I've been posting this on yahoo answers for quite some time now.....

I figured I'd post it on here just for the heck of it....


(I'll eventually be back and re-post this in more detail or whatever......)


and I know it's really long...but I'd aprreciate it if you read the whole thing and give me your input (even if it is just "Its just a dream. You're crazy.")

but I'd really like to hear some thoeries (like maybe I'm having such a hard time finding her is because she's from another time period....)

and some references would be good (if we are gods or whatever and travel through time....then there should be some sort of record somewhere.....maybe someone got a picture of us or we're in some anceint legend or something [the closest legend I can find so far is the last humans that hide in the tree of life or w/e in the norse story of the end of the world])

anyways...

here ya go!




Ok....

There is a girl.

I keep dreaming of her.

I have for years.

But.....I've never met her.

And she doesnt look like anyone I know.

She is my soulmate.

I love her more then anything.

When we're together....there's nothing we can't do. We are gods. We can travel to any place we want and to any time.

For the most part we never speak.

We just hold each other in paradise.

I believe that anything is possible.

I just dont know how to find her....

Please help!
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She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen and I just think about her and I am filled with joy. In my dreams we hardly ever speak....we just hold each other...have fun....like childhood friends......I remember laying in the sun with her on a rock in the middle of a river....I remember watching the sun set in Hawaii on the edge of a cliff (I've never been to Hawaii) I remember falling asleep with her on the roof of her house while we watched the stars and the moon come up. I remember what she looks like. I feel like I've known her all my life....but I don't even know if she's real...... is it possible for someone to have a connection with there soulmate like this?
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She's a little shorter then me (I'm 6'). In my dream she has shoulder length hair (that could just be the length when I meet her. It may be a different length now) She has brown/lightbrown hair with blonde highlights (She occasionaly dies a strip of hair in the front...pink, blue, purple...etc) She has green/blue eyes. She likes the outdoors and likes to lay on her roof at night and watch the stars. She either is taking or has taken some form of martial art. She likes swimming, biking and exercising. Also.....she's my age or a couple months younger then me (I'm 19) and she's skinny but not eating disorder skinny....more athletic skinny I guess.....
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"Many soulmates dream of each other months or even years before they actually meet. It seems that they rendezvous in the ethers before the relationship ever lands on earth. A mysterious dream lover or a stranger who waltzed into a room in your house in a dream, may have alerted you that your soulmate reunion had been divinely planned for the near future."
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Also....her name may or may not be Emily Jones......(it popped into my head one morning after a dream)
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...and compared to how often I have a dream about her and when....I am having more dreams about her more often (now one every couple of weeks instead of once a year)

Could this mean that we're getting close to finding each other?
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Also....I now have a girlfriend that I am very much in love with...

But I am still having these dreams...

So it's not because I'm lonely....

Last night I had a dream....

I dreamed that we were in this old church building thing somewhere in the UK.....and she told me her name was Jamie....

Then I dreamed that as soon as I woke up I got on a plane and flew to the UK...

I then went to this place.....

It was made of stone and the inside looke like that basement of an old church and there was a room with an iron fence where people were buried on the other side they even had dolls and stuff lined up that they used to own and there was a bunch of people there taking pictures (like tourists) and there were cobblestones on the floor and some of them had writing on them and I found a bracelet made of mistletoe and was told I'd need it to find her and I used a phone to call my family to let them know I was ok...outside were british cars and one of the graves was mine
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The grave was mine from a past life.... (I think hers might have been there too...)


And I've already checked all the Emily Jones's on myspace and facebook (yes.....ALL of the.....or at least all the ones that come up when you search 'Emily Jones' or 'Em' or 'Em Jones' or 'Emily J'...etc.....)

well... if you truly believe this.. and you're confident she could be looking for you as well... you might try getting your name and description out there..wait and see what happens.

get yourself a facebook, myspace, bebo, all that stuff and maybe she'll find you

what about searching Jamie intead for a change? lol i've had dreams where i've seen people before, this has happened to me only twice. its kind of creepy though its like its there for a reason, yet theres nothing you can do about it to solve it or like whats the point of having it? i've never seen those people i've seenlike twice in my dream but i remeber them in my dreams. wierd.

just be careful, anyone can see what you have written and pretend to know want you want. but besides that, this is pretty interesting....

Well, I'll just say what first popped into my head.
Have you read Karl Jung, or about his archetypes? She could be your feminine side, Anima, that would explain why you feel so close to her. Maybe you should look for her inside, not outside. Anima can be projected to other person, but it makes you in love with Anima (that is, yourself) and not with that actual person. If you look hard for her, you may find someone that is similar and project your anima on her, which wouldn't be real.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anima_(Jung)
Of course, I could be wrong, I'm not Jung expert... but consider it.
Also, in my opinion, the fact that she may be a creation of your consciousness, doesn't make her less real or less important.

at times our mind can see the future yet the things we see are usually out of our control, i don't know if what you are saying will happen and come true or maybee its a stranger you glanced at along time ago and forgot about and maybee its just wishful thinking or some kind of entertainment your mind does while sleeping, hey it could happen you could meet her and fall in love and live happily ever after,BUT i want to tell you something for your own good it might happen it might not but you shouldn't base your entire life around this possibility you might miss out on somethings if you do, i want you to try to look for her but don't obsess or get your hopes up too high you don't even know who it is according to your stament, if you obsess you might run into a wall and a big let down.

My husband said that he dreamed of me when he first got married to his now ex-wife. He told me in the dream I kept hitting on him (so not like me I don't flirt), he would keep brushing me off and I'd come back at him flirting away. We had never met (never ran into or even seen each other) before this or really anytime during his marriage (at the end during his divorce is when we met). I also had maybe a couple dreams of him but his face was always a black silhouette, we were always talking normally. One other dream I had was of riding in his car going home it was night time, I saw every detail down to the cracked window in his car, even the exit ramp details and such but I never turned my head towards him it was like I was blocked from doing so. So maybe you are dreaming of her, maybe it's of a few past lives with her.

This is a really interesting topic.
If you can, I think that next time you dream about her you should try and find her full name and maybe some more details about her. If she gives you them then do some serious research into her.
The idea of dreaming about your soulmate years before you meet them is wonderful. It must be so frustrating for you though, not knowing/understanding and stuff.

Well, keep us updated!

B.

Are the dreams lucid? When you're having these dreams about her, are you aware that you are dreaming or do they simply seem very real?

I think it's just a dream. I mean, anything is plausible, but maybe you just saw someone like her somewhere once.
The description sounds a lot like me when I was a teenager. I even practiced a little martial arts and used to color a blondish stip of my hair different colors with a highlighter. That was years ago though. I'm an old lady in my thirties now.

She sounds more like a twin soul than a soulmate to me. The twin is an energetic companion. A soulmate would have a romantic interest in you and it did not feel that way to me. The twin and yourself have common areas of interest. The key distinction I picked up on was that you said there was little conversation. The silent understanding is best accomplish with the being that is most like you energetically. Your twin soul.

If your intent to meet her is romantic and the real purpose of the dreams is working together for common goals, you will not find her in the flesh.

This is what I think.

John

Nyx - I have a myspace and a facebook and all that stuff......but I keep remembering something someone told me years ago..."True love can reach across eternity and conquer even time itself"...so I sometimes wonder if she is in another time (like maybe she's living a 100 years in the past) and at some point in my future we will meet up.....which means in her future (my past) she has already left her timeline....so I've also been checking out stories of girls that sound like her that disappeared without a trace...


Lost Souls - Yes. I've been searching for Jamie as well as combinations of the names Emily Jones and Jamie. (I've also been trying different names in case I heard her wrong....like Emily James instead of Jones or Jamie) but the odd thing is....I don’t usually dream about people...and I've dreamed of Emily more then I have of anyone else.


loganXman - I do try to be as careful as I can....but at the same time I want to do everything possible to find her....as for people pretending....if it's really her, I'll know it.


justejust - No...I've never heard of Karl Jung....but I have considered that possibility. I don’t know if she's my feminine side or not....but I do feel that she is what I would be like if I were a girl.


chris57 - No...I don’t think I've ever seen he in real life before......I have a photographic memory and I never forget a face (to the point where I'll pass by someone in a store...then see them again years later and remember their face and what they were wearing but cant figure out where I know them from....) I don’t think its my mind trying to entertain me either....all my other dreams are very entertaining (I get to play the superhero...save the world and such...) and I go through cycles....right now I'm in the "She's gotta be real!!! I have to find her" phase. This will go on for another couple of weeks....then I'll change to the "She's not real. Quit being an idiot" phase....this will last anywhere from a few weeks to a few months....and it usually ends when I convince myself that she is not real and that I'll forget all about her and get on with my life (then I have a dream of her telling me to not give up....not to forget her). But I have entertained the possibility that I'm just plain nuts


Ambrosia~Ismene - In my search for Emily I have heard many stories of people finding their future spouses through their dreams (either dreaming of them or their phone number or something....) Past lives.........here's where things get a little tricky....for most of my life the idea of past lives has gone against my religion (I'm Christian).....I've believed that there is something to....but lets just say my opinions on the subject did not go over well with my church......but I've noticed that a few of my dreams have been in stone buildings (like those found in Europe during the middle ages) in my newest dream Emily and I were actually trapped inside a large medieval church (we got snowed in) and while we were there she baptized me (This is the part where the people from my old church burn me at the stake ) but I feel that God is all powerful....and to say that something is impossible is to deny His power.


Pointless_Nostalgic - I would love to be able to get more information from her.....and if I'm ever able to, I will.....the problem is that when I finally do dream of her, it's so awesome that I kinda just like stand there drooling I'm just so happy to be with her that I forget to ask her what her name is or where she lives or for her email address....I don’t care that I don’t understand it....I don’t understand a lot of things.....but the frustrating part is not knowing if she's real or not.....if I could just know one thing about her it would be that......because if I know 100% that she is real....nothing will stop me from finding her....


WraithGod - My dreams about Emily are not usually lucid. They are real to the point where it feels more like a memory then a dream.......which is interesting to note because the majority of my regular dreams ARE lucid......I know its a dream and I know I'm dreaming...and I can control the dream if I wanted to but for the most part I do not (its like watching a movie....I know its a movie and I know I'm watching it....and I could pause it or rewind/fast forward it if I wanted to....but its a lot more relaxing/entertaining to just sit back and watch what happens)

frig - They are just dreams.....but I have yet to determine if there is anything more to them. Is Emily real? or is she just some girl in my dream that my subconscious made up for whatever reason? and 30 isn’t old…. you're only as old as you think you are

John A Spera - I only used soulmate for lack of a metter term....there is a connection between us that is deeper then any I have ever known......and there is a degree of romanticism....but there is nothing sexual between us...


Thank you all for such great replies! I will continue to keep you informed the best I can....and if I ever get around to it, I might even try to type up a description of each of my dreams (In order) and try to give as many details as possible. Maybe you guys will spot something I missed.

Thanks again!

~PJ

When can we expect the movie to come out?

Lol, well stop drooling mister!
This whole thing seems really adorable and I really hope you get to find everything you want to know about her soon. And like I said before - let us know what's going on and i'm sure you'll find plenty of help!

Good Luck,

B.

First of..... in reply to Mr.Dot - I actually have considered at least writing a book about it...not the whole "I had a dream about a girl I never met" thing....but about Emily and I....the things we've done...places we've gone....things we've seen.....to see if it strikes a chord with anyone and to have a good record of everything...

Ok...

now a lil something before I go to bed....


(and just for those taking notes......I losen up most when I'm tired.....its also when my thinking becomes a little more out there then it already is.....thats why a lot of my posts are/will be made late at night)



The very first time I saw Emily......gosh......I must have been no more then 10 or 11.....I remember because all my life (up until recently) about 99.99% of all my dreams were nightmares.....and I was having this one dream about a giant tree that had grown in our back yard and it had wolves that were living in it....and they were sleeping on the branches but when I went outside to look at them, they woke up and ran down the tree to get me (and ya ya ya.....I know what you're thinking....'Thats not scary'....but when I say wolf I mean a big, tree-climbing wolf with giant teeth and sharp claws and drool and red eyes and all that good stuff.. and theres about 30 of them.....and my dream itself injects fear into me......things that I deal with when I'm awake and dont bother me are utterly terrifying while I'm asleep)

so anyways....there I was......30 of these mosnter wolves coming to kill me.....I want to cry I'm so scared......I turn to run.......and there she is......I'd never seen her before in my life.....but she was the most beautiful girl I had ever laid my eyes upon.....and I felt.....safe....protected......and I forgot all about the wolves.......it had been dark and cloudy......but when I saw her the sun came out and there were bright blue skies....she didnt say anything......she just looked at me...and she smiled...... ....I'll never forget that smile.....


Her hair is what I remember most.......it was shoulder length and a light brown/strawberry blonde with these bolnde highlights in it.....it was so cool....

and her eyes were this bright green with a hint of ice blue to them......

I woke up the next morning smiling.......but as the day passed I grew said.....for I had just met my dream girl (litterally) and she wasnt real.....




It was almost a year before I saw her again.......I dreamed of her twice that night.....these dreams were different though....they were more like memories.....or like I was watching something that had already happened.....

The first time, she was standing my the upstairs window in what is now my room.....(there was plywood on the walls....idk why) and she was wearing this purple dress with these matching purple gloves that came up pass her elbow (kinda reminded me of something you'd see in the victorian age)....her hair was longer this time....and curly (it was straight before) and she was looking out the window.......I believe it was raining......

then in my second dream we were in the middle of an old, dark forest (like the one from sleepy hollow) she was there (again in the purple dress) and there were a few other people there but I couldnt see their faces....there were two men on horseback and they were waiting for my to get on mine (it was a big black horse) just as I got to the horse, the girl (at this time I had not yet found a name for her) yelled "Wait!" and she game running over to me (the ground was muddy) she said "Here..." and took a necklace of and handed it to me "Something to remember me by..." I took it, smiled, then kissed her on the cheek. When I got on my horse, right before the other men and I rode off into the forest, I looked back at her, smiled again and said "I could never forget you."


and now I'm off to dreamland! (Hopefully to dream of her!!!)

Goodnight and God bless!

~PJ

OMG are you serious? Get out there and date! A tip: She doesn't exist and if you really are that obessed about her then you really need professional help.

A diluted heart

Keep in mind that you can't prove that she doesn't exsist. And this forum isn't about telling people to get professional help.

Awww, what a romantic story!

I have done this, but not to the length of time you have.

I tend to believe now that it is all psychological, even residual effects, like the desire to find this person.

I used to dream of a guy who was the most beautiful creature I had ever seen. Blue blue blue eyes, light hair, tall, with a slighter frame than average. His personality was stoic and tender. I had all kinds of crazy dreams about him, and the emotions I felt from these dreams was as real as anything I have ever felt.

I had a little book where I wrote some of them down, but I don't know where it is now. For some reason I always thought his name was Asher or Avery or something else that starts with an A. These must have been when I was 18 till I was about 23. I dreamed that we took a bus trip across the country together, I dreamed that we saved a bunch of dogs from a fire, I dreamed that we were dancing somewhere and people were watching us, but there was no music.

I even had a few more adult themed dreams, which just added to me wanting to find him in real life!

The worst one was that we were trapped in a cave right near an area where some kind of war was going on. In my dream, a grenade or something came rolling into the cave where we were and when it exploded, I didn't know where he was. I woke up crying. I really felt like I had lost the love of my life, and it really took me a little while to get over it. I kept hoping I would dream about him again, or meet him.

I met my now ex Aaron, who was blue eyes, light haired, etc and who I tried so hard to mold into what I thought my dream guy was. But after 5 years together, he is nothing like what my dreams were like. I have had sporadic dreams of him over the past few years, and although I am with someone now (not blue eyed or light haired lol) and very happy with him, I still wake up from them feeling like I lost something. The dreams I have now are much less detailed, and I usually just wake up with a vague memory of seeing him.

I think it's just our wishes manifesting in our dreams. As much as I would like to believe there is much more to it, I think it can just be written off as a dream, no matter how real the emotions from them are.

HOoo, how I so much wish , there was a beautiful girl appearing in my dreams, and we do everything including ***., I'll never wake up. Haha Dosen't matter if I know her in real life or not.

Elvis, that's a beautiful story, I believe in what you are saying and if you are really interested, then look for her man.

Your story is one of the most beautiful things I have read, and if it is real then it's just incredible. And I believe it is real. All those romantic hollywood movies degrade compared to yours.

I say keep looking for her, don't give up, never.

Don't let others stop you, ignore all the bad things they might say (*cough* Tommyo *cough*), right now it is you and not them.


Man that really touched me.

I laid down for bed one night, Amy was already asleep. As I started to fall asleep I slipped into a lucid dream and found myself looking down into a stone hall with windows like a church sort of but there was white light coming through. I could see Amy sitting on a bench talking to someone but I didn't hear anything. i go to talk to them but they apparently can't see me, or hear me, so I fly circles around them trying to get their attention. This is when I realize that I can fly, I call it zoom, because its more like moving with thought than flying, in fact i very slowly zoomed through the floor to see if i could, and I could see the sub-floor structure and everything, pretty cool but anyway...
I went back to try to get her attention again and thought "I wonder if she will freak out if i touch her?" I touch her leg and she doesn't respond so I go zooming through the wall to explore the outside
when Amy suddenly wakes up with a start! and says "I gotta pee"
-We are no longer in the dream state- i think
She comes back and says "I just had the weirdest dream...." and then goes on to describe this dream that i just dreamed but without me, until i suddenly appeared, hugged her, and took off flying with her, which freaked her out and she woke up.


I propose that you may be interacting in the dreamscape, whichever dimension it is.

This was the first time I had undeniable evidence of this sort of interaction, and its interesting that our perceptions of it were still slightly different even though we were definitely in the same "place" at the same "time"

You never know. From a yung age I dreamt of a pair of brown eyes and knew I would meet someone with those eyes. I grew inpatient waiting and married someone else who did not have these eyes. That marriege lasted a while but I never felt it to be quite right eventually we divorced, a couple of years later a met those eyes and I know he is my destiny my other half or whatever. So trust your feelings and go with them.

For this task I wish you luck and hope for you the best.

The name Jamie may come from bothe her first ane last names

Emily Jones
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Possible nickname

And then Emily James Jones could me an anigram for "My name is Joelie J". But shoot. Aren't I just making this harder?

But like others say, don't just sit around and wait for her to walk into your living room and say "Found you!" Get out there and look. It helps to search and by putting yourself out there maybe she'll spot you first.

Perhaps the journey is the destination. I suggest being open and aware both awake and otherwise, she apparently wants to share experiences with you on another plane, but I see no evidence of that interaction on this Earth. There is a big picture here. Don't miss the forest for the trees.

i had 7 dreams about a girl i had a crush and on all dreams she would hug me or kiss me.......i don't think she likes me, but they were fun i just got past them. i have to admit at the begining there were other signs to, but i realized she dosnt like me ( ) and got past it.......man she is so pretty........lets get back to the subject, bro u don't have to be obsessed because i was to at the begining, it isn't cool, it's just your mind please don't let yourself be distracted by this and focus on your life. maybe she is out there looking for u. i hope u find her and live hapily ever after cuz it wont be like that for me

......u use shawn michaels words for your signature.....u should change it because no one is worthy to use his words and if u ain't down with that i got 2 words for ya : ''S**K IT''

please don't feel insulted i thought that it would be funny because this is the thing that DX says and a member of it is michaels and........just forget it