ok me n my gf we went to the grave and saw a lil boy in the stone like shadowed in from dirt n stuff and when i told her she showed me the side and it said it was decated to there son that passed away

anyways it was 4 in the morning last night and my dog was whinning and it was really bad like really scared of something , so i turned to the end of my bed and like that for a second i saw a figure of a lil boy, kinda having puffy hair like 17 century era with holo black eyes, his head was turned to me and like i scramed and banged on the walls and closed my eyes when i say and like everyone woke up and told them what happened. then later like 5 mins i started feeling something on the end of my bed, like someone pushing down on it , i though it was my dog but he was on the side of my legs, this was at the end near my feet, and it felt like someone kinda small like a kid was standing on the bed, so i looked but nothing. but i couldnt go to sleep after and i slept in my car today when i got in the city T_T

so idk what to do to fix this. i rememebr crossing through the plants to get closer to it, touching the marking on the grave and kinda did some stuff with my gf there too. so are the sprits mad at me, how do i get there forgivness and stop this from happening to me again
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ah i finally found it. ill start off by suggesting a cleansing IF you feel your house is truly haunted. you may need a good week to get the feel of the house, but again you down want to psyche yourself out if there isn't anything there. But a cleansing can consist of burning sage and going through every room in the home and telling the spirit to leave. Again idk if it is melevolent or not...your going to have to make an educated guess

has this happened alot or just once?
If you did stuff on a grave with your girlfriend its most likely that you have gotten the atraction of a spirit some how.
My dad used to work at a grave yard before, and he has gone through some very freaky sh**:P