Like awhile back I was laying down on my bed facing the window when all of a sudden I like behind me I seen my grandma beside my airhockey table she was just standing there then I turned around she was gone this happened to me a 2nd time when I was watching TV she was standing by the weightbench what is she trying to send me cause me and her were like really close please help

Uhhh.. I don't think many of us here and tell you what message she's trying to send you.
At least I think that's what you want from us..? I'm not quite sure because you weren't very clear and didn't use.. uh.. basic grammar.
Sorry I wish I could help more. Would you care to explain a bit more clear again? Thanks!

Could it be you just seeing her because you're thinking about her? If her death weighed very heavily on you, it could be that. I know sometimes I imagine seeing my grandmother, but its mostly because, nearly a decade after her death, I still want to see her sooo badly. I want to tell her what life has been like. I want to talk to her about school stuff. And there's nothing I'd give more than to sit around and watch Golden Girls and Unsolved Mysteries with her, even though the latter has been taken off the air.

It's probably your mind playing tricks on you. Like, When my girlfriends Grandfather passed away, She thought she could see him, smell him, hear him etc.. It eventually went away. You might not be so lucky, but you never know.

Hello 2 All, my 1st post here, I'm going on 3 years since my daddy died of cancer @ 45 years old. I seem 2 dream about him about once every 2 weeks... & in my dreams I speak 2 him in present tense (like he's not gone)

Saychelle I used to work for a Doctor who passed away. We were great friends, I felt such a loss. Years later I had an accident and broke my shoulder, needed surgery. I was a big baby, worried, stressed and was upset about my future. In my dreams, a few days after surgery he came to me. In his classic way, he kidded me, saying I would be ok, not to worry. saying, it isn't as bad as it seems... you will be back to normal in no time. You know, a pep talk. I truly felt that he visited me. A friend of mine, who is a psychic, says the dead visit the living in dreams. I do believe they do, he did make a difference to me and my recovery. He was right! I'm fine! Treasure your dreams about your dad. I believe he does inhabit them!

Welcome to UM, ya newbies

Sorry to hear of your loss UnsolvedMystery....seeing your passed loved one has got to do with grief, your mind and emotions still dealing with the loss and adjustment.

hmmmm

it could be you imagining. Sometimes, if you think about something enough you can actually project it into your senses...like a really detailed hallucination. or it could be your granma visiting you. if so, cherish the moments. But don't put to much head in this, or it may be considered insanity. Just enjoy the "check-ups" if you have them.

I've had some wonderful experiences since my Mom died in January. I don't want to have to re-type the whole thing, so if you are interested, you can check it out here: My Mom

I think they come back to comfort us. I was very blessed to experience this, since many people don't get this luxury. Mom has been pretty quiet, lately, though. No more turning statues or tilted pictures. But I still feel her presence!

God bless!

My grandfather used to get visits from his dead mother, he remembers waking up to the growling of his dog next to the bed, and seeing his mom staring at him with a smile, he wasn't afraid he was actually very happy, and talked to her, when she left he began to realize that she was dead and it couldn't have been his mom, one time he grabbed his pistol and tried to chase her thinking it was a burglar of some sort. The visits happened very frequently and stopped one day. He really loved his mother, his guess is that she went every night after her death to comfort him. Since her death my grandfather prays to her the Rosary EVERY morning at around 3am-5am. God bless her and my grandfather.

The visits took place more than 30 years ago.

Every so often I'll have dreams about those that have already passed on, but they are never nice or comforting. For instance, I've had one where I was at my grandpa's house and grandma was there going about her every day business and we had to try not to tell her that she was dead because she didn't know yet. Another one I had was after the funeral of a friend who hung himself, he came to me in a dream and insisted once again that he wasn't dead. I must say I am envious of those who have had good encounters with past loved ones, regardless of if they were real or not.