QUOTE (Incorrigible1 @ May 6 2008, 02:19 AM)

Lmbeharry, do you enjoy any social life? I've my doubts. You seem intelligent, if somewhat remote.
Me, I'm in the middle of the country, and quite happy-go-lucky.....
I'd love to actually have the money to go out to dinner with my wife! These days sans cash. And my last job ate up about 75 hours a week of "physical work" -that is lecturing, reading textbooks, creating exams and powerpoints, and researching online - and the remainder of my time was exhausted in mental work - that is thinking. Like I said, Ulaanbaatar is quasi-socialist. And you know how socialists are: steal from the producers to feed the incompetent.
My family now: one newborn son aged 6 months, a four year-old daughter and my Mongolian wife. The six-month old kinda cuts out social life - and the dearth of financial income, does too.
I could live in the countryside. In fact, my parents offered to send money so that I could build a house in the Mongolian countryside. Problem is: I don't donate money to a system that is hell-bent on stealing from me, and that's my view of Mongolia these days. So, in the view of my wife and I, it's time to get out and get to a place where we could have a social life and raise our family.
Yeah - these days its really hard. Oyushka goes to nursery school and I spend part of my day writing on this site, part of my day looking for positions, and part of my day playing with Mathematics modeling software as I plan the outline of my dissertation for a doctorate.
Plus, my interests are hugely varied. I like astronomy for instance, and I'd love (if I lived in the country) to build a small observatory for my benefit - but also for the neighbors. I enjoy photography, too (including photo printers) - my wife and I do all of our own photo work, etc. And I like cooking. These things are "relatively expensive" -but we all with active minds know that we need to keep challenging our active minds...
About being remote? Yeah, I'm remote. It's tough when (and I'm not trying to blow my own horn) a person is highly educated and can solve most problems and technical issues before a co-worker can even realize that it's a problem. Me - I think months in advance, and I plan work that way. It's hard because most people only think 5 minutes ahead of time. So, really, who am I going to talk to - in a social setting, that is. It's few and far between. I'm remote. And I love to work, complete my tasks well and efficiently - and then RUN AWAY TO THE MOUNTAINS - to get away from the rabble...
That's one of the reasons why I like teaching. I can instill some knowledge and professionalism amongst the younger generation and NEVER (in theory) have to worry of co-workers being ashamed that they did not solve the problem (and then cause corporate political problems - and granted the Academie has politics, too - but intellectual politics - not BS about toner in the printer/copier). Being a professor is like being an independent contractor. A professor teaches, researches, writes, and consults. He's a one-man show in many regards, though he may be called upon to work in a group or "team" from time to time - but rarely will a professor work a cubicle amongst (and excuse me for saying it this way) the rabble...
Anyway, I've gotten off the thread. But I hope I answered your question.