QUOTE (sandee @ Aug 24 2008, 01:42 PM)

There has been studies of the criminal mind , what makes a person kill or rape or molest children?
Some cases speak for themselves but then there are others where you have to wonder if the person is just evil.
Child molesters in my opinion are just plain evil and I think rehabilitation is a joke, these people are evil and need to be done away with. Medical experts will say there is something wrong with their brain or chemical balance and I say bull they act on their sick and twisted feelings!
Rapist are the same.
Murderers are just killers who try and blame their childhood or some ridiculous claim and that is equally repulsive!
What do you think?
Can these sickos be rehabilitated and why even try?
Are they just evil and that is the explanation?
Every single day these horrible things happen to people and though the medical community would like to say they can find out why and find a way to treat it I say it is time these people get just what they deserve!
First of all, a good 90% of all folks who molest children are either family members or friends of the family of the victim. The real problem is systemic, not individual. These things happen in a larger context than just a monster and his prey. So, is the child molester evil, while the mother who ignores her child's evident distress and fear of the molester good? And if the child has the personal currage to tell on the molester and the parents dismiss her story out of hand because he's her uncle, her pastor, where's the evil?
Evil can only succeed when the system within which it works is rife with denial. The Catholic Church is such a system. A family where the father abuses his daughter and the mother drinks herself to sleep every night is another. Similarly, the father of our American House, the President, commits crimes against our people and we do nothing; instead we forgive him all, hope that things will get better, but never blame him. Evil is rarely,
rarely limited to a single person in any context. Evil is cowardly and will not act unless it feels safe. Our alienated culture, where we stay strangers with our neighbors as long as we can, is a comfortable fit for the evil doer.
At the moment, it would seem, rehabilitation for child molesters isn't happening. Society doesn't want it. Suicide is high amongst the few molesters who accept help. Whether this is due to our culture-wide hatred for such people (a hatred shared by the molesters themselves, of course!), or to some organic malfunction, we can't be sure. Something is surely terribly wrong with such folks. Surely their personalities are disordered--borderline, narcissistic, something.
The spirit of your post,
sandee, is one of vengeance. Such feelings are understandable, but the actions that flow from such feelings are themselves pathological. Vengeance brings no healing, only further harm. Evil has a field effect, if you will, and when the victim of evil commits evil in reprisal, can't you see that the victim is simply spreading evil like a contagion? The antidote to evil is grief and healing, never rageful action.
I was raped by my own dad. There was a time, in therapy, when I wanted very badly to go down to his house and physically destroy him, see his blood in the road and on my hands. I was terrified that I would go through with it, too. My very wise and down to earth therapist reminded me that as long as I stayed sober, I would always be able to choose my actions. He suggested that what I was really after was to be free of my father and if I were to murder him, I would never be free. I recognized that he was right, and that I would not allow myself to bind myself irrevocably to the past, destroying my future in the bargain.