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Please excuse my ignorance of the bible, but didn't god in the OT command certain people to sacrifice their children to him as a sign of their faith? Also, didn't god take away all of Job's family to prove to Satan how loyal Job was? Maybe god is doing the same thing today in the form of abortion to test the parents? God didn't mind killing children back then so why would it be any different today?
God did not command that certain people sacrifice their children. He tested 'one' person to do so and it was a twist since the ancient Israelites abhorred human sacrifice. Many of the surrounding tribes surrounding them even practiced child sacrifice. That is the biblical view.
God gives permission for even our free will choices to occur. Some of those choices hurt us. Satan found a foothold in Job's family, his sons allowed that foothold to happen:
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Job 1:4 His sons used to take turns holding feasts in their homes, and they would invite their three sisters to eat and drink with them. 5 When a period of feasting had run its course, Job would send and have them purified. Early in the morning he would sacrifice a burnt offering for each of them, thinking, "Perhaps my children have sinned and cursed God in their hearts." This was Job's regular custom.
Job made burnt sacrifices for his sons to cleanse there sin and even though he was holy his family clearly was not. Likewise we can pray for those we love but if they choose to go another way then the accuser might find a foothold and send them down the path of destruction. Satan is always looking for an opening and an in:
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Job 1:7 The LORD said to Satan, "Where have you come from?" Satan answered the LORD, "From roaming through the earth and going back and forth in it."
We should not as followers of God tell other's how to live but when it comes to within our own households as all parents should, they should have authority there, and not allow just anything to happen. Once your children and servants, if you have any, wish to leave your house then they can do as they wish. Some people might balk at this but they might also disrespect authority in general. We should respect the rules of another's home if we wish to live there and if we are born there then until we can leave. This is not to say we have to suffer at the hands of a cruel authority and if someone believes I am advocating that they are wrong. God does not want cruelness even though some might believe that and I will not try and convince 'you' in the least but for 'those' wanting deeper insight there it is.
For this reason did Job lose so much even his own possession but as far as his own person God would not allow Satan to touch Job himself in anyways. Had Job only took the authority of his own household this would have been avoided. That is the most important lesson of Job from a biblical standpoint. Other's can disagree but in the end that is their view.
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Job 1:12 The LORD said to Satan, "Very well, then, everything he has is in your hands, but on the man himself do not lay a finger." Then Satan went out from the presence of the LORD.
13 One day when Job's sons and daughters were feasting and drinking wine at the oldest brother's house, 14 a messenger came to Job and said, "The oxen were plowing and the donkeys were grazing nearby, 15 and the Sabeans attacked and carried them off. They put the servants to the sword, and I am the only one who has escaped to tell you!"
16 While he was still speaking, another messenger came and said, "The fire of God fell from the sky and burned up the sheep and the servants, and I am the only one who has escaped to tell you!"
17 While he was still speaking, another messenger came and said, "The Chaldeans formed three raiding parties and swept down on your camels and carried them off. They put the servants to the sword, and I am the only one who has escaped to tell you!"
18 While he was still speaking, yet another messenger came and said, "Your sons and daughters were feasting and drinking wine at the oldest brother's house, 19 when suddenly a mighty wind swept in from the desert and struck the four corners of the house. It collapsed on them and they are dead, and I am the only one who has escaped to tell you!"