Well, I've noticed that the chat doesn't work for a lot of people (like me), especially those of us who are technologically challenged, so I created an AIM chat for us. An old message board I used to visit often did the same thing. You just click on "buddy chat" as you normally do with AIM and type in the name UnMy Chat. You can invite just yourself or other UM members who are currently signed on to AIM. If you're on UM and you also have AIM, feel free to stop by the UnMy chat.