can anyone explain this? there is this girl. we dated for a while but broke up after a few months, remained friends with no negativity .i once had this incredible feeling of loss after dropping her off one morning at her place after spending a few hours with her .i have never had that feeling before in my entire life. it scared me half to death! i so just wanted to go back and be with her! to make sure she`s safe and unharmed(why i thought this i don`t know). i kept itunder control for a few hours but then decided to call her. she told me that everything was fine and that she was ok and unharmend. so i let it go, didn`t tel her about the feeling just wanted to know if she was ok. she then surprised me the next day by confessing about how having the exact same feeling. to make things bit complicated we have this knack of predicting the other persons thoughts and movements. it`s crazy but it happens. when she`s sad i can sense it and vice versa...miles away from each other.and yes i also thought soulmates but she doesn`t believe in that or in ever dating me again. so why all the weird stuff?

Its not weird. For two people who become close and learn each others behavioural patterns and routines its quite easy to predict things. Plus the feeling of loss between two people that split amicably is rather to be expected on both sides. What you both experience is probably second thoughts about let each other go. Hope this helps

Ya know, sleeping with someone can create links
that are hard to sever...

Its a medical fact: love is like drug addiction... alot like drug addiction. Its because when you are in "love" your brain produces a chemical called seratonin which is a minor hallucinogen and habit forming. When somone falls out of love, as it were, the seratonin stops being produced and the body starts going through withdrawls.

This is the saddest description of love I have ever saw. Strangely, I've been writing on it little time ago.

Love is more then some kind of drugs, it is something invisible. If you have ever truly loved, you will laugh at these scientist. They are building a cold and tangible world around us. If we listen to them we will soon be buried alive in an ocean of concrete.

I may sound fatalist, but I guess that few of you will agree with me.

It is true for me.

Why would we laugh at a scientist for saying something perfectly sensible ?

I don't think listening to scientists puts us in much danger of being "buried alive in an ocean of concrete."