QUOTE (Keoshin @ May 15 2008, 05:12 PM)

I am not sure if this is in the correct place... But does anyone else believe in a predetermined fate... your life's actions and even your death are set in motion before you even are born... Recently I've had feelings that my life has been set in motion... my friends and I all have dreams with the same outcome most of us dying and we're all involved in the others. While it is true that these could be from one telling the other... We didn't tell each other until recently we merely shook it off as nightmares. I am starting to believe that the dreams are telling us of our deaths. Odd thing is in the end it is always the same last two people standing... one glowing white the other glowing black. Would this have some meaning?
Hi
Keo. I do think that's strange that your friends also had similar dreams, but that doesn't mean they are necessary precog dreams. It may also represent some form of death anxiety related to perhaps past conversations/experiences shared between friends. I personally believe we create our own fate, but certainly, other factors can come into play beyond our control that can shape the outcome of our fate. Interesting insight about the various dreams noted below:
We are only aware of very little of what goes on in our heads. Other parts of our minds are locked away from us. He defined dreams as our way of accessing those parts of our brain. A man called Carl Gustav Jung later added to Freud's theory by stating that as human beings we all have a collective unconscious. There are certain symbols and even racial memories that we all have access to regardless of who we are. These archetypes - as he called them - are passed down from the ancestors. Frederick Perls rejected this, saying that each dream was unique to the person who dreamed it. He stated that it is only through dreams that we can be at harmony with ourselves. Adolf Adler, famous for his work on the affects of birth order, went one step further and stated that dreams are all to do with power and power relations.
It is up to you to pick and choose what you believe about your own mind, but the general belief nowadays is that dreams are made up of symbols that are very personal to the dreamer. These symbols form a doorway into the unconscious mind of the dreamer and alert him or her to his or her true feelings and concerns. Therefore, only the dreamer can interpret his or her dreams.
There are many levels of meaning.
The first level is often based on what has happened in your life recently.
The second level is a symbolic level where items are there according to the emotional response they cause (eg a police man may cause fear in some, respect in others or appear like a hero to others).
The third level tells you about your state of mind. By gathering together the instances from real life, interpreting the symbols and then applying them to your feelings on a subject you can find out how you really feel and not how you're pretending to feel because of circumstances or expectations.
To many people either a dream is just a dream, or else a dream is a certain kind of dream that they have often. You may be surprised to hear that dreams can actually be classified and that different kinds of dreams mean different things about you and your subconscious thoughts.
--->Factual dreams
The most common dream. These dreams are simply reordering what your brain went through during the day, not necessarily even exploring these events. It is said that newborns dream for half of the time they are asleep (which is a lot of time) and children experience dreams more often than adults. This is possibly because when they’re dreaming is when the stuff they’ve learned during the day is cemented in their minds. This is one of the reasons why people advise us to get a good night’s sleep before an exam.
--> Anxiety dreams
You’re suddenly in the exam room and you realise you haven’t studied yet and you can’t read the question paper! Suddenly, as you figure out what the first question means, the invigilator calls out “stop writing!” and you haven’t even started yet…
Dreams such as this are called anxiety dreams because they feature what you are worried – or anxious about – while you’re awake. While such a dream may be nudging you to study harder, the dream has no deeper meaning (so don’t worry, it doesn’t mean you’re going to fail).
-->Reminder dreams
Your girlfriend is standing across from you with her arms crossed and a frown on her face. She is tapping her foot and then she starts to cry. “I can’t believe you forgot our anniversary!”
You wake with a start and, with heart hammering in your chest, realize that it’s only next week and you haven’t forgotten. But you would have if you hadn’t dreamed about it.
Always useful, these dreams remind us of something we’ve forgotten.
-->Wish-fulfillment dreams
What you can’t have in real life is given to you in your dreams. Isn’t that why we always say we’re “dreaming” about something good or refer to our aspirations as dreams?
-->Erotic dreams
You’re lying in bed and suddenly you feel arms around you, caressing you. You look up and see your best friend and kiss him/her… before you know it you’re making out and erm…
Does this mean that you secretly desire to be with your friend??? Probably not. More likely it is saying something about your own personality and how you crave attention from someone with aspects you associate with your friend, or how you personally want those aspects. Erotic dreams can also simply be a release of tension in what your mind sees as a safe environment.
-->Nightmares
Nightmares, contrary to popular belief, are not bad. They let us know what we are afraid of and, by knowing this, we are warned to deal with that before it becomes a problem in waking life. If you are having a nightmare, chances are that the solution lies in fixing a problem – or coming to terms with something – while you are awake.
-->Lucid dreams
The most interesting dream experience of all, where you realize you are dreaming and can control the dream. These dreams are like gold because they give us control over what our unconscious mind reveals to us. If you want to know how you really feel about something or someone, then the time to ask is when you are in one of those dreams and your unconscious mind will open up to you, like a door.
-->Insight dreams
My favourite example of this kind of dream is when two friends told me they were going out the day after I dreamed they were.
Our minds, unconsciously, pick up and remember every single thing we see. While we are asleep, they put the clues together and often present them to us in a dream. -->Precognitive dreams
Controversial “fortune telling” dreams. Examples include Einstein literally dreaming up his theory of relativity, Lincoln dreaming of his own death days before he was murdered and many artists hitting on the ideas that would one day make them famous. These may give you chills, but can be explained by Jung’s idea of a collective consciousness. Other theories include parallel universes, or more reasonably that these are just forms of the insight dream.
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