QUOTE (Paranoid Android @ Jul 6 2008, 03:14 PM)

I think "Don't do to others what you don't want done to you" is a very negative outlook. It is passive. It requires nothing more than to live your life your way, only ever thinking of "not hurting" someone else in whatever fashion.
Is a very negative outlook? So me being non-violent towards others and loving towards them because I dont want to do the opposite which is violent and cruel is negative? I think it is an active thing. Whether it says 'do unto others' or 'do not do unto others' this universal golden rule reaches the same conclusions.
You assume that thinking not 'not hurting' anyone means being indifferent to love and injustice. This isnt the case. Even if you have the golden rule worded 'do unto others' that too can be applied to being 'passive' because you are being towards others as they are being towards you.
I could be walking down the street not wanting anyone to give me love and therefore not give it because I am doing unto others as I would have them do to me.
I could equally be passive in society because I am still doing unto others as I would have them do unto me. Therefore how is there a
massive difference that isnt negative?
The wording has a negative but the message is equally the same.
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ON the other hand, "do to others what you want done to you" is a positive outlook. It is active. It requires you to provide for other people what you would want others to provide for you (and no, this isnot the same as a masochist hurting someone because that's what they'd want people to do to them). To be active in providing others their needs is tough, and I think very few Christians abide by "do to others as you would have them do for you". Far more often, they will go for "don't do to others", and think it is the same thing.
Not to provide for others but merely do unto them as you would have them do unto you.
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They are different, not two sides of the same coin, but two separate coins found on opposite sides of the planet. So similar, yet so different.
Let me use an example - I have 20 bags of groceries and I am trying to carry them to my car, all on my own. NOw, if it were me, I'd really like someone to help. No one is likely to, but it would be nice for someone to offer. If they did offer, they would be proactive, they "did for others what others want done for me". However, that same person could walk by me, ignore me totally and fulfill the requirement of "don't do to others what you don't want done to you", because they have not encroached on my life in any significant way whatsoever.
yes, I know it's a dodgy analogy, but it makes the point.
Very dodgy which doesnt drive the point in. If I had 20 bags of groceries and I am trying to carry them to my car all on my own and wanted someone to help, then a person who offers may come from the point of view, 'I would not like someone to ignore me in a time of need therefore I wont do this unto my fellow brother here and give a hand'.
How is this two opposite sides of the planet?
Also a person could ignore the other person with the bags because if a person doesnt like help because of pride or some other reason, then he too can ignore the person in need because he would have such behaviour done unto himself.
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I'm sure other people are going to see no difference, but I see a huge one, and regardless of what else, since it is the article we are discussing - Jesus was the FIRST to put this law/guideline in the positive (do to others). All before him simply said "don't do to others). The difference is clear to me.
The difference to me still isnt clear. Just the same thing worded differently.