A friend of mine considers himself to be some sort of "medium". I've known him for a few months as he hangs around a cafe bar that I visit frequently. My best friend, myself, the "medium", alongside a group of random patrons were all out in the back smoking our cancer sticks. I was chatting idly with my best friend, talking about (don't ask why, we come up with random subjects) how I've always been attracted to white tigers. The "medium" friend quietly says something. One of my biggest annoyances is when people eaves drop, so I gave him one of my looks and asked what he had said.
"I said that would explain the one standing beside you." He certainly caught me off guard with this statement, baited me, so I asked for an explanation. "Well, obviously it's one of your spirit guides." Again, baited, I asked what he meant by only one. Patiently, he replied that I had three more. I began to get irritated so I asked him to please stop being so vague and to get to his point. What he said next stopped shocked me to the point of speechlessness (if you know me, you know that it takes a LOT for that, haha).
"You have two men and a woman. The men dress very dated.. the first is very Pilgrim-like and the other has looks a bit like Ben Franklin but more haggard and wearing an odd hat. The woman looks a bit like you, actually, only older. Large glasses, brown curly hair flecked with gray.. a jean overall-dress with red flowers printed at the top and a white turtleneck. Very maternal."
What he described the woman to be is exactly what my mother had been buried in 5 years prior. There is no possible way for him to know this unless he had been at her wake, which I highly doubt considering I did not know him then, and neither does any of my family or friends. At first I was defensive and downright mean. I told him that that was a cruel joke and that he shouldn't play on a person's weakness like that. He looked at me very sincerely and said, "Gumball." I started bawling. That was a nickname my mother gave me, only my mother ever called me that. After calming down, I gave him my number and asked him to call me the next day.
I couldn't explain the men for the life of me until I got home later that evening and explained the incident to my father. He too was shocked by the description of my mother, but seemed unconvinced of the two men. He joked that it was so simple, how could I miss it! It must be by great-great-great (it goes on for a couple generations) grandfathers; Stephen Hopkins of the Mayflower, and his grandson.. Stephen Hopkins, signer of the Declaration of Independence. I think about it now and see that it would make sense. If you look at the back of the $2 bill you will see only one man wearing a hat; that would be my grandfather that signed the Declaration. I set that notion aside and waited for the "medium" friend to call.
We grabbed coffee a few days later. I sat in awe and shock as he described "visions" of what my "mother" was giving him. Images of a little girl wrapped in a pink blanket drinking warm milk (a morning ritual my mother and I kept up until I was about 8) and other assorted descriptions had me shaking by the end of the conversation. He told me that the reason I have very few dreams of her and that when I do they are very striking is that it is her trying to contact me with a warning or sign (IE; before my father married my step-mother, FYI a friend of my mother's, I dreamed that my mother was shaking me screaming in my face to not let my father forget her.. *shudder*). He gave me a few more details of messages my mother wanted me to receive though I would like to keep some of them private.
Am I insane or desperate for actually believing this?
* Edited for typos, shaking while writing this, haha.
