I have beaten it light and dark side. I played both games as a female and am currently playing it as a male. I wanted to get handmaiden. I think it is a great game but it is definately way too geared towards light side characters. The only way to get the whole story is to gain influence with the other characters, and the only way to do that is to be nice to them and gain light side points. I played first as dark side and was pissed when the ending came along and it didn't explain anything to me at all. That and the end was way too easy.
Overall though, gameplay is better if you can get through the many boring areas.
I think I enjoyed the first one more, but there are definately things in the new one that I would have liked to see in the first one.