Celti, i wrote out a nice personal message to you but unfortunately i got blue screen of death in the middle of it. well, im glad that happened because seeing your reply sums up how it would have done little good anyways.
i am not immature. im different from you- culturally, philosophically, and even in temperment. i did not aim to offend and i would think any reasonable person would see that my statements were tongue in cheek. i like to joke around and speak freely about things i believe in. i don't crave attention, in fact, i avoid it. i only posted my opinions on the subject because i feel very strongly about this- considering i am a vegetarian and know exactly what the mind's effect on eating is all about. i deny myself meat, even though i ate meat most of my life. i also deny myself a lot of junk because i believe that food should only serve the purpose of nourishment and not as a path to happiness. these are my personality traits and they affect the way i view others.
i am offended by excess. there is too much excess in my society. people could choose to limit themselves but often they do not and then try to blame the ill effects that afflict them on the products they consume rather than their own faults. this is nonsense, i am sorry if that offends someone who is fat, but it is truth. stop eating, lose weight. eat more, gain weight.
sure, i did rant. it felt nice too. as i previously stated, my job entails my serving lazy and fat people who refuse to do even the smallest amount of physical labor. would i tell them that to their face? hell no. that's why i posted my opinion here. not to offend anyone here, but to offer my perspective on why i believe the things i do. not everyone who is fat is lazy, but often the two seem to go hand and hand to me.
if you guys don't like me, so be it. my wife tells me almost daily that i lack any sort of tact. you should have seen her face last christmas when i told her mother that we didn't want the new set of red bath towels she gave us. they were bright red and my wife had complained for years about the red towels we bought a few years back- how they were impossible to wash with anything else and were generally a pain to deal with. we ended up tossing them in the garbage out of frustration. well, i told her mother flatly that we didn't want the red towels and my wife almost laid an egg. well, it was the truth wasnt it? that is me in a nutshell. im really sorry for being tactless but its a personality trait. please understand that and accept me as i accept you