I've posted elsewhere on this, but the marriage ceremony is just a man made construct. Marriage however is a personal thing between man, woman and God.

There is nothing wrong with sex between a couple that consider themselves married, but when/if that couple breaks up? To God they are divorced. They can't just find new sex partners and claim they are in love again. They are breaking God's law then.

I see others on here making comments about divorcing after marriage is worse,dadadada! But don't anyone beleive in true love? Loving the person no matter what comes after marriage. Don't anyone realize that if you had a child with this person and didn't stay with that person, that that is the excuse you would tell the other person and your child--that you needed to see the body before marriage. Isn't that what growing old together and learning new things is all about. I mean grant ya I'am not saying I'am married. I've been with my partner for 3 yrs. and have a daughter together and I beleive it is wrong and hope to get married once we are settled down, especially since we just bought a home. But the whole idea of, I need to see the body & sex abilities before marriage is just shallow. I can imagine it now 'Honey, by the way I need to see how good you are in bed before we marry, then that will tell me if I can keep loving ya to marry ya'. --Most likely most people wouldn't tell they're fiancee that but hey why not? Honesty and truthfullness. But hey most people lie thru they're lives for no reason and most lie to they're spouses or partners. So ya I can't see that statement above being said to a spouse, but yet you'd be being dishonest.

I'm not actually married. It's one of those 15 year engagements, I might be a cheap floosie and sleep with my man before marriage, but I can still play hard to get

Sex before marriage is fine. So long as your doing it with somebody who doesn't mind becoming a parent. Sex with an immature git who is going to run at the first sign of commitment, now that's wrong.

15 years? hehe just turned 6 years for me and mah pook this past April XD

Needless to say.. Sex is good. *nods* I prescribe it for what ailes ya!

Sex before marriage is totally acceptable in todays world and I see no problem with it. Now in defense of no sex before marriage lets look at how good sex can confuse a person(s). The act of sex can be an overwhelming experience so over whelming a person can confuse it with love? This could result in a very bad marriage and if children come along matters only get worse. My wife and I spent a great deal of time "getting to know" each other long before we crawled in bed with each other. In fact we actually spoke those words "I Love You" before our first sexual encounter! Both of us were not virgins in fact we both had children from previous relations or marriages. We didnt let great sex confuse our minds and thus were learned to TRULY love the other. We now of course are married and teh sex we have is more intense than either of us have ever known. We learned how to "Make Love" and after several years together I can boast we still act as thugh we are Newlyweds! Am I againist sex before marriage no of course not but I am in favor of learning about each other first! It makes teh sex MUCH more enjoyable!

I believe love should be there also. This is the most important thing in a relationship. Sex before marriage I have had it but I want to love the person I engage with. Thus love first before making sweet love.

As I fall in love with my man I want him to fall in love with my soul then my sex appeal.

Me and my partner will always be newlyweds even years after we finally get married.


Yes me and my p fell in love then had sex. We learnt to trust, love and appreciate each other and get to know one another for a while till we made love.

You got to try the milk before you buy the cow. Sour milk sucks!lol

So do pigs.

Touchy.

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as in.. I am deeply scared right now...

if you are a legal adult,and if you are using protection againgst,sexual diseases,and birth control,sex is ok!i have a 16 year old daughter,who is maybe the best looking girl in her school,and sooner or later she's gonna deal with adult decisions,including sex,and i have told her the same thing.i do'nt know if you are male/female,but when you start having sex,it should be in a place you are comfortable in,like a bedroom,or house,and not in the backseat/front seat of a car.
remember,when you have sex,you are responsible for the results of it,good or bad.

I was joking. I see there is no sense of humor. On the serious side , I would never marry someone without having sex with them. They could not like sex for one thing. Many differences could be there and you would not know them until it was too late. Sex is the glue that helps marriages stay together, if it is bad, divorce or cheating is inevitable.

I was joking. I see there is no sense of humor. On the serious side , I would never marry someone without having sex with them. They could not like sex for one thing. Many differences could be there and you would not know them until it was too late. Sex is the glue that helps marriages stay together, if it is bad, divorce or cheating is inevitable.

If you need sex to keep your marriage together then you have some serious problems.

Hey now, sex is a big part of a healthy marriage. Without it you start to feel like roommates..

Exactly marriage is a union of souls not an orgasim!

Yeah well in that case i pity your wife (insincere)

A marriage that is held together by sex is no marriage!

A marriage that is held together by sex is no marriage!

Right.I think it is kind of strange that people think lust=love.If sex is the only thing that keeps your marriage together what would happen if you choose not to have sex?

Or incapable of intercourse? It is sad really.

Or incapable of intercourse? It is sad really


I don't even want to know what can make you incapable of intercourse......

Getting paralyzed, impotentence, and others. Tis sad. I don't know. Now even with viagra you go blind now.

Well blindness from taking viagra and have an erection and be blinded or no happy little general?

Well blindness or capable of erection your pick?

You will go blind if you're not capable of erection??

From taking viagra. Calm down I can assure you, you will not go blind for quite some time.

From taking viagra. Calm down I can assure you, you will not go blind for quite some time.

I know what you mean.But I think there's something wrong in your sentence.

Is it supposed to mean:

Blindness or incapable of erection?

Everyone would choose capable of erection if the other option would be blindness,you know.






I'm guilty.It was a spelling mistake.I really should stop giving grammar lessons.

Yeah I will edit it right now. My bad. Thanks snake

Yeah I will edit it right now. My bad. Thanks snake

You're welcome.


Well blindness from taking viagra and have an erection and be blinded or no happy little general?

What's scary is,that there are people who would choose the first option.

PS. I don't want to sound like my teacher,but the second blinded-part is unneccesary.

Yes sir this time you edit please. I can't handle all the pressure babe.
I would not be blind well I am already practically there. 20 40 in both eyes with corrective lenses. I am blind. But It is all good. I am not a man so I don't have this prob. Sorry.

Yes sir this time you edit please. I can't handle all the pressure babe.
I would not be blind well I am already practically there. 20 40 in both eyes with corrective lenses. I am blind. But It is all good. I am not a man so I don't have this prob. Sorry.

Yes I have the same problem.But it wasn't viagra that's for sure.
I was reading too many books when I was little.

You should try the Bates method.It is working to some degree for me.I really hope my eyes will fully recover in a few years.


Yes sir this time you edit please.

Fortunately(for you),I'm not a mod.

I will find out about this Bates.

Mod? What do you mean?

Just playin'