I don't want to know how to do any of these things, but I do want to know how to discourage someone from doing it to me. If this not where this post should be then please tell me where I can find an answer.
There is a person who is coming, and taking advantage of me, me in my sleep, and when I am awake I have felt his presence. He hovers and waits for me to doze off and then he takes liberties with me. This is something that I find offensive, and unorthodox. I have told him to stop in the natural realm, but it only made the visits worse. I have some to stay awake in order to keep him off of me. I want to know how to make him stop this unwanted behavior. I do not want this violation of my being and privacy.
Thank you
Gerri

sounds like a dream master. Do you know any energy vampires, not all do, but some , like me, and my friends know how to put an energy shield around a person. this stop any person or being from violating your privacy and area in sleep and awake. There are other methods you could use, but you would need a gypse or a witch to perform a ritual of protection

Well you can always try shielding. Read other sites

Sex has always been a big part of dream content for both men and women.

If a person has a high degree of repression, the person's fears and anxieties may be expressed through their dreams. Similarly the person's desire for greater fulfillment may be expressed in erotic dreams. If the sexual repression is severe, the dreams may be filled with sexual situations that the person would find shocking, embarrassing, or confusing. In such cases, there is often a big difference between the person's waking sexuality and the sexuality displayed in dreams. The person's day-to-day life may be emotionally sterile and sensually barren, but the dream life is full of eroticism and steamy sexual encounters. By paying attention to your dreams you can learn about your needs and desires and perhaps discover ways to make your life more sensual if necessary.

My sister experiences that same thing. She's been going through it for years (on and off) now.
I would ask you if you suffer from Sleep paralysis?
Have you noticed a pattern with these events and stress in your life?
and what are your religious beliefs if you have any.

While I can not help directly, I wish I could. Definitely not an easy topic to discuss or to diagnose or to help solve. Try protection prayors, shields, or something of that nature. I can't say how to do those things because I am not well versed in that aspect. I really wish I could be of assistance, until you get the help you so rightiously deserve, goodluck.

Hmm this is an interesting and quite a terrible situation, I also suggest to learn shielding, im not sure what dream masters are maybe i should do some reading on them, but im sure their should be a way to defend against it, try asking your spirit guides for protection, if you believe in angels pray to Michael the archangel, he will protect you.

i'm so sorry good luck, i hope you can get him to leave...

This sets alarm bells ringing, sometimes I think people can look so hard for something supernatural that they forget to look for a more natural explanation.

Reading between the lines there is possibly something very sinister and all together more corporeal about this, which I think needs to be explored before anyone jumps to conclusions about spirits and ghosts and shields etc, and a forum is certainly not the place to address these issues.

I find it quite disturbing that people here have not picked up on this at all, I know this is an unexplained mysteries forum but really, we are all still human arent we?

Rant over.

Some interesting info that maybe relevant, should, hopefully my suspicions prove to be false.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Old_Hag_Syndrome

Hi, gerri. Welcome aboard.

You asked, I'll answer. If the answer doesn't speak to you, then no hard feelings.

There is no "he" in your dreams. The "he" in your dreams is your dream character, which means an aspect of yourself thinking about a possibility. There is evidently much to think about that remains unresolved.

If you want the behavior to stop, then you need to resolve the issue, so that there is then no need to think about it further. You think about what needs thinking about, and dreams are thoughts.

You have commendably moved right along in translating your thoughts into real life action. "I dreamt about you..." is a time-tested ice breaker, "...in a sexual way" guarantees that there are no left-over ice cubes.

He, who was never in your dreams, is now surely in your waking life. Few genetlemen are as good at responding to these things as ladies would like. What he ought to have said is something along the lines of "what would you prefer that I do instead?" To which, in an ideal world, you would have responded truthfully.

So, if you want to get rid of the dreams, pretend he did ask that. What would you prefer he do instead? Think about it, that is, think about it while awake, and then tell him.

Thereafter, there is an excellent likelihood that the recurrences will promptly cease, there being no further waking thoughts regarding the matter left to the night shift to handle.

BTW, if he is so much of a creep that he played along with your idea that he could attack you in your bedroom, then what you want him to do instead is come back after he's grown up.

There is a saying that what you energetically resist will persist.

I get the impression you know this person and have spoken to him. Speak to him again about this and say that you do not wish to harm him, however his interest in you is unwanted. Ask what he hopes to accomplish by provoking you to reject him.

Then when and if he shows up again in your dreams, have a plan of action ready to deal with him. Use your intuition to determine the best way to reach his insecure state of mind and remind him that these actions will only increase his own instability. Point out the specific things about himself that he does not wish to be reminded about. Keep this up with a highly focused energetic frame of reference. When that becomes the only energy exchanged between each of you, he will leave you alone.

John