QUOTE (Belqis @ Apr 7 2008, 11:38 PM)

“Women shall with justice have rights similar to those exercised against them, although men have a status above women.”
Why would men have a status above me?
Edit: I like how you gave yourself 5 stars!
Men and women in islam are equal, in something men exceed, and in something women exceed, but overall both are equal, the only thing in the eyes of god the we can all exceed each other in and have a higher status, is in piety.
QUOTE (Darkwind @ Apr 7 2008, 11:54 PM)

Do you think the Talibon (sorry sp) treated women as they should be treated according to Islamic beliefs.
Note* You might ask the Mods to move this to Spirituality, Religion and Beliefs, the skeptics will eat you alive in here.
I think the taliban's intentions initially was to bring islamic law and an islamic state back to the world, but in my opinion their rushed it and forced it in some instances, and transgressed some boundaries. To have an islamic law and an islamic state, one needs to have the state of islam within, for it to manifest outseide and around them, simply, the people needed educating more about islam, before it was implemented, and not forced.
QUOTE (__Kratos__ @ Apr 8 2008, 12:25 AM)

Surah 4:34 Men shall take full care of women with the bounties which God has bestowed more abundantly on the former than on the latter, and with what they may spend out of their possessions. And the righteous women are the truely devout ones, who guard the intimacy which God has guarded. And as for those women whose ill-will you have reason to fear, admonish them; then leave them alone in bed; then beat them; and if thereupon they pay you heed, do not seek to harm them. Behold, God is indeed most high, great!
--This has been discussed many times before, firsly the you need bare in mind all you have to go by is the translation, in english. meaning the best words in english that fit the original must be used, in this mistakes can be made by those translating. I dont have the source with me now, but there is a difference of opinion about the beating which is the reason you posted this verse. One opinion suggest the arabic word used does not denote beating, as the word has several meaning in different contexts. then the second opinion says its, and relays the verse for further explanation to the hadith of the prophet, regarding the verse and what is meant. If you read it carefully, it says, those women whose ill will you fear, meaning their loyalty, (adultry etc). firsly, (meaning caught the first time) admonish them verbally, so they know you are not happy with what they have done, i would love to see how many men would give their wife a chance after she has been caught with another etc, then secondly, if she does it again, the second time, dont sleep with her, seperate the bed, a man not having sex with his wife, she know he aint happy, this is a second chance for her to change her ways and commit to her husband, love to see how many give a second chance, then she does it the third time, its says beat her, and prophet shows an example of how in hadith, he took out a small tooth brush, well naswakh, a small branch used back then to clean ones teeth etc, and he hits his arm near the wrist, like a small tap, indicating how mad and angry you are that she has done this the third time, if that does not work then leave her, but during the other steps, one is free to divorce her at any point, thats is a cerse, indicating how one should be forgiving and give a chance, like i said, how many men would get past the first step.
2:193 Hence, fight against them until there is no more opprossion and all worship is devoted to God alone but if they desist then all hostillity shall cease, save against those who willfully do wrong.
This verse is well out of context, however a quick address and put in to context, its a verse that was revealed during times when muslims were surrounded by pagan, christian and jewish tribes, hell bent on destroying them. The command was given to fight them, not turn out cheeks, but fight them until worhsip is for allah, meaning, until we as muslims can worship with out fear of being killed etc. It also goes on to say, if they stop fighting you, then you must stop too, expect those who after the peace or ceasefire continue to willfully do wrong, continue in their ways in killing and fighting muslims. This is quite common how people quote out of context, what they dont realise is this, the quran was not revealed as a whole books, you know, god dint send it down like, here you are here is abook and go and read, it took 23 years, 14 of which muslims were massacred for fun, pretty much like today in iraq, afghanistan and palestine, (latter over 50 years of inhumane treatment, how come the US dont bomb isreal bck to the stoneage).
I used this line on purpose because it's meaning is that muslims to practice their faith how they want to do it freely, without outside influence and to justify to it's believers that their faith is better then everybody else and to kill them at the first sign of trouble for the freedom of islam to flourish.
Islam is the truth , you just dont know it and never been shown it in its true light. All you know is what your told, what you see on TV, or what some prejudice site on the net shows you.
Spreading islam by the sword and oppressing women. Direct quotes from the koran. Not very warm and fuzzy in my opinion.
Brother or sister, islam spread by the sword is a crusader myth, the latter did spread christianity in that way, indonesia has the largest muslims populaton than any other country, not a single military muslim went there only merchants. And our fellow christians, hindus, and jews living in arabia or india which was under muslims rule for 1000's yrs, have more hindus than muslims, how come we dint conver them all or kill them, a 1000 yrs is enough to wipe them out, like the US did t the native indians, in less time than that.
QUOTE (psyche101 @ Apr 8 2008, 02:51 AM)

I'd feel more comfortable if I had not previously debated you on evolution, and watched you call modern research "lies" and quoted Harun Yahya as more accurate than the combined scientific community. You also got quite irrate? Not very peacful as I remember you pal. I would like to have seen you offer something in the other thread where I was asking genuine questions, and helped along by the very well spoken and patient EmpressStarXVII. I am still digesting the links, insights and thoughts this wonderful individual had the time to direct me to. I look forward to a better understanding of Islam.
I do not think anyone qustioned their mother, I believe the focus of the question is wives and duaghters.
No doubt the radicals and fundamentalists give everyone a bad name, but with passages prevalent on the internet like
Sura (4:11) - (Inheritance) "The male shall have the equal of the portion of two females"
That is because in islam, the male is the protector of women, his duty is to bread on the table, he get more, cause he give more, the women in islam can work earn her wealth, but women are likely to marry and have a man care for them, on this basis, they dont need as much, probably might be married already, and what women have as wealth cannot be touched by the men, but what men earn and have, the women has right over his wealth and property.
Sura (2:228) - "and the men are a degree above them
Again, problem with translation, the arabic word used, is actually meaning protector, not higher in degree, its says the men are a protector over women.
Sura (5:6) - "And if ye are unclean, purify yourselves. And if ye are sick or on a journey, or one of you cometh from the closet, or ye have had contact with women, and ye find not water, then go to clean, high ground and rub your faces and your hands with some of it"
This is in refernce to after sex, or when one is on a journey or sick, and needs to perform ablutions, muslims pray five times aday regardless of condition, ill or not, if one is a state on impurity, due to sexual intercourse, meaning had contact with women. and you cant find water, (desert) to perform ablutions, god has made it easy, for you to use the dirt on a high ground, more of symbolic gesture, whereby, one clean the high ground, then runs his hand over it, picking up abit of dust, wipe this over the face etc and god will accept is ablution and purification, in order to perform Salat.
Sura (24:31) - Women are to lower their gaze around men, so they do not look them in the eye
If you really read anything from the quran and not some site you would realise this above command is the hijab verses, which firstly command the men to do this, then talks to the women, so men do hijab, first, lower the gaze and then the command is given to women. I dont why just quote this part.
Sura (2:223) - "Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will..."
In reference to sex, how to approach your women, a tilth can be approached by anyway, back then the pagan arabs had something against having sex doggystyle too, so god says you can have sex with your wifes as you wish, what ever position, only *spam filter* is haram, unlawful, as the verse further goes on to indicate.
Bukhari (6:301) - "[Muhammad] said, 'Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?' They replied in the affirmative. He said, 'This is the deficiency in her intelligence.'"
the translations is slightly out, but its true, evidence from two women is equal to one mans, this is largely due to emotions run higher in women, and therefore testimonies can be diluted with emotions, when there is two of them one can correct the other, and vica versa. but this is dependant in certain situations.
How can one interpret such sayings as anything but negative? Many cultures do not consider speaking out against another in such a degrading fashion as acceptable, regardless of the context. It is not only religion I feel, but cultures as well. Understanding both will no doubt offer a far more global amicable situation.
I dont think there is anythign negative, just your assumption based on verse quoted out of context, with any historical context etc. need the whole picture before you can make such comment.
QUOTE (Condescending @ Apr 8 2008, 04:44 AM)

Would have joined the debate but seing as you are dishonest from the very first question asked to you this shows how much worth your explanations hold.
To say the muslim fairth doesn't place men over women is to call your own god a liar!
Is it true whats written in the quran is gods word and that it cannot be altered, denied or falcyfied?
Its true the quran is gods word and god is not liar, and it cannot be denied and there are many falsification tests in the quran for you to take up. Asfor the status of men over women, your basis is the english transaltions, a lot is lost in translations, the original arabic says men are protectors over women not higher in status, although insome cases women andmen exceed each other, overall the are equal.