QUOTE(101 @ Apr 29 2005, 08:30 AM)
The ants yes are like us. we all have had our parents orv an elder tell us what to believe. Do we believe that there is going to be a garden(heaven) once we are ready to go there or when God has decided we are ready for heaven. I believe that is what I must do. If I didn't all my sorrows would consume me., Then I wouldn't be able to go on. We like the ants must work and work and try to get ourselves prepared for Heaven. I really liked your story it was deep. 101

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not me! my elders taught me to question everything, accept nothing, to not be misled by authority, that i answer to nobody but myself (ultimately), to be open minded and not mistake a high likelihood as an absolute.... i could go on.
Sorry, but the idea of working and working to prepare for a "heaven" just reduces everything about this life to nothingness for me. If that was the only option i would become suicidal. Life is about being a part of the system we are now in, not in preparing for death. But religion lasts i guess because so many people are content to be artifically limited, i.e stuck in a mental cage, becuase of the false sense of security it provides! I lost my security blanket when i was 4, and have no need or desire for another one, by any name.
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on a similar "story" note:
there was a young girl, but 5 years old. One day, while her mother prepared the family feast she saw her mother constantly checking the turkey in the oven. She asked her mother why? her mother responded "thats the way i always have done it. my mother always did this when i was growing up". so with that the girl went and asked her grandmother why she always checked the turkey in the oven. the grandmother's response was "the oven didn't work too well, so i had to make sure it was staying on". With that the girl went back to her mother and passed on the granmother's reply. The mother replyed "oh my, now why didn't i ever ask why she did that?".
the "moral" being just because generations of people have done something, does not mean there is any sense to it all.
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I think that just because your mom or dad did something doesn't make it alright. You must find what is right for you. I will work on being a better person and I wll know I will go to Heaven. although people do tend to do the same as their parents don't we all go into a rebelious stage. Where we do the exact opposite. We all have to find ourselves. We must all see what is right for us. And I am not suicidal. That isn't allowed in my religion you will go to Hell if you commit suicide.