Two way street

mhm. riiiiiiiiiight. im kidding. I know. but still....still still still.....the evil ones get the guys.. i have seen it...succubi all of them...

lol

seems like on both ends of the spectrum, the shallow takes its toll.

PPL are too superficial anymore. I blame tv!!!

I used to have a pair of those! And if I remember right...One of my ex's bought em for me for christmas... Weird.

For me to say my opinion about love would require you to ask me to tell you every day for a week. Because everyday I think of some different experience in my past that either makes me miss the girls I've dated or wish they were dead.

I admit it. I'm no saint. I'm not even close. I have cheated on a girlfriend. There wasn't even a reason for it. Unless you count my ex-girlfriend seducing me while my current girlfriend didn't try once to seduce me. But hey, we had only been dating a couple weeks or so. Regardless, my girlfriend had done nothing against me, and I ended up cheating on her with my ex.

I can at least say that I haven't done the same thing since. And that was almost 10 years ago. Since then I have tried to be the best boyfriend I could time and time again. 10 girlfriends, 5 cheaters, 3 fiancees and 1 wife later... I can't help but wonder from day to day if love is real.

Women do the exact same thing that men do. They want the super-hot alpha male guy. Just like men want the super-hot alpha female chick. Problem is...most of the time if they DO get that person, they find out they're a dick and rely on their good looks to get through life. And if they settle for the mediocre looking guy they tend to fantasize about the super-hot alpha male guy when they're not near the guy they're with. Just like guys do with women. Whether it's from pop culture influences or not, I can't really say. It's just what I've seen.

Now I'll also admit to being fairly shallow too. I think a girl should be able to take care of herself. Whether it be physically, emotionally, or with business. But I do follow much of what this poem says. Pretty much always have. But many of my ex's still felt the need to cheat on me... And if any of you can tell me why, I'd love to hear it.

I think maybe I'm just tired of giving my all and getting nothing back

-C

Nice reply C. It's always best to be honest with yourself. No one is perfect, even in the most loving relationship. I'm not saying adultry is okay. NO NO NO...but like they say, "you may be on a diet BUT you can still look at the menu". I don't think what you have said is shallow. It all comes down to security with each other, I guess. I think what you said is quite accurate. Happy Holidays! Jody

Edit to say: Oops, I almost forgot. The reason they cheat on you is because they are not worthy of you. Simple as that.

wow that was good, I like that...bout time a guy version of that came out

"Ah wah" Sneaky cheeky pinching poetry".

RM? Dont let the ladies find out about that one! lol

Awww, you're too sweet Jodi. Thanks.

-C

Hey I only POst ones that I would do or that I agree with or that I have written. this is one of the few posts I have NOT written. Besides I never claimed to have written it................ I just never disclaimed it either

let me say to Ravergirl.Dont hold what some guys do to heart,Its burned into our genes to try and be manly in any situation regardless of how we feel inside,I on the other hand have much respect for women,I've been married for 16 years and love my wife very much and without her I would give up hope,she is my rightarm,my friend,my lover.to try to live without her is my worst nightmare,like I've said before in some other post:We as men need only to respect them,love them,protect them.Life on this planet without women is what I would call HELL. I found out early in life"THANKS MOM" that women on this planet is a blessing and we as men need only to remember that and act on that and not take them for granted.It was Gods gift that women were placed here and it should be treated as such. Ravergirl I have a feeling that someday soon the love of your life is looking for you and will find you,Dont get hung up for what some "STUPID GUY/GUYS" have done to you for what I see the words you use are of someone that has only been treated badly,You seem to me to be a very intellegent person and that alone is more than most guys deserve,You seem to be a dimond in the rough and the right guy will come forth some day to let you shine like you should,keep the faith,believe inyourself and your knight in shinning armor will soon sweep you off your feet.Heck if I was still single I'd be trying to hit on you. You jsut have to believe in yourself and the rest will follow.

VERY NICE POST!!!!!!! I think we have found the true Romeo, Kidding aside, You are a very very wise man and I must say, You should give your mom a kiss and tell her thank you . These fine qualitys are not given they are taught and she did an outstanding job, Give her a kiss., always a pleasure, I almost fogot dad deserves a great deal of credit too!!!!!!!!

that was so cute!!!

I'm glad you posted it. I thought it was lovely Jody