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the master theologian
Greetings. I am Norman. Please let us start a discussion about spirituality.
Who in here believes in God, and who does't? Bring it on folk! cool.gif Share your
thoughts:
BurnSide
What are your beliefs on it Norman?

I personally an an Athiest, i don't believe in any god or religion. But that does not stop me admiring other peoples religions and beliefs.
aquatus1
I too became an atheist just last week after a decade long stint as an agnostic. I am simply too much a scientist to be comfortable in having faith without corroborating evidence.

Having said that, I have no problem thinking of myself as a very spiritual person. I do not believe the human spirit has any need of gods, goddesses, or any sort of paranatural phenomena to exist.

Incidentally, is it just me or do I detect a bit of chest thumping in this thread? I take it you are looking for a 'spirited' debate? ;-)
RyuujinBlueZ
Like the previous two, I'm an atheist. Have been my entire life, though to kill the question before it starts I wasn't raised as such.

I'm still extremely...spiritual, for lack of a better word. My beliefs are quite odd, and in many cases not fully thought out. That's largely because I'm still working on them, changing them to fit new information.

Which isn't to say I'm an idiot, or don't know anything.

Feel free to give me a buzz Norman, either in this topic, PM me, or even go to my profile and grab any IM info I might have in there.


I always enjoy a nice discussion. grin2.gif
Todd
Greetings Norman,

I'm a Christian and proud to be one.

Are you as well?
Me_Again
wub.gif Oh I believe in our creator and I believe we are creators ourselves. Now who created the God you are talking about? That is the question. We all know we were created right? But who created our creator, maybe it was the aliens j/k wink2.gif The question I have to answer for myself is this...
Is there just one all powerful creator, the creator of it all. Who holds the secrets to all of these mysteries, and all of these questions in my mind. Or are the possibilites endless, literally. This I know to be true for me, I feel my best when I listen to my highest thought and acknowledge that others highest thoughts are nothing like mine. When we as a human race, all at once accept each other. Well that would be my idea of heaven on earth...
Novo
Ok norman, give my some conclusive proof of the christian God.I was once a strong christian norman.But then I saw that people kill other people because of beliefs,What motivated bin laden? Words in a book written 2000 years ago, what motivated the crusades? words in a book written 2000 years. whats motivating bush? Idioism and the belief that Gods sending him messages, and I quote
"First god told me to strike at bin laden,Then the al queda and now saddam"-President Bush 2004.If theres a God out there norman who loves us all oh so much why does he tell us to hate and judge? I would be willing to take my chances betting he's not. Im not stating there is no "God" but far more likely It's a being of a higher consciouness. Not a figure of fantasy in a book. I think if the all knowing loving God as the bible portrays him is so real then why is he condemning people to hell.
Seraphina
I...*dramatic pause*....am an athiest. This not a subject that is difficult to research tongue.gif

Student&Alive, I'm afraid asking for proof of the Christian God is pointless. There isn't any, and what's more (and slightly frightening), they don't seem to need any. Starting up another one of those debates is likely to just get the topic locked in short order. We had a very pleasant "what do you believe" thread a while ago, or some such thing....this might be a chance to let newer members give their input so long as it remains open, eh? tongue.gif
Liutas


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Ok norman, give my some conclusive proof of the christian God.I was once a strong christian norman.But then I saw that people kill other people because of beliefs


I'm a recovering Catholic who has slowly been moving towards a very confused idea of faith, reality and spirituality that i don't pretend to understand fully (indeed i think if i ever do understand it fully, then i have made a mistake somewhere).

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What motivated bin laden? Words in a book written 2000 years ago, what motivated the crusades? words in a book written 2000 years.


On a note of pure pedantry "bin Laden's book" is only about 1500 years old. It';s interesting that you mentioned the crusades as well, after all when Christianity was 1500 years old it did pretty much what extremeist muslims are doing now. For pretty much the same reasons...

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I think if the all knowing loving God as the bible portrays him is so real then why is he condemning people to hell.


Ahhh but is he? Certainly the church says he does as do the books written by men but because men say these things, does it make them real?
Liutas
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I'm afraid asking for proof of the Christian God is pointless. There isn't any, and what's more (and slightly frightening), they don't seem to need any.


The question is what do you define as proof. I have proof as to the existance of my gods but it is proof you would not accept as such. You would likely suggest that i was simply deluding myself if i told you that in times of great distress, I feel Laima's arm around my shoulder comforting me or that i was crazy because i hear her tell me it will be ok. You would like as not say that this is not proof.

To you it is not. To me it is all the proof i need.
BurnSide
There will NEVER be any proof. There has never been any proof.

However, some will argue that the holy Bible is all the proof they need, and they will argue that the Church is witness to everything the bible says, and that's all they need.
Proof is not a book written by a bunch of kids 2000 years ago, not is it the spoken word of a power hungry organisation. And it is definately not a 'feeling' you get in your head.

I personally cannot accept these as proof.
But there will always be Religion. People need it to justify their lives because they cannot accept that we are animals, whos sole purpose on the earth is to have sex, bare children and die and rott away in the ground.

Why don't other animals have religion? Because they're not intelligent enough to delude themselves.
Why are there so many different religions, instead of just one? Because all evolutions of man are the same, they need religion to justify themselves, so they make up gods to worship.

Religion is murder. It is a cult. You blindly follow what some random dude says because he hears voices. Men kill for their gods when, wait, isn't that AGAINST their religion?
Hell, the very religion doesn't make sense. If something this big is gonna be made up, don't make it contradict itself with teachings on how bad it is to have sex and inbred, when the religion clearly states that every human being on earth is inbred from 2 humans who suddenly popped one day into existance.

*sigh* It's the most irrational, silly thing on the planet. But if you need it to get through your day, good for you.
the master theologian
Alright. People are replying way too fast. I can't keep track of all comments.
I am also a christian. However, I do not believe that YOU are an atheist.
Because an atheist thinks there is no God.
Let me explain:
For you to claim that there is NO God, you'd have to know everything about
that particular subject. For example, if I said that there is NO gold in china,
I would have to know that there really is't gold in china. See? I would have
to search all of china for gold, so that I could believe that there is no gold in china.
However, if I say there is gold in china, all I have to do is look for one piece of
gold and that will assure me that there is indeed gold in china. Therefore, in the
same way, no one can say that there is no GOD, because you do not really know
if there is a God. And my friends there is a God and I can proove it. See, the Bible
says that God prooves Himself through His creation and wise thinking. Do you
really think that the human eye- so complex and so well designed, and all
the wonders of the universe, our brains our ability to love and hate, and
the starts and the oceans...

Can you truly say that there is no God? I think thats
a fair argument. However, humans believe in what they can see. Therefore, we
have to look at God as an entity which we cannot. Lets take the law of gravity
of example. For example, you're standing on top of a tall building, and you're
thinking of jumping off. Now, can you see gravity? NO. But it is still there.
Gravity can be tested... yes. So can God. If you die right now, for any reason,
I assure you that you will meet GOD. This is genuine proof. Yet there is another
way to experience GOD. If you become a christian, and trust in God with
all your heart, then you will KNOW God. It is written in our hearts as
a signature of a great masterpiece, that GOD created us. Not an explosion,
not gasses and chemicals, not the ocean. Think of it this way... Whitch is easier
to believe?.... That our intelligence came from nothing, or that our intelligence
came from a higher intelligence? I think I am intelligent enough to know
the right answer. There is a God, and there is an Evil force called Satan.
See, science is like a box that limits reality. Science can be prooven yes. But so can everything else outside of the box. Try to think outside of the box. Realize that there is more to what we can see. If there is a painting, how do you know that there is't a painter? How do you know that your car was made, and it did't just appear? How do you know that you did't come from nothing? See, if we came from nothing, then we are the product of nothing! Do you know what you get when you multiply any number with zero? ZERO! Nothing! If we came from nothing,
or a mere explosion, then we should not be here. How can you think that
there is no God?
Yes, you respect all religions... Sure. But there is only 1
major belief that is the truth. And that is christianity. God exists,
and you exist. You cannot deny it. But which is the right faith? The Bible.
Slow down for a minute and realize that atheists are simply confused.

edited Islam part... don't start a flame war please? read rules if in doubt
GemStar
i dont believe in god but i think there is good and bad forces witch we are faced with each choice and i think there is temptation everywhere in todays society. wink2.gif
we all need faith weather that in god or in your self.
if anyone has spoke to god or he or she has to you tell them to sort out the things related to religion ty.




Edited you didn't need three posts say all this... whistling2.gif
BurnSide
Norman, you just said that all religions except christianity are false.
That is the single, silliest comment i have ever heard.
You sir, have proved my point.

And it's a contradiction too. How do you know there IS a god. You don't.
odinsgrl
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You cannot deny it. But which is the right faith? The Bible.
Slow down for a minute and realize that atheists are simply confused.


I wouldn't call them confused. They just do not believe in the Christian God, or any other God or higher being. That is thier belief. They seem pretty darn sure of it, that doesn't sound confusing to me.

I do not believe in the Christian God, either. But I do understand that there are people out there, who believe a different way that I do, and I totally respect and accept that. And if it happens to be, that they don't believe in any higher power, so be it. I do not look down on others for thier belief or disbelief. Thats the wonderful thing about people, they are all so different! Yay!

Kira
Norman:
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But there is only 1
major belief that is the truth. And that is christianity
.


Ahhhh just to interject here you cannot prove that either way... and saying it is being entirely contradictory to what you started this thread for....

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Greetings. I am Norman. Please let us start a discussion about spirituality.
Who in here believes in God, and who does't? Bring it on folk!  Share your
thoughts:


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Liutas
Burnside, Seraphina, or any other atheist reading this define proof for me. What would be considered proof of the existence of god (or gods)?
aquatus1
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However, if I say there is gold in china, all I have to do is look for one piece of gold and that will assure me that there is indeed gold in china. Therefore, in the
same way, no one can say that there is no GOD, because you do not really know
if there is a God.


I don't know from gods, but I do know science and logic. You can look all you want for gold in China, you can say it's there as loudly as you want, but until such time as you actually find a nugget containing a significant percentage of the Au element (gold), you will not have empirical evidence of it, and therefore you will not have proof of it. You will have faith that it is there, but not proof. (This all assumes the geologic impossiblity of gold in China, of which I have no idea wether it is possible or not).

In other words, what you are attempting to do is what is called a Reduction Argument. It basically goes: Given A, B, C, then If A does not equal C, B must equal C. It is a logically correct argument, however (and this is the part that most overlook) the assumption is that both A and B are of equal standing. In other words, if C is Fruit, then Both A and B must be a type of fruit. If C is Book, both A and B must be a type of book. The only way that you can logically eliminate either A or B is if they both follow the exact same rules of structure and order.

So how does this relate to your example. Like this: Your examples assumes that your argument A (gold) is the equivalent of your argument B (God). If one can disprove the impossiblity of gold in China by the discovery of a single nugget of gold (which is true, and I am assuming you meant that you have metaphorically discovered such a thing), then one can disprove the impossibility of God by finding one single 'nugget' of God (also true). But this nugget of God MUST possess the same structure and order of the nugget of gold. It must be measurable, classifiable, and verifiable. They are not, however, and therefore you example is moot.

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See, the Bible says that God prooves Himself through His creation and wise thinking. Do you really think that the human eye- so complex and so well designed, and all the wonders of the universe, our brains our ability to love and hate, and
the starts and the oceans...


This is another common argument referred to as Irreducible Complexity. Another popular example (asides from cars and paintings) is the pocketwatch example, where if you find a pocketwatch on the beach, you would assume that it was man-made, because it is too complex to have come about by sheer chance.

But this is another false argument because it makes a significantly incorrect assumption. Complexity is NOT the sign of natural intelligence. Read that again. Complexity is NOT the sign of natural intelligence; SIMPLICITY is the sign of natural intelligence.

I'll explain. Let's say you go down to the river shore. Look at all the pebbles on the bank and pick one up. Your assignment is to replicate this stone. To do this, you will have to measure all the imperfections, all the many dimensions, the different densities, all the color variations, everything that makes this pebble what it is. Why are there so many different factors? They are there because the pebble is a product of numerous accidents; the sheer result of a hundred different possibilities coming to pass exactly as they did. But let us say that you found a different pebble. This one is perfectly spherical. It is an even glossy black. It is of equal density throughout. Replicating this one is simple. Volume=Pi*Radius cubed. A note for color, another for density, and you're done.

Which of the two pebbles would you suspect of being natural, and which man-made?

Now, to the second fallacy in your argument. You belief that the eye is so darned perfect. Its design is such that there is a blind spot in the back. We can only see an incredibly narrow range of light, less than insects and other mammals. The nerves actually have to switch over sides before they get to the brain. I won't even get into all the flaws that eventually cause us to loose our sight. Well designed? No, I could have designed a better eye, and I'm not claiming that I made the universe and all creation.

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However, humans believe in what they can see.


No. Some do, but some are very aware of the extreme limitations and biases that our senses have to work with. Ask any police officer who has had to write up witness accounts. People see the exact same event, but they hear different things, they feel different ways, and yes, they even see different events. This is why subjective evidence is not the same as imperical evidence. Humans are simply not trustworthy enough sources of data.

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Gravity can be tested... yes. So can God. If you die right now, for any reason, I assure you that you will meet GOD. This is genuine proof.


Holy Cow! If we had been in the same room when you made this statement, I would have slowly backed away to the door!

That aside, you make the same mistake you did before. The theory of gravity has been tested, retested, independentaly verified, used for predictions, and meets every single pre-requisite for scientific methodology. You equate this to "If you die, you'll see God."? No, Proof is imperical data that is both repeatable and falsifiable. We have absolutely no way to confirm that a dead person has met God. This doesn't even meet the description of evidence, much less proof.

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science is like a box that limits reality. Science can be prooven yes. But so can everything else outside of the box


You nailed it right on the head. Science indeed limits reality. It strips it clean of subjectivity, or emotional bias, of psychological dependence. It purifies data down to most imperical form possible. With this data, it then proceeds to understand the rules of reality. The data makes the rules, not us.

You make the claim that you respect all religions. I have my doubts. You do sound like you tolerate them, but it isn't the same thing. If all you do is hum happily to yourself "they're wrong, I'm right." you have not shown them any respect whatsover. In much the same way, you disrespect my belief in scientific methodology. You do so by using it without even a decent understanding of the arguments. To my mind, your idea of research is to read articles that you already know you will agree with, and repeat what you have read. I have my doubts as to wether you even understand your own arguments to any depth.

You could probably justly accuse me of not having respect for your beliefs. You might be correct, but you would be missing the point. I have full respect for those who arrive at their beliefs, whatever they may be, through a full understanding of all the data involve, both positive and negative. People who willingly research both sides and come to a conclusion based on what they know and what they beleive (and understand that the two are not the same), these people have my respect.

You...the arguments that you presented are facil and have been responded to decades ago. That you were unaware of the easily discovered arguments against these indicates that you are willingly to follow, but not study. I cannot respect a faith followed only due to academic laziness.
RyuujinBlueZ
Aquatus, can you be my god? w00t.gif

Kidding, but that was...amazing. I loved the counter. I'd add to it, but I'd probably just hurt your case. So all I'll do is agree with you completely.

Research things, Norman. Most of the points Aquatus made I learned way back in seventh grade.

Hopefully, you'll have learned them. Maybe you've even done what Aquatus said, taking the info you've read and putting it with your beliefs. However, I really don't think you understand that what you believe and what is fact are generally two different things.

If you'll recall my first post in this topic, I stated that my beliefs are still being defined. That's because I know, for a fact, I don't know anything. At very least not enough to to imperically outline a final set of beliefs.

So I work with what I've got, and trust in that nifty little animal instinct.

Sure, maybe I'm scary as all hell sometimes. Maybe I seem like a terrible person for what I feel is right and wrong, but hey...that's your problem.

And maybe, just maybe, people look down on you because of what you believe. Because it's illogical, silly, foolish...whatever.

I hope they don't, no one should have to put up with being put down.

Including myself, and my atheist "kin".
Me_Again
I like the topic of logic, without getting into drawn out detail. Everyone has the chance to be everything, this is my logic. It may not be completely understood by you, reading this; However, when you know something it doesn't take proof, in my opinion anyway. The only time I need proof is when I don't understand something.
I already know; Therfore, I don't need the proof. So my question to the topic starter (Norman). Why are you searching for opinions from others truths? Judge not and be not judged, by the way GOD doesn't judge anyone! Life is not a competition, life is experience...
aquatus1
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However, when you know something it doesn't take proof, in my opinion anyway. The only time I need proof is when I don't understand something.
I already know; Therfore, I don't need the proof.


The simple fact of the matter, your opinion notwithstanding, is that any claim that you have to 'know' anything has to, by definition, be backed up by proof. If you do not have proof, then you do not 'know' it; you 'believe' it. What you choose to believe in is entirely up to you and nobody can say that you are wrong or right about it, but when you claim that you 'know', you have given others the right to demand how. This is little more than an exercise in semantics, but definitions are of extreme importance when in a debate. Belief and knowledge are not interchageable. They each have their own requirements, regardless of what your personal views on them might be.


If ever I could have been considered a follower of a religion, it would have been Buddhism. I'll tell you the story that convinced me it was worthy of my study, but (in true Buddhist fashion) I will let you figure out the lesson.

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A young boy was walking in the mountains, when he happened to come across a fountain where three monks were bathing.  The boy watched them for a little while, then approached and asked one of them "Isn't that water cold?".
The monk looked at the young boy, then reached down for his bucket and emptied the pail over the young boy's head.


I would like to hear your thoughts.
BurnSide
QUOTE (aquatus1 @ Jul 9 2004, 07:34 PM)
A young boy was walking in the mountains, when he happened to come across a fountain where three monks were bathing.  The boy watched them for a little while, then approached and asked one of them "Isn't that water cold?".
The monk looked at the young boy, then reached down for his bucket and emptied the pail over the young boy's head.

Buddhism is the only religion that has ever made sense to me. It's much more credible than, say, Christianity.

I like this story. I would hazard a guess to the lesson being you cannot ask for your answers in life, but rather must expirence life and discover your own answers.

Am i close?
Me_Again
Thank you, finally someone else wants to hear my thoughts besides ( me again lol)
In my "logic"... Belief and knowledge ARE interchangable. I can go through life knowing that I don't have the power to change or I can go through life knowing I have the power to change. You see I don't really need any proof, because through my experiences I know my own truth. By claiming to know, I see where others would demand proof; However before they get their proof they first must know. In science, first you must experiment to find the proof, and scientific proofs change. Change is something that can be proven. Just as a seed changes into a million different things. First it knows whats its going to change into and then it becomes. In spirituality, first I know the proof and then I experience. The human language is a master in disguise and sometimes people get tangled in its weave.
Just to let you know It really IS all that simple, to me anyway and thanks for listening.
Oh my impression of the story...
Don't ask about something you already know
cause you never know what the outcome could be
Fluffybunny
QUOTE (Norman @ Jul 9 2004, 07:20 AM)
But there is only 1 major belief that is the truth. And that is christianity.

You are absolutely right Norman...just one, and only one true religion. The rest of them are all wrong and will spend eternity in hellfire for picking the false religions...

I am so glad you came along to set everyone straight, really. The fact that you are willing to be so resolute in the face of no supporting evidence shows how true your religion is…what bravery you have!

Don't worry about having respect or consideration for anyone else’s beliefs; since they are all false you have every right to tell them how wrong they are. Don't forget to throw in the hellfire and damnation, that will put them in their place. You have the upper hand in this argument, you have the one true god on your side, and don’t forget to tell all of the heathens that either!

Just remember Norman, no matter how much logic or critical thinking the atheists throw at you, just ignore it altogether. Logic doesn’t mean anything when you know you are a follower of the one true religion. Logic and critical thinking will just land these heathens in a lake of fire! You know what is best for these people; tell them what they should be doing in their own lives! It is going to be up to you to save these heathens, they obviously can’t think for themselves otherwise they would realize that you are right; that you know who the true god is…Since they can’t seem to think for themselves, the burden of their very souls lands on your shoulders Norman… It is a very heavy burden I am certain, but since you know the one true god, you can save all of these sinners!

Go Brother! Preach the WORD!
aquatus1
Me_Again, I am having a bit of trouble deciding wether or not you are being serious. Your thoughts are scattered all over the place and don't really tie into each other very well.

When I am referring to logic, I am referring to a science that deals with the principles and criteria of validity of inference and demonstration, i.e. the science of the formal principles of reasoning ( I do believe that is the dictionary definition). In other words, it is a method by which the validity and credibility of an argument can be established, to say nothing of the fallacy.

You seem to use it to refer to your own personal philosophy. Please do not hijack scientific terminology used to define specific concepts.

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I can go through life knowing that I don't have the power to change or I can go through life knowing I have the power to change. You see I don't really need any proof, because through my experiences I know my own truth.


This is refered to as a postulate. This is a statement of faith made without corroborating evidence and therefore inherently personal and externally unverifiable. In other words, truth and faith are perfectly valid as a belief system. Nobody can tell you that you are wrong, and likewise, nobody can tell you that you are right. Proof is not a requirement of a belief system.

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By claiming to know, I see where others would demand proof; However before they get their proof they first must know. In science, first you must experiment to find the proof, and scientific proofs change.


I have trouble understanding this. Not because it is complex or simple, but because it doesn't make sense. Knowledge implies more than simply being aware of the end result. A person who knows and a person who guesses correctly can both be right about the end result, but only the person who knows is able to explain to you exactly why it will happen the way it happens. The reason they can do this is because they have evidence which indicates that this is the way it has happened before, and experience has shown that this is the way it will likely happen again. Imperical data, again, by definition, does not rely on anybody knowing or believing in it. It stands alone, and it measures the exact same way for anybody who chooses to test it. Interpretation of the measure may vary, but the measures remain the same.

You seem to be under the impression that you can freely interpret any scientific terminology and use it however you wish. I would advise against this. It will rapidly destroy your credibility. If you believe in something without any proof to back it up, that's faith. If you understand the working principles behind a phenomena, can replicate and predict this phenomena, that's knowledge. Don't confuse the two.

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--I would hazard a guess to the lesson being you cannot ask for your answers in life, but rather must expirence life and discover your own answers.

--Don't ask about something you already know cause you never know what the outcome could be


Wow, two almost polar opposite answers.
jpalz
QUOTE (Student&Alive @ Jul 9 2004, 04:55 AM)
Ok norman, give my some conclusive proof of the christian God.I was once a strong christian norman.But then I saw that people kill other people because of beliefs,What motivated bin laden? Words in a book written 2000 years ago, what motivated the crusades? words in a book written 2000 years. whats motivating bush? Idioism and the belief that Gods sending him messages, and I quote
"First god told me to strike at bin laden,Then the al queda and now saddam"-President Bush 2004.If theres a God out there norman who loves us all oh so much why does he tell us to hate and judge? I would be willing to take my chances betting he's not. Im not stating there is no "God" but far more likely It's a being of a higher consciouness. Not a figure of fantasy in a book. I think if the all knowing loving God as the bible portrays him is so real then why is he condemning people to hell.

People go to Hell because they choose to, not because God wants to condemn them.
jpalz
QUOTE (BurnSide @ Jul 9 2004, 03:13 PM)
There will NEVER be any proof. There has never been any proof.

However, some will argue that the holy Bible is all the proof they need, and they will argue that the Church is witness to everything the bible says, and that's all they need.
Proof is not a book written by a bunch of kids 2000 years ago, not is it the spoken word of a power hungry organisation. And it is definately not a 'feeling' you get in your head.

I personally cannot accept these as proof.
But there will always be Religion. People need it to justify their lives because they cannot accept that we are animals, whos sole purpose on the earth is to have sex, bare children and die and rott away in the ground.

Why don't other animals have religion? Because they're not intelligent enough to delude themselves.
Why are there so many different religions, instead of just one? Because all evolutions of man are the same, they need religion to justify themselves, so they make up gods to worship.

Religion is murder. It is a cult. You blindly follow what some random dude says because he hears voices. Men kill for their gods when, wait, isn't that AGAINST their religion?
Hell, the very religion doesn't make sense. If something this big is gonna be made up, don't make it contradict itself with teachings on how bad it is to have sex and inbred, when the religion clearly states that every human being on earth is inbred from 2 humans who suddenly popped one day into existance.

*sigh* It's the most irrational, silly thing on the planet. But if you need it to get through your day, good for you.

Burn. Sex is bad when you just order your relationship with another person only in that. In the end, if you live it that way you become a slave of yourself, a slave of sex. Love is based in accepting the other person the way he is, even is he (or she) doesn't satisfy you sexually. And as to why people say it's bad to have sex before marriage... well, your sexuality is one BIG gift you have, and if you're going to spend the rest of your life living with another one, you wouldn't want to spoil that gift, right? Well, same with sexuality. Think of it as a birthday cake for someone you love, ONLY for that person. You wouldn't give other people slices of that cake, right?
Of course that if it happens, that you had sex before marriage, it doesn't mean that there is no way you're gonna be happy with your wife.

Well, just that.

PS: I registered here because I read your topic on Silent Hill games. I love them, and the scare the s**t outta me. laugh.gif
BurnSide
Glad you like the topic, post your response!

The part about sex, i'm aware that sex after marriage is fine in the religion, i'm saying that it shouldn't be that way because the sole purpose in life that humans have is just the same as all animals, basic instinct, have sex, die. That's it. If god created us to bare children, we shouldn't need to get married to do so, especially since marriage is a relatively new concept not even dating back to Jesus' days. None of it adds up.
jpalz
One last thing BurnSide. If the only purpose in life is just to have sex, have children and die, then what is the purpose of, for example, charity organizations? They would be just worthless. Why fighting for something? For nothing.
BurnSide
Of course, i fail to mention the value of human life!

Don't missunderstand me, i value human life and every man and woman deserves to have a good life. But in the end, we do die, so if you look at it that way there really is no purpose to charity organisations because it's impossible to real save lives.
Kira
jpalz Posted on Jul 10 2004, 04:14 AM
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Sex is bad when you just order your relationship with another person only in that. In the end, if you live it that way you become a slave of yourself, a slave of sex. Love is based in accepting the other person the way he is, even is he (or she) doesn't satisfy you sexually. And as to why people say it's bad to have sex before marriage... well, your sexuality is one BIG gift you have, and if you're going to spend the rest of your life living with another one, you wouldn't want to spoil that gift, right? Well, same with sexuality. Think of it as a birthday cake for someone you love, ONLY for that person. You wouldn't give other people slices of that cake, right?
Of course that if it happens, that you had sex before marriage, it doesn't mean that there is no way you're gonna be happy with your wife.


Hmmm I'm going to say that I think your outlook is very blinkered. Love is one emotion that covers a lot of bases. And you can love more than one person at once.. we have the capacity to do this. It may be sexual, emotional, spiritual, or any or all of those and it dependant on the people that are involved.

So I have a question to the people who have the view that God exists and made us... If that's the case, then explain to me why this diety would allow us the capacity to do this? whistling2.gif
stillcrazy
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Of course that if it happens, that you had sex before marriage, it doesn't mean that there is no way you're gonna be happy with your wife.


I'm going to be silly here, But I wouldn't buy a car with out checking under the bonnet first. Taking it for a test drive so to speak.

Sorry for the silly comment, but I couldn't resist.

BTW My faith/religion/beliefs are just that. Mine.
Falco Rex
I'd like to point out that marrying someone just for the sake of love is a relatively new concept that has only really gained prevalence within the last century or so..
Before that marriages were generally an alliance between two families. The person you loved and the one you married were often completly different.
It was not uncommon or even frowned upon for husbands and wives to have "someone on the side."
It seems a little foolish to judge the whole of the human experience in life and thousands of years of biological imperative in terms of very recent cultural conditioning..
And who can really say they were so wrong in the past. Now that we marry solely on the basis of love the divorce rate has skyrocketed to record highs...
In the end sex is just sex. It's a nice experience that doesn't have to have a lot of emotional baggage attached to it. It might be nice when it does, but it's not worth all the repression, tradition and philosophy that recent Western thought has imposed on it. It's merely another biological function..
jpalz
QUOTE (Kira @ Jul 10 2004, 10:43 AM)
jpalz Posted on Jul 10 2004, 04:14 AM
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Sex is bad when you just order your relationship with another person only in that. In the end, if you live it that way you become a slave of yourself, a slave of sex. Love is based in accepting the other person the way he is, even is he (or she) doesn't satisfy you sexually. And as to why people say it's bad to have sex before marriage... well, your sexuality is one BIG gift you have, and if you're going to spend the rest of your life living with another one, you wouldn't want to spoil that gift, right? Well, same with sexuality. Think of it as a birthday cake for someone you love, ONLY for that person. You wouldn't give other people slices of that cake, right?
Of course that if it happens, that you had sex before marriage, it doesn't mean that there is no way you're gonna be happy with your wife.


Hmmm I'm going to say that I think your outlook is very blinkered. Love is one emotion that covers a lot of bases. And you can love more than one person at once.. we have the capacity to do this. It may be sexual, emotional, spiritual, or any or all of those and it dependant on the people that are involved.

So I have a question to the people who have the view that God exists and made us... If that's the case, then explain to me why this diety would allow us the capacity to do this? whistling2.gif

Of course you can love more than one person at a time!!!!! Your mother, you family, etc... but there are different kinds of love. I was talking about the one you share with your wife, girlfriend, etc. Not the other ones.
Kira
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I was talking about the one you share with your wife, girlfriend, etc. Not the other ones.


Sorry if I didn't make myself clear enough that's what I was talking about wink2.gif
trublvr
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Ok norman, give my some conclusive proof of the christian God.I was once a strong christian norman.But then I saw that people kill other people because of beliefs,What motivated bin laden? Words in a book written 2000 years ago, what motivated the crusades? words in a book written 2000 years. whats motivating bush? Idioism and the belief that Gods sending him messages, and I quote
"First god told me to strike at bin laden,Then the al queda and now saddam"-President Bush 2004.If theres a God out there norman who loves us all oh so much why does he tell us to hate and judge? I would be willing to take my chances betting he's not. Im not stating there is no "God" but far more likely It's a being of a higher consciouness. Not a figure of fantasy in a book. I think if the all knowing loving God as the bible portrays him is so real then why is he condemning people to hell.


Student&Alive posted this a little earlier in this discussion, and I've only had a chance to respond just now, so please forgive the late reply.

The argument about violence in the name of religion has come up a lot. Many use this to argue against religious belief. Interestingly, though, the same people never acknowledge the violence and oppression done in the name of atheism (especially in the 20th century).

I'm not a Bush supporter, and I find some things (not all) that he and the Republican party have done reprehensible. But can you please show me anywhere where Bush is quoted as saying that some god--any god--told him to wage war on Osama Bin Laden or Iraq? As far as whether or not Bush is a Christian, I have no idea either way. But there has been quite a lot of ridiculous journalism out there that employs this kind of logic: Many Christians are Republican > Bush is a Republican who claims some sort personal affinity for Christianity > Bush is waging war because he thinks the Christian God told him to. Regardless of whether or not one likes Bush, Jesus, or the church, this is a ridiculous proposition. Our military campaign in Iraq is fraught with deceit and misinformation, but I think the only reason Bush needed for going to get Osama Bin Laden may have a little to do with Sept. 11. One doesn't have to read the bible or get a message from God to want to go after him.

And as far as the Crusades go, if anyone would do even a small amount of research on the Crusades or the Inquisitions, it is easy to see that none of the aggressors were murdering because they we concerned with the will of God or anything like that. Both travesties were about an idiotic and anti-Christian church garnering power for itself. That's it. Whatever things folks said about acting in accordance with anything in the bible--Old or New Testament--were merely appeals made to justify evil. ANY truth--not just the truth found in the bible--can be perverted by evil people. In fact, please show me a truth or a body of truths that has not been perverted by human beings at some point and time! Also, can you present any truth that cannot be perverted and used for twisted ends? I don't think you can.

Truthfulness isn't to be measured by the impossibility of falsehood or perversion. All truth can be perverted by people. If the search for truth consists of looking for that which cannot be falsified, then we all need to give up immediately (some have opted for this route). However, what if truth is precious regardless of the attempts to falsify and pervert it? I think that when falsehood rears its ugly head, we should cling to truth more tenaciously, not scrap it altogether. The argument that one should scrap Judeo-Christianity because of the violence done in the name of Jesus by liars doesn't work. It is rooted in reducing Christianity down to all of the ugly things that liars have done in Jesus' name with little or no consideration for all the beautiful things people have done (and continue to do) in the name of Jesus. This is a convenient reconstruction of history for Christianity's opponents, but it simply doesn't hold water. If one is going to say that they reject Christianity because of all the evil done in the name of Jesus, then doesn't it suggest that one should be willing to consider it because of all the great things people have done in Jesus' name?


Todd
Way to go trublvr! thumbsup.gif

Brilliantly stated with consideration, love and kindness. thumbsup.gif thumbsup.gif original.gif

These are the kinds of interchanges that we need more of, with much less anger driven rants and character assaaination attempts, and I'm talking about BOTH sides.

Let's keep it civil. grin2.gif


Burnside. I'm afraid that I've got to call you out on the whole "marriage not dating back to Jesus's days" arguement. In point of fact marriage pre-dates the days when Jesus walked the Earth. As an athiest you probably don't have a Bible (I'm NOT saying this to be cruel) but if you have access to one then look at the back of it for the concordance and look up marriage. You'll find that marriage is found way back in the Old Testament. As a matter of fact Jesus himself referanced marriage in the O.T. in conjunction with his Second Coming, namely Matthew 24:38,39 "For as in the days that were before the flood they were eating and drinking, MARRYING AND GIVING IN MARRIAGE{Emphasis Added} until the day that Noah entered into the ark, And knew not until the flood came, and took them all away; so shall the coming of the Son of man be."

I say this with all love and kindness, free of venomous anger that only serves to cloud the mind and confuse ones purpose.

Much love to all. original.gif
BurnSide
Would it suprise you to discover I do indeed own a bible? original.gif It's a good read and i have indeed read it. I believe in making your own opinions about things such as religion, and therefore did read the bible and made my own opinions on it.

I apologise if i was wrong on that, i can't check it now for i am at work.
But i do know for a fact that marriage doesn't go back 10's of thousands of years. Do you believe that marriage has been around as long as humans have been on the earth?

Out of curiosity on the subject, how long do you believe that humans have been on the earth?
Todd
It is'nt a complete shock to me that you own a Bible, but I do admit to being mildly surprized. What translation is it if you don't mind my asking? Some are better (Read: more accurate) than others. I have several myself, but the King James translation is the one that I prefer, simply for the poetic language that it offers. And before anyone brings up the specter of accuracy NO major issues of doctrine are affected by the different translations. I've checked.

I'm glad that you did read your Bible, hopefully before any prejudices had already been set in your mind, as I know from personal experience that this can alter your perceptions, especially where the Bible is concerned, as the stakes are so high. I respect the fact that you gave it "the time of day" as many are unwilling to do even that much before formulating a negative opinion of the matter. It seems to me that many of those people are in fact angry with PEOPLE who either considered themselves, or were considered to be, religious. The Bible then is blamed out of hand in a kind of "Guilt by association" fashion, which makes it as easy to reject as the people that they're angry at.


As far as how far "Marriage" goes back, I'm afraid that we'd end up playing a round of "Dueling Semantics", but I will tell you this much; I believe that the IDEA behind marriage does go all the way back to the beginning; the various ceremonies being secondary. Genesis 2:24 says; "Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother , and shall cleave unto his WIFE:{Emphasis Added} and they shall be one flesh."


In answer to your question regarding how long I think humans have been on the Earth, I don't think that anyone on Earth knows for sure.


Take care. original.gif
The Nameless One
This thread will eventually prove my Theory of Theistic Chaos, which I have posted in many other threads before. thumbsup.gif

TNO
Falco Rex
Well I've heard Your theory and I like it. thumbsup.gif But as to "Proving" a belief to be real on this forum...good luck!
Novo
I tend to conlude there is a form of God norman only because of the way the universe operates, I could go into depth here but Im not going to I'll leave it at the fact that all the Gods in all the world have always preached obedience and worship so that they are followed, but greed and power are human traits. whatever created this God forsaken (no pun intended grin2.gif" universe must be wiser then us, for we know only 00.0001 percent of all there is to know in the universe and thats a bogus statement in itself from the very moment I said it the universe has gotten larger, our concepts of gravity are in question now as well, were discovering black matter and far away solar systems, the major thing that has held science back norman is religion (Damnit had to retyped religion 4 times to get it right XD)But now that many people are becoming more open minded and seeing that when you make one cult have enough people to be called a "religion" and another the same but with opposite views what do you think those people are going to go do to the other people? Im dont tend to reply to any more of this because I have found lately leaving doomed threads is better than participating
Ciou-Student&Alive
the master theologian
Yall are so open minded, you're brains can fall out.
Anyway... As long as you guys heard what the Bible
teaches, thats good enough for me. I was just like...
Do these open minded folk even know what I'm talking
about?... Anyway.. I believe that the bible is the genuine
Word of God. I also believe that the end of the world is
coming soon. The bible says that you know the seasons
by the fruit it bears. When its summer, you know its
warm, and when its winter, you know its cold, and when
its spring, you know that the flowers bloom. Well, I believe
that in less then 20 years, God's wrath will come.
God's wrath? Yes. In the book of revelations it talks about that.
It also talks about the rapture of the church which is an important
event. The true christians who trust in God with their lives will
be caught up in the sky. The sky? Yes the sky. The Angels will
gather us up. Trust me its no alien phenomena... These so called
aliens are really angels, and the folks that'll be left behind will
say that it was a mass abduction. People are already building
bunkers for these events. Well, I don't know when it'll happen.
But if my estimation is right, then its very soon.
Novo
odd norman, the man on the street right outside my mothers condo has walked up and down the street every day for the last 4 years saying the same thing.
aquatus1
God is going to snatch up all the good little Christians out of harm's way before the apocalypse?

That would be so seriously out of character for God. Since when has He given out freebies before? Everyone I can think of in the bible has had to go through some serious hell (so to speak) before getting a reward from God.
Fluffybunny
QUOTE (Norman @ Jul 12 2004, 01:42 PM)
Well, I don't know when it'll happen.
But if my estimation is right, then its very soon.

They were saying that when Jesus was still alive...Nearly 2000 years later and folks are still falling for it...

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the master theologian
There is no harm in being ready.
Rakshasas
As a pagan I`ll be perfectly happy to be left behind
BurnSide
In the story of Noahs Ark, your god killed every living Human on the earth save a few.

Nowadays, human population and the people in general are much worse. What makes you think your god is going to save your sorry asses? He DROWNED everyone!! He obviously doesn't care!
Darkwind
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As a pagan I`ll be perfectly happy to be left behind



Here, here!!
That will be nice.... Nice peaceful Sundays without bible thumpers knocking at the door. tongue.gif ahhhh pass me a cold one and turn on the race. Darn, the only driver left is Tony Stewart. sad.gif

Oh well so much for fastasy.
When Jesus said the meek will inharit the Earth, who is he talking about? Who are the Meek?



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