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Stamford
Ok, after 18 years of dedication to the cause, I have finally given taken the plunge and given up smoking - well I say given up, it's 17 hours so far and I am climbing the damn walls. crying.gif

Any ex-smokers out there got any tips to help poor old Stamford?

Any advise would be much appreciated!! thumbsup.gif
doomgirl
I'd say got to sleep for abt a year
Daughter of the Nine Moons
Good for you! I unfortunately took up smoking again after I returned to work. I only smoke about 3 ciggarettes a day while I'm at work. However it's a dirty nasty habit that I want to stop. My doctor told me it takes 3 weeks to get over the physical addiction. It's the psycological addiction that is the really hard part, I think. Good luck!

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Fluffybunny
I wish you the best.

The most sucessful people I know used the patch, and they felt it really helped the cravings quite a bit...

Hang in there! Your lungs will thank you...As will your pocketbook...
Nxt2Hvn
I'm sorry ... don't have any advice to give... since I have never even picked up a cigarette....

But I do want to say Good For You and Good Luck!!!!

I can be the head of your cheering section!!!


Stamford, Stamford he's our man... if he can't do it ... no one can! w00t.gif

YAY... GOoooooo Stamford!!!!! thumbsup.gif
Falco Rex
Everyone I know who quit for good did by tossing out their pack and dealing with the cravings you get going cold turkey, even though that sucks immensely..Try to avoid your family too..Nothing gets people going like family problems..
Stamford
Aw, shucks,

Thanks for the kind words guys. thumbsup.gif wub.gif

PS - Everytime I need a smoke, I will picture Nxt2Hvn in short skirt with pom-poms!! wink2.gif
gollum
Hey stamford,

welcome aboard, I've stopped for 2.5 weeks now and i can tell you this, it gets easier. crying.gif

I have been using lozengers and they have been working up to now.

All I can say is stick with it and good luck.

joc
CODE
Everyone I know who quit for good did by tossing out their pack and dealing with the cravings you get going cold turkey, even though that sucks immensely..Try to avoid your family too..Nothing gets people going like family problems..


The starting point of all achievment is desire! The greater the desire, the greater the achievment. Maintain a positive attitude and tell yourself you CAN quit.

I remember trying to quit for years. Finally I just crushed a freshly opened pack in my hand and never looked back. You have to be somewhat defiant about it...also keep in mind that people who smoke cigarettes...die...from tobacco related illnesses...lung cancer...emphasema, heart disease!

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doomgirl
my mother tried quiting, she went for about 6 months and then the cravings hit her really bad again, needless to say she's smoking again, but good luck thumbsup.gif
Stamford
Nice one guys.

At the moment I have a patch, nicotine inhalator and chewing gum - not to mention some very kind words of support!!!

I've been putting this off for years, but the day had to come eventually (30 a day is not a good lifestyle choice).

Once again thanks thumbsup.gif
joc
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At the moment I have a patch, nicotine inhalator and chewing gum - not to mention some very kind words of support!!!


Although some say they work, the problem I have with them is that you are feeding the nicotine habit...not breaking it...in my opinion 'cold turkey' is the only way...but that's just what worked for me. The key is determination more than anything else. Good luck! thumbsup.gif
BurnSide
I've quit for just over a month now. No cravings EVER..

Listen, the patch is the only way to go. It's AMAZING. It really really does get rid of all your cravings and desires to have a smoke. And it's a smegwad cheaper than buying smokes. I strongly strongly suggest it.

Good luck and just keep at it! The cravings do go away!!
ambyglam
The easiest way to give up is to get over it!

U were not born addicted and the addiction is all in your head, try and remember this, and it will help!

also try sucking on tunes when u need a fag, cos the sugar will give u a kick ans the menthol will make u feel clearer in the lungs!

apart from that stick with it mate!

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reese2
I have a friend that says what he did was simply crush his cigs, throw them away, and now he tells everyone he is a NON SMOKER, not that he quit, he just simply looks at it as though he never smoked. I am sure it has to do with defiance. You just need to resound yourself to doing it.. But, who am I to talk..?? whistling2.gif

You could land yourself in jail for a healthy stint, now that they are mandatory nonsmoking, you wouldn't have a choice... (Recommended for only the hardest of heads) wink2.gif


Reese
Fluffybunny
QUOTE (ambyglam1 @ Jun 22 2004, 09:53 AM)
also try sucking on tunes when u need a fag, cos the sugar will give u a kick ans the menthol will make u feel clearer in the lungs!


I always giggle when you Brits say that...it has a different meaning here...

Here is some timely inspiration:

Cigarettes Rob Smokers of 10 Years of Life

LONDON (Reuters) - Cigarette smokers die on average 10 years earlier than non-smokers but kicking the habit, even at 50 years old, can halve the risk, according to half a century of research reported on Tuesday.

Findings from a 50-year study into the dangers of smoking showed that if people quit by the age of 30 they can avoid nearly all of the risk of dying prematurely.


"Cigarette smoking reduces the expectation of life by 10 years," said 91-year-old Oxford University Professor Richard Doll who discovered the link between cancer and smoking.


"It is clear that consistent cigarette smoking doubles mortality throughout adult life -- middle and old age. It is also clear that giving up smoking can eliminate a very large part of the hazard," he told Reuters.


Doll and Bradford Hill confirmed the link between smoking and lung cancer in a landmark study published in the British Medical Journal on June 26, 1954.


Half a century later, Doll and Oxford University Professor Richard Peto report the 50-year results from the same study of 34,439 British doctors in the journal.


"This study is a remarkable achievement. Studies that last 50 years are highly unusual in medicine, and it's even more unusual for one to have an author who was there at the beginning and after 50 years," the journal's editor Dr Richard Smith told a news conference.


"It has taught us a great deal," he added.

Doll, who had smoked for 19 years before giving up, had planned only a five-year project but the initial findings were so intriguing he carried on for five decades.

"I gave up smoking at age 37 when I saw the results of our first study. They were quite convincing to me," he said in an interview.

The early results from his second study confirmed that smoking causes lung cancer and suggested that it also causes heart disease.

"We thought we'd better carry the study on for a lot longer and see if smoking causes anything else and by goodness it does," said Doll.

"By the time we did the 40-year follow-up...we found there were some 25 diseases which smoking seemed to cause and that the mortality was about double with the consistency of smoking."

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orangeblossom
Good luck thumbsup.gif . Wish i had the willpower n determenation, but sadly at this moment in time i don't crying.gif
Chauncy
Smoking is a nasty nasty addiction to drop.

When I quite, I smoke now but I've quit numorous times, but keep going back. I'm good at quitting now so I know that I'm on the verge of making it a permanent thing, it takes practice.

Water is a good thing because it really helps to flush the nicotine out of your system. Once the nicotine is gone, with drinking lots of water it will be gone in a couple of days, its just psychological after that.

The biggest threats to a non-smoker is stress and idle hands. So avoid stressful situations when possible and keep busy!!

Also it helps to think of your self as a non-smoker, instead of saying "I'm trying to quit".
To say your "Trying to quit" implies that you are still a smoker. Your goal is to be a non-smoker, so start thinking like one.original.gif

Good luck dude!!
Hopefully I can join your club soon enough.
AliceCoopersGirl
QUOTE (Nxt2Hvn @ Jun 22 2004, 05:10 PM)

Stamford, Stamford he's our man... if he can't do it ... no one can! w00t.gif

YAY... GOoooooo Stamford!!!!! thumbsup.gif

Im 100% behind you Stamford,wish I could do it.
I keep trying but then just as I give up something comes along and kicks me right up the arse.
Stick with it,you can do it.We have faith in you. wink2.gif
BurnSide
The paaaaatch!!

PAAAATCCHH!!!!



It also helps to have a gorgeous woman who you love dearly and live with who has asthma and is quitting because of it. I'm quitting for her.
babyforrest
Stamford, did I ever tell you that you're my hero? Well, you are. Baby luvs ya, keep up the good work.
Chauncy
I've used the patch before.......ya I ended up just ripping it off my arm and then I chewed it. laugh.gif

Zyban worked for me.....I quit for 3 months when I tried the Zyban.

http://www.chm.bris.ac.uk/motm/zyban/zyban.htm
BurnSide
QUOTE (Chauncy @ Jun 22 2004, 03:52 PM)
I've used the patch before.......ya I ended up just ripping it off my arm and then I chewed it. laugh.gif

Really? I've been on it for a month. i'm down to the smaller Step 2 patches now. I find they work wonders!!
Kismit

Kismit grabs Pom-poms ........
I've never waved a pom-pom in my life disgust.gif
but Yay Stamford , it's not easy .
I have just made it past my first 12 months smoke free on my third attempt (first time 2 years , second time 3 months . Hey nobody's perfect ). It helped me to analyse what was happening to my body .

As Chauncy said drink water . It takes only three days for the poisonous Nicotine to be removed from your body . You will then stop suffering from the physical cravings . Those first three days are the hardest part , and once you have achieved them if you pick up another cigarette it's like going back to square one .

It's not all over yet , it will now take you around 3 weeks to fight the phsycological addiction . This is the part where your smoking routine will come in to play . We all have routines and schedules we keep even if we are not aware of them , these are the times our cravings are at there nastiest .

So remember how well you have done by getting past the first 3 days , and re-arange your life a little , to change the schedule , distract your self it's only going to take a few weeks . Drink water lots and lots of water . Oh and stay away from coffee if you can . I didn't . I still need atleast one addiction . I said I wasn't perfect didn't I .

It only takes 3 months for your body to start healing and getting better . After 3 months you will be able to breath easier , snoring will become less of a problem ,you can start to see the viens in your wrist increase in volume , your circulation will improve , you will be able to taste more and you will be able to smell things better , allthough there are times when you may wish you still had the the blissfully ignorant nasal pasages of a smoker , not everything smells good .

So remember 3 days , 3 weeks and 3 months . and if you fall of the wagon you can allways try again later . It does get easier with practise ..

Take- care and if you need to PM me, and I'll growl at you a bit to keep you distracted wink2.gif ... good luck .
Universal Absurdity
All i know is that a nicotine fit dosent last more than 3 minutes.

And looking at this helps sometimes, sometimes it dosent...depends on my mood
odinsgrl
GO GO GO! You can do it!

I tried quitting for awhile and I'm sad to say I couldn't do it disgust.gif

I had one trick that helped for awhile. I took a bunch of my cigarrette butts and put them in a coffee can, and filled it about half-way up with water, put the lid on it, and set it to the side. Everytime I wanted a cig, i took a nice big wiff of that can, and oooooo boooooy! I didn't want a cig, once I smelled that.
Permakid
Yay Stamford!!!! grin2.gif

I'm so glad you are trying to quit!

I quit smoking last August and found a lot of tricks and tools that helped me. Unfortunately, I started again about a month ago, so I'm right there with you quitting again (I'm into day two now). Thankfully, this time I was only smoking 2-4 cigarettes a day!

Anyway, here is some advice from my first venture in quitting. (Most people quit 2-3 times before achieving permanent success.)

As several people have mentioned, drink plenty of water. Not only will it flush the toxins from your body, but it will also help prevent constipation (sorry I brought it up but it is a common and unpleasant side effect of smoking cessation). Also try eating fruits like apples or raisins - they'll help with the aforementioned problem and help prevent you from gaining weight too.

When I quit last year, in place of my cigarette pack, I carried around a little tin full of things to help me stay focused on my goal. Included were the following items:

* a piece of string
* a marble
* silly putty

(these first three were to keep my hands busy when I felt fidgety due to a craving)

Also included were:

* regular gum
* nicotine gum (for the really bad cravings)
* a list of all the things I disliked about smoking

I found my box of tricks to be very helpful. Perhaps something similar would work for you. Also, make it a point of telling those close to you that you are quitting and ask them to help support you. They can lend a hand by simply checking in on you frequently to see how you're doing, encouraging you, and reminding you of why you want to quit.

Most importantly, stay positive! You can do it! thumbsup.gif And I'll be right there with you (actually, I'm thousands of miles away, but you know what I mean).
joc
Just one more thought:

Mark Twain once said, "Quiting smoking is the easiest thing to do in the world....


....I've done it hundreds of times!" tongue.gif


Don't think of it as 'quiting' because the term 'quiting' is associated with failure and therefore is a negative...rather...think, I shall refrain from smoking for the moment...
I have posted this before but will do so again because I think it fits. Napolean Hill wrote in his amazing book Think and Grow Rich:

We must not think of our future in terms of years. Years don't just happen. But hours do! And the years are the cumulative results of hours of work, or hours of worry, or hours of investment of patience and time and love.

You are involving yourself here ultimately in a battle for your life. Just think about some of the stats Fluffybunny posted. Studies have proven that smokers die ten years too soon. If you had your choice, Would you die now? Or ten years from now? You have that choice....right now...good luck. thumbsup.gif
Stamford
Just wanted to sat a BIG THANK YOU to all the kind messages of support.

I am truly moved and very, very touched.

I have to say yesterday was a really tough time for me, that's why I posted this thread.

As usual the UM crew came through. thumbsup.gif

THANKS GUYS
love

i think that smoking is disgusting, but i don't moan at people who do coz its not worth it and its their choice if they want to kill themselves. rolleyes.gif
thebarman
QUOTE (Stamford @ Jun 22 2004, 04:56 PM)
Any ex-smokers out there got any tips to help poor old Stamford?

Yep, don't become a barman!

Seriously though when I (tried to) quit lots of chewing gum helped, also staying away from other smokers is a good idea when possible thumbsup.gif

Good luck dude, I completely sympathise with you
Blobby


I've tried smoking before, but I've never really found it addictive. I suppose if you have lots of them it can become effective, but why does chewing gum help, just out of interest!!!... thumbsup.gif
thebarman
QUOTE (Blobby @ Jun 23 2004, 04:38 PM)
I've tried smoking before, but I've never really found it addictive. I suppose if you have lots of them it can become effective, but why does chewing gum help, just out of interest!!!... thumbsup.gif

It's a mind association thing, you don't smoke a fag when you're chewing gum, so if I'm chewing gum then I wont want a fag.

I'd just like to say I'm going to try and join Stamford and give it up, more for financial reasons than health issues but that's not the point.
Kismit


good for you Barman thumbsup.gif

Stamford
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I'd just like to say I'm going to try and join Stamford and give it up, more for financial reasons than health issues but that's not the point.


Wow, maybe we should start a club, Barman, we've already got three members, you, me and permakid.

Well done mate. thumbsup.gif

Day 3 for me now - feeling pretty good.



thebarman
QUOTE (Stamford @ Jun 24 2004, 10:46 AM)
Wow, maybe we should start a club, Barman, we've already got three members, you, me and permakid.

OK then...
jimma
Might have already been said cos i cant be bothered to read the whole thread. Go to your doctor and ask for ZYBAN. My mum smoked 30 a day for 40 years, she went to the doc who gave her ZYBAN which took the Cravings away COMPLETELY. It's not for everyone and you have to be tested first and you also have to go to 1 meeting (a bit like AA) but apparently an amazing wonder drug! The only probs my mum had was adjusting hr routines!!!
Stamford
Excellent pic, Barman!! thumbsup.gif

Thanks, jimma, I considered Zyaban (or however you spell it), but apparently you're supposed to cut down on your drinking; one vice at a time, or I'll have to change my name to Mother Teresa.

I'm actually going to one of these AA type meetings at the mo; it's a 5-week course and it has been really helpful.

If I don't make it this time, I'll give the Zyaban a go - hopefully won't need to though.

thebarman
QUOTE (Stamford @ Jun 24 2004, 01:09 PM)
but apparently you're supposed to cut down on your drinking;

lol, really not for me then wink2.gif
AliceCoopersGirl
Just wondering how everyone that was giving up smoking is doing?

Hope you are all doing well with it. thumbsup.gif
Stamford
Hangs head and shuffles nervously

Bit of a relapse on my part, despite all the wonderful words of support and PMs from everyone - I really am very embarrased. crying.gif

I had a massive stress-out and reached for the smokes (and that was after getting through the whole England game against Portugal without smoking). w00t.gif

What's worse (actually it's very good) is my better half quit the same day as me and is still going strong - so I look like an even bigger monkey-butler!!

However, I am giving up again on Saturday and this time I am determined to stick with it.

Hope the others are still going strong!! thumbsup.gif

thebarman
I may have faultered just slightly aswell...

In my defence it was my girlfriend who helped/made me stop but then we kinda broke up, which meant I hit the smokes again.

To make matters worse the new girl on the scene (hey, I'm a barman, we don't waste any time) is a smoker too although we've both decided to help each other quit.

So with a bit of luck, will power and maybe a small miracle we can all get through this and come out the other side smelling of roses...

...instead of fag ash wink2.gif
Montclair
Tobacco in itself does not contain so many chemicals as the cigarettes.Why can't
they produce naturall(Organic) cigaretes?
Stamford
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Tobacco in itself does not contain so many chemicals as the cigarettes.Why can't
they produce naturall(Organic) cigaretes?


True, I've heard that there are some 200 chemicals added to tobacco.

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I may have faultered just slightly aswell...


Lol, I had a ding dong with the future Mother-in-Law, which is enough to drive any man back to the fags (Americans please note: Not those type of 'fags').

Anyhoo, back off the evil weed this weekend. thumbsup.gif
Kismit

Actually I'm more concerned with the Barmans love life . Don't forget rule number one Barman . Never, and I mean never , mix up the names ..... dontgetit.gif

but keep up the good work if your determined you'll do it , and Stamford you can't let your girlfriend show you up ... rolleyes.gif
Janiel
everytime you fell you need to take a drag tell me...i'll gladly poke you in the forehead a few times to get you through it... thumbsup.gif
thebarman
QUOTE (Kismit @ Jul 2 2004, 10:42 AM)
Never, and I mean never , mix up the names ..... dontgetit.gif

I actually did that once, I called someone Sarah instead of Susan!

Perhaps the worst thing is that I don't know any Sarah's, I didn't get her confused with someone else, I actually genuinely forgot her name - how bad is that!

Ooops! huh.gif


ps: Thanks for your support Kismit thumbsup.gif
Stamford
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and Stamford you can't let your girlfriend show you up ...


Ah, Kis, why break the habit of a lifetime!! whistling2.gif

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I actually did that once, I called someone Sarah instead of Susan!


Could be worse, Barman, you could have called her 'Brian'! wacko.gif
AliceCoopersGirl
Oops,sorry guys.I didn't mean to bring up bad things.

Hope you both are able to give up.

Stick with it,believe in yourselves,come on here when you feel you are slipping and we will sort you both out. thumbsup.gif
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