i don't think i'm the only girl that doesn't know how to figure out boys? why do they change all the time?? why do they have to try and impress they're mates??

the main reason guys "have" to impress their friends is because of the whole alpha male thing. also, we like to see that we're better at things than our friends, i guess.

as for changin, how do ya mean?

imean that they're always changing they're mind about how much they like you and stuff and it get's really confusing!!!

The Brotherhood of Men told me to tell you that if you reveal our secrets we'll take away Your right to scratch embarrising areas in public..

..You've been warned!

thanks for the warning.......................................

Don't worry about trying to figure "boys" out .... at your age just focus on going to college and becoming a very independent woman!!!

When you get my age... you will understand "men" 100%... it's a confusing road ahead... and you have a lot to learn about the male species...but you will soon learn how to turn the table..... and have them wondering what to do to impress YOU!!!

i hope sooo and ofcourse i want to be an independent female!!!!!!!!!!! and i definitely want a good career!! don't really know what though..........

ok then. is it true boys flirt with other girls just to make sure they still 'have it'?

It's only a high school thing for the most part. Once you grow up, you'll see that the actual real world isn't like that at all, only high school and teenagehood. But trust me, enjoy it while you can!!

yeh i will enjoy youth to the full extent!! and boys!! but unfortunately i have to go now!

i'm glad that at least some guys are faithful to their girlfriends

lol i'm sorry for this but i can't think of any other way to put it: that's the stupidest definition of adultery i've ever heard. could be the right one, i don't know, to me it just sounds far too restricting and controlling, even for religion.

i flirt, but i don't mean to. it's just how i act. i didn't know i was flirting for years until someone finally told me. but then again, i am generally pretty clueless.

I think people who think it's easy to not flirt with someone else while you're in a relationship have never been with the same person year upon year..

How to figure out guys ?
There aint a definitve Answer other than act as if they were the best at everthing , that apease's our usually Large ego's. Although this does involve some lying (In Extreme Cases it means a relationship based on lies(WTF you doin with a guy like that Anyway ))

Myself on the other hand would Involve no lies , In fact you wouldnt even have to tell me Im the best at everthing , I already know

*chuckles shaking her head*
Flirting is flirting where is the harm in that?
All relationships, in whatever shape/form that they take,
have to involve a few things, honesty and communication other wise it wouldn't work....

I never flirt, in fact I'm terrible at it. I should not say anything, ever. I'm just too horribly shy and awkward around the fairer sex.

And just in case anybody actually bought that, I flirt all the time, and I can honestly say I don't really think about much more than flirting when I'm in a relationship with someone. It's fun, but I know who I'm going home to. I like to see if I "still have it" so to speak.

When I'm in the right mood I'll flirt with anything that moves... and if it doesn't move, it better learn, fast!

As for what does me flirting with a person mean.... it means FLIRTING IS FUN!
Nothing more, nothing less, if I've anything else in mind don't worry I'll let you know!

Scar, I have something to confess....


I'm not after you....

Do not feed boys anything good. They will always come back for seconds. When it stops being good, they will move on to a new owner.

well after reading this i have to say that boys basiclly change to impress u women thats y i do it


:alien:

:rolleyes:

true fenris, but he's young, and that's not "hip," "with it," "funky," "23 skidoo," or any of those other newfangled slang words for common and trendy.

For the most part , relationships in high may seem like a big deal ... but in reality they are far from it . I would suggest focusing more on your life then school .

I just graduated and a couple girls actually turned down college offers because of their boyfriend that doesn't qualify . The sad part is : the guys are not like either of the girls think they are . The girls that did this will bassically be ruined simply because they have poor sense's of character .

That's another thing ... for the most part most girls and most boys have very poor abilities when it comes to figuring out a member of the opposite sex during their teenage years . Many of us guys make the mistake of assuming that if a girl is pretty looking on the outside she will be nice on the inside . ( fat chance .... )
Many girls end up confusing masculinity for assininity and vice versa , then end up locking lips with a jerk who possesses the IQ of a donut ( I have seen this happen waaaaay too much ) . Bottom line - you may want to wait a little bit longer till you take any of this seriously . Enjoy life for now !

Actually Xeno, if she concentrates on school and making herself independent , she can enjoy life for longer . The teenage years are fun while they last , but independence and maturity can bring you a lot more worth .


I never flirt .








Scar ,
nice butt.

Treat everybody with the same respect and dignity that you expect and deserve for yourself. Don't accept less from yourself or others.

hi guys i totally agree with jenk flirting is harmless fun!! i flirt!!

i think that guys act like idiots infront ov their mates!!

OK THEN boys.....!! why do you always look for a pretty face rather then a nice personality???

Edit; combined consecutive posts

I've never really gotten into the whole flirting/dating/crushing-on thing. . . . Some people say I'm missing out on a certain social aspect of high school. Why lower my standards and settle for something I don't really want, though? The boy-crazed girls I know seem to define themselves by who they're with or who they have a crush on or who might like them. I don't do that. *yay me! I get 100 points! *

Then again, most of the guys I hang out with end up being gay in the end. Considering that, no wonder I don't date. *sigh*

i don't think any girl will ever understand how guys work!

nah! i reckon that even women don't understand guys! no one but a guy can! and i think the sooner girls realise that the sooner they can just get on with letting boys and men be!

i don't see why anyone would try to understand the opposite sex, or even their own. makes no sense. people are just crazy.

You will understand boys when you realise that you don't understand them becuase they are all differant . Their are things that we guys share in common but for the most part something can can turn one guy on will turn off another . Trying to understand the opposite sex doesn't exactly work that easily ... its better to learn to understand the one person for you

BTW a quick advice for your friends - All of those fashion magazines that claim they know the secrets to boys yada yada yada ... are completely full of crap .

why does it make people crazy to try and understand the opposite sex??? it's a very interesting prospect!