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is it true that fellas go for the confident and load girls rather than the less loader, more subdued and a little shy ones??
Confidence is attractive to both men and women. Men are just like women in the aspect that they crave all sorts of different attributes. Skinny women, chubby women, smart girls, laid back women... I don't think confidence is the sole deciding factor on falling inlove, it is just a personal connection.
Just be your kind self, someone will love you for all that you bring to this world... And remember, too much confidence, is never good...
Reese
Just be your kind self, someone will love you for all that you bring to this world... And remember, too much confidence, is never good...
Reese
i personally go for more quiet and shy girls, but thats just me...i mean i can't stand loud for the sake of loud girls, just be yourself already..
From what I've seen confidence is more important for Men to have than Women when it comes to who goes for who. If you're a girl, you have at least 2 or 3 guys who dig you at all times, regardless of how brash and bold you might be..
| QUOTE (reese2 @ Aug 25 2004, 01:23 AM) |
| And remember, too much confidence, is never good... |
Is too......
| QUOTE (LittleIrishVampiress @ Aug 25 2004, 01:03 AM) |
| is it true that fellas go for the confident and load girls rather than the less loader, more subdued and a little shy ones?? |
No not at all, a loud and confident girl may be the first one to get attention but eventually blokes realise she's the biggest pain in the ass.
I always look past her at the quiet little mate behind them, they're always far more genuine
Humility is important....Its good to be confident, but not OVERLY confident..... Outspoken people who are overly confident are defintely not attractive, for the most part..... People who are comfortable with themselves but dont theink they are perfect are much more interesting and attractive...
| QUOTE (LittleIrishVampiress @ Aug 24 2004, 06:03 PM) |
| is it true that fellas go for the confident and load girls rather than the less loader, more subdued and a little shy ones?? |
I like women that are confident, but not full of themselves. In other words, they need to know that they can survive on their own, but don't think they'er the greatest in the world.
Humour is very important to me in a woman- as is intellegance... I like being able to converse about something OTHER than how great her hair is (I've been stuck in situations like this before).
The best way to attract my attention is to be yourself.
And being able to question me, and debate me when it comes to things makes things interesting. Hehehe
thanx for thr replys peeps 
No problem- anything to help women understand the male mind.
i don't understand my mind and i'm me, so good luck ladies, you're going to need it..men are very complicated, well actually most aren't.. 
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