hmm. i think i may have this. i hate small talk with a passion. i hardly speak to people, can't take social cues, and am considered eccentric and strange. i went a whole year without speaking once- i mean socially, of course you have to speak sometimes. i just mean, i didnt have a single friend and sat totally alone everyday. i kind of felt like i was in a movie, where everyone avoided me and gave me strange looks.
its not that im unarticulate or unapproachable. its just that i have never known what to say to people when they ask, 'how are you doing'. i mean, im doing the same as yesterday when you asked me the same damn thing. i also tell people im mad when im mad, or sad when im sad. then they act like they didn't really want to know those things- well, you asked

im always very happy and content, but people think im sad/angry because i have no interest in small chit chat. whenever i do speak, its often something people don't want to talk about and it scares them away. once, i got sick and tired of a job where i was overworked and underpaid, so i scream out, "i am not a robot!" and mumble a bunch of crazy stuff and walk out. in fact, ive done that at all my jobs. i like to ask questions that people dont want to answer. like when i see someone griping about their job, i will ask them what they plan to do with their life.... do they want to do their menial and annoying task forever or do they have some ambition for more out of life? when i hear them whining about not being in the sunshine on a pretty day, i say 'why dont you just go out and have fun?' that definitely freaks people out. some people really like me for being so honest, but the others just sorta avoid me.
on the other hand, my wife and i are best friends. she is a lot like me and totally relates to the way i am. we talk about everything and are very comfortable with each other. we just dont have many friends and i guarantee you wont find us playing cards at the such and such's house on fridays