I agree again with what Coldeythl said.
If you start various threads described as 'Just be honest and spill' and include detailed polls with options to chose from such as 'I say put that lady in a padded room!' along with invitations to email her ex husband to see if 'Jolene is telling the truth' is asking for trouble at some point.
Phew I think that is the longest sentance I have ever typed

On top of that you have Jolene cruising along fine untill the first few people start to offer a different opinion which does not agree or fit in with hers, despite the fact she comes across as aloof at times as to what it really could be.
Any ridiculing or rudeness came from Jolene first ( my opinion) to those that disagreed offered other explanations. For example, I would call making unfair personal/character jugdements and repling to people in the '3rd person' as delibartly antagonising, taking the p*** and rude. I really don't see this sort of behaviour as normal on forums and there is no way you can compare the way this is seen as a attention seeking to any other thread where someone has shared an experience.
Apolgies from a few of us had all ready been said for when things did further evolve and get heated. It was all old news untill a certain someone started with name calling. I really think people just need to chill and remember that each person has there own opinion and reasons for it!