QUOTE (Bella-Angelique @ May 2 2008, 11:33 AM)

Laws are always based on statistics and what creeps do.
You should not personalize it to your own situation but look at it statistically.
It is why we have speed limits.
The statistics point to single males living with single females with children, not to anyone else.
Single as in not married.
I will take it personally, because it will only promote other's to think all step-parents or soon to be step-parents are evil. That is the only thing it will do. Also, if you think about it if they put single males in that law they will also eventually put females into the law (equality), like I said women can be creeps as well as men. You can't just lump all into a group, like I have said most of us are good people it's just the creeps like this that make the news.
You can't make a law for this, there is no real fair way. The man or woman who has kids should be a little bit more on guard about the relationship with the other before inviting then to move in in the first place. Which would mean making dates with the kids as well, seeing how they react with each other. If they don't get along or something seems funny it is the parent's job to say look it isn't going to work out. Also they need to take the time to talk with their kids about their boyfriends or girlfriends, kids can pick up stuff we can not. The parent's need to start protecting their children a bit more and listening to their children.