Yup yup yup. The world is full of jurks

nice one...
I reckon telepathy is in the works and you are picking vibes from the person opposite/ near you.
Bet dogs can smell some body's negative feelings and being protective of their human they lash out.

also smells play some role in this but I'm not sure how it works.......it works nevertheless!

The closest I have come to punch somebody is when they insult my mother or they discriminate against me and say lies to cover it up........(hey ppl at work watch out!) ....................................................punch.....

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I will say that I have had some sort of instints towards someone if they appear to be negative, hostile, angry and so forth. That does NOT mean I hate that person. I usually try to help someone like that "out"; make them feel better or try to be positive towards them and then they just end up hating ME! Whatever...

C'est la vie! Jody


they might think that you are faking it, because.....................I dunno

Yes,heck there are some people who come to this site that if I'd ever met them I'd slam them to the floor and hit them with a brick.and I'm sure that some feel the same way about me even though we never met.Happens to the best of us.

Actually, I would be willing to bet that the personalities of the people you know on these forums is probably different from the ones they exhibit in real life. Our internet personalities are a little different because the social rules are not as strict. Everyone's so anonymous. You probably would not even be able to guess who was who.

Nahhhh I'm genuine and sincere.

I am in total agreeance. There is a bloke at work that gives me the craps as soon as I have to talk to him. Mind you, he thinks he knows it all andf no-one else does lol.......

What I meant in the first part above (and if I'm mistaken please correct me) is that you are referring to love in a spiritual way, i.e., that you believe that a person can feel love for another person's spiritual being without getting to know them personaly. Regardless of my personal beliefs, that is something I don't care to debate.

What I was referring to in the second part is the love that two human beings feel for each other, i.e., love that grows and develops after having shared life's experiences. And I stand by my assertion that it's not possible to either love nor hate someone without knowing anything about them.

Hey I only said how I think of it and you said... "I understand that you're looking at this in a religious context and I have no problem with that. However, I'm sure that you're also well aware that not everyone shares your religious beliefs. "

Which is why I asked what that has anything to do with anything? Why does it matter if not everyone shares my belief? To say that was just not really needed was it.. which is why I asked what it has to do with anything.


Well it was alittle confusing to me in how you typed it, because it sounded to me like you were agreeing on how I see it differently/spiritually(and that that was ok), but then making out its not straight after by saying... "Anyone who feels that they can either hate or love someone by just looking at them for the first time should seriously take a long hard look into themselves because there may be some serious issues that they need to address."

So yeah... I had to ask. It sounded like you were trying to place me in that quote(and maybe trying to offend me at the same time), and I didnt like it considering you had just said right before that you understand that I'm looking at it from a more.. spiritual angle.

Anyway I'm glad thats all cleared up now.

And does this mean you agree there are at least two types of love.... a more spiritual love(universal) and a more egotistical side of love(meaning only loving who your ego 'loves' over time). ?

theres no such thing as love at first sight or hate or anything in between.
because , as the more knowledgeable posters have said -we have met and loved ,or fought ,with them previously , inhabiting different bodies, in different times.

thats what ties us to one another, but if we are wise we try to forgive and then we will make things easier for future lives.

i just wish i was wise meself..

Sometimes you can feel thing's about another person without knowing it, and it's interpitted as an unknown feeling without basis. The other day, i was watching c-span, and i could feel the bloated malevalont feeling's of triump from the ried monster in the senate, as to their planned and executed agenda being accomplished. It was so strong, i had to laugh, cause as i felt it, i also saw that he, and the domestic religious terrorist's that are planning to take over the nation, are going to fail.

Don't believe the democratic party's line about the rule of law, they are useing it to promote a religious controlled leftist America, and their petty party politic's, and betrayel of the goverment in their revolution, speak volumes about them. They are going to be the one's put on trial, not the president as they plan, there will be no impeachment of the president.

My point being, that if you develop that feeling you had towards the other guy, you can use it to read the truth of anyone. And the reid monster is America's enemy, along with the religious terrorist's that plan to take over America through the democratic party.

They are the monster's that they want us to believe of our current goverment. And they have showed us all their betrayel. Count yourself lucky not having developed that sense yet, when you do, all you have to do is look at someone, to know them, not ever having met them before. And the truth can be very horrable about certain people.

But your still at feeling's, not images or the conversations in them yet. It is going to be the norm.

It happens all the time . It's called chemistry . And i bet you can't even reverse it .

My best guesses for why you hate someone without knowing them are the following:

1) His or her action at that moment may disgust you and something they are saying might disgust you.

and here's the interesting one:

2) We see something about ourselves in that person and by hating them, we hate that quality in us. It took me a while to realize this but this is sometimes true. It happened to me a couple of times. Next time you see someone you instantly hate, ask yourself whether they remind you of a quality of yourself.

I think it's a combination of a lot of things.

Also, I've not read the entire thread, so I don't know if this has been bought up before but.... Maybe it has something to do with pheremones? Supposedly they attact us to other, so why not repule too?

This has happened to me before. But I think I am just bipolar.
I was juggling some tenis ball and 2 hit in mid air and bounced away. I got pissed and threw the last on to the ground.
Then I reached to turn on the ceiling fan and it shocked me. So I shouted the worst curse that came to mind jumped in the air and stompped on the floor.
I lol'd

Ive experienced this before. I hated this person from the moment i set eyes on them but then i got to know them properly they were actually quite cool and now we're friends

I have this. I usually ignores it and give the person a chance. Then I realized in the later date, it was my intuition because they are not good people at all.

ohhh yyyeeeaaahhhh i hated someone like that name dave a juggalo....man i want 2 kill him!!

Really? Well I hate you just because you posted above me and I don't even know you!

Not really.

There is a lot of talk on this particular subject about love/hate at first sight and with way too many people I would like to respond to their quotes, I will just post my thoughts on the subject instead.
To say you don't believe in love at first sight is really restricting yourself. Obviously most everyone could agree in the first 5 to 10 minutes of meeting someone, you know to the lesser extremes of liking or disliking them. I am talking about meeting someone for the first time and looking past any physical attraction and looking through their eyes into their soul and making a connection. Meeting someone and immediately feeling like an old friend. Someone you feel like you have known your whole life. The one person who knows you better than anyone before or you will ever meet again. Your"soulmate" as it were. I feel bad for the people who don't believe that and for the people that find that all the time, have no meaning of the word love. There is only one person for you to feel that way about. Love is a more powerful force than most people can understand or have the strength to carry. Why expend the energy to love one person when you can have numerous one night stands for instant gratification and personal justification. Apparently most people's souls are way to dark for that to happen to them. Only those whose eyes still have light in them can truly understand. And once again, I feel bad for those who refuse to accept such a possibility. But anyways, if you believe that, than you also have you believe that hate would inherently coexist as well.

That's easy ~ The SOUL KNOWS..... Past Life with unfinished business. Curious if the OTHER guy felt the same towards you ????

When I had a new seemingly nice teacher once, I suddenly felt instant hatred towards her. I didn't want to be part of her class or have any connection with her.

I tried to be nice, and I succeeded. But a week after that, for no reason, she turned sour.

It was bittersweet, I was: "I was right!" and: "Oh no, I've got a nasty teacher!" all at the same time.

i hate people who are friends with people i hate

Sometimes it can be the spirits within us just do not like the spirits within them and vice verse. If spirits have been around since day one they have had rivalries with each other long before we are born. Just a theory and not one I came up with though I do subscribe to it. This might not always be the case but might be one manner in which we instantly do not like someone and them us.

I do a lot. But the majority of the time it depends how they introduce themselves. If they start flicking their wrists up and down saying "Yo, yo, whats up my home dawg?" I instantly hate them. Forever. Irreversible

Yes. This has happened to me in my life more than once. I have no explanation for it, unless I'm encountering another Alpha female, such as myself. I just chalk the experiences up to having met the individual(s) in another life and we didn't have a positive relationship for whatever reason. I know that it sounds strange- in another life. But what else could it be? I didn't meet them in this life!

This has happened to me before. I was at my friend’s house and he had over his cousin, I hated him the first time I saw him. I had no idea why. When I tried to get to know him it turned out he was an ***. Later in the day we where in the woods behind my house and we were just walking when he tired to hit me in the back of my head with a log that he had found. But because I had that feeling of hate when I first met him I did not trust him, so I was keeping an eye on him. I dodged it at the last sec. If I had not he must likely would have broke my neck. Instant hatred towards someone saved me once, so now when ever I feel that way I say away from that person.

I've experienced this same thing. Maybe not to the extent of pure hate and rage, but certainly a strong dislike. Alternately, I also find myself liking certain people the second I meet them.

Honestly, I feel like people give off a type of energy that we either connect with or repelled by pretty quickly. I don't quite know what it is. ALl I do know for sure is that I have a pretty good success rate at listening to that instinct. The people I dislike right away end up giving me good reason to. As do the people I like right away give me a good reason to do so. So, I'm cool with it. It's served me quite well.

This is something HUGELY common with people of my age group (16 y.o). Personally I've never hated someone for no reason but I know heaps of people who do. Particulary girls.
I think it's jealousy.

It's an odd thing to me, but I've had it happen.
Usually I can get along with practically anybody, but there was this one fella I met some years back, and he and I took an instant dislike to one another. Just about outright hostility.

I talked to a friend who knew this guy and he expressed his shock, saying that this guy was one of the most laid-back people he'd ever met, besides me.

Very strange. I haven't understood it to this day.

I heard a theory that you can see tell-tale personality traits in someones' retinas, and that our DNA can somewhat sense someone else's DNA that is similar to our own- That, combined with phermones and body language and maybe some old memories or situations about that person reverberating, can cause for a judgement that really is judge, jury, and executioner at the second you encounter that person.
It's "wrong" to hate anything, and giving-in to hate doesnt make ANY situation better, but the thing thats hard to argue with is that usually that 'snap-judgement' is correct. I don't believe in intuition on its "own" but more as... very tiny subconcious signs and patterns that add up to a judgement. Rage and hate can blind you to make you feel unjustified or perhaps YOUR character is the one thats flawed. But don't internalize it.
Instead of thinking of it as "Man I really hate that person." It should be "I hate when people don't introduce themselves right away." or "I hate when people speak in a condescending way to me." or "Everyone I have ever met from France has been a jerk to me."
Anger is a gift, but if you don't use it in the correct way it will get the best of you.

-Pol

I have had several instances of instant like/dislike over the years. I've met people who I've felt I had known forever, and became fast friends with after just a few minutes. Conversely, I've met a total of 4 people in my life that I absolutely detested from day 1. I've met plenty of people who initially rubbed me the wrong way, but not to this extent. I always give those who rub me the wrong way a chance of course, and after getting to know them, usually find nothing wrong with them. The ones that I instantly detested...well read on.

The first was when I was around 13 years old. A friend of mine's mother was getting married for the second time, and I was introduced to her soon-to-be stepfather. From the moment I laid eyes on him, I knew he was scum. I almost ran from the room the feeling was so strong. I couldn't look him in the eye (something very strange for me) and made an excuse to get out of the room as quickly as possible. I didn't say anything to my friend since she seemed to like him, and I didn't want to upset her. About 6 months after he moved into their home, my friend confided in me that he had touched her in an inappropriate manner and tried to kiss her. She was absolutely devastated. She told her mother, legal actions were taken, and they divorced. I felt unbelievably guilty for not telling my friend about my earlier dislike for this man, although I realize that now that I could not have prevented what eventually happened.

Second time I was 19. I had just moved into my first apartment and was very excited at my new found freedom. I had met a few people in the building and they all seemed nice enough. Then one day, I met a neighbor who I hadn't met before. He lived on different floor, and somehow we had never crossed paths. I was at the mailbox and had just put my key in, when I felt an overwhelming sense of dread. I was convinced my life was in danger. I spun around and saw a man walking toward me, keys in hand. He smiled, said hi...perfectly normal, but I knew in my heart there was something wrong with him. I practically ran away from the mailboxes back to my apartment. I told a few people what had happened. Of course everyone told me I was being ridiculous, but I remembered the feeling I got from my friend's stepfather, so I refused to disregard my fears. I avoided this man at all costs, and even contemplated moving. Within a few weeks, the police showed up one night and arrested him. I never found out why, but he didn't come back, and the landlord wound up clearing out all of his things, so he had to have done something pretty horrible.

Third time I was around 27 or so. A dear friend introduced me to her new boyfriend. Instant dislike and distrust yet again. This time I warned my friend..wasn't going to make the same mistake twice. She knew about my previous "premonitions", but didn't act on my warning being blinded by love, hormones, or something of that nature. They moved in together around a year later, and within a few months, he was beating her on a fairly regular basis. Every argument ended in a physical altercation. She finally came to her senses and left him. I didn't want to give her the "see I told you so" routine, so I kept my mouth shut. Figured she had been through enough.

Last time was 3 years ago. My boss had just hired a new woman employee, and I was responsible for training her. Believe me when I tell you there was no jealousy involved. She was quite unattractive and I deduced she was not very bright from a limited first conversation with her. I absolutely could not stand being around her, but I had no choice. I told my boss that I felt he had made a mistake in hiring her, but of course he pooh-poohed me. Told me her references were good, she really needed the job, etc. I trained her as quickly as I could, then avoided her as much as possible. One day a previous co-worker, and good friend, brought her new baby in for everyone to see. I left my office and went out to the lobby area to hang out with them for about 15 minutes. Everyone in the office came out for at least a minute or 2 to admire the baby before resuming work. Everyone but the new woman employee that is. I finally went back to my office and worked another hour or so before going to lunch. When I got up to leave, I realized my purse was open, and the contents appeared to have been tampered with. I opened my wallet to check the contents. I had started the day with 120 dollars in my wallet. Upon counting, I found 80 dollars remained. I had worked with everyone else in the office for quite a while, so I knew exactly who was responsible. I went to my boss, told him what happened, then called the police. This woman was getting ready to leave for lunch, so my boss stalled her until the police arrived. They ordered her to empty her pockets, and of course, my 40 dollars were found. She insisted it was her money and much drama ensued which I won't bother going into here. She was obviously fired immediately, and my boss apologized to me for not listening when I had tried to warn him about her.

I want to apologize for being so long-winded with my response, but it feels good to get this out of my system. I have no explanation for why I get these feelings. I don't claim to be psychic, clairvoyant, or anything of that nature. I personally think that maybe people can be "tuning forks" for negative/positive energy now and then. Whatever the cause, my "instincts" have served me well.

I had the reverse happen. But we became friends at some point ironically.

She said after a while she realized why. I reminded her of a friend subconsciously that had screwed her over very badly. I have the same voice pitch and facial features I guess.

I have met people I couldn't warm up to from the get-go but my hunches have always been right.

I think I read body language and facial expressions and eyes very well.

I agree with you.
I have never had this happen to me, although I have liked people streight away before.

It was your inner intuition kicking in.... Listen to it! Its always right!

I agree with some of the poster's replies on the board on this subject where they say it's completely normal. I've experienced this myself, usually if the other individual's an "Alpha" individual of sorts. But the feeling seems to intensify when it's another "Alpha" female. Who knows where it comes from, or why. I chalk it up to either 1) Something about them is colliding with my psyche, or, 2) I knew them in a former lifetime and they pissed me off. But I definately don't limit myself to just those two reasons. They just happen to be the only two that I can come up with for now.