joceeghost
Sep 19 2005, 12:46 AM
Hello everyone,
sorry I have not written in awhile.
This summer there was a wreck in my front yard. There was a young man on a motorcycle hit by truck. Ben was thrown 30 ft from his bike. He was banged up and he died in a minutes even with us trying to give cpr. Well few nights later (before his funereal)I was late coming home and had to feed the animals at the barn alone. I heard someone walking up behind me and when I terned & there stood Ben looking round like he was lost. i closed my eyes reopened them and he was gone. Since then I haven't seen him. Sure hope he found his way.
God bless
Ghost_Seer
Sep 19 2005, 01:18 AM
I hope he found his way home too but its not a good sign if he looked lost. He may need help to cross over. People who die suddenly in accidents are sometimes so traumatized that when they get out of their bodies they cannot see the LIGHT. Do you know what you can do to help him?
earthchick
Sep 19 2005, 04:54 AM
How sad. If you see him again, maybe you could try to talk to him and tell him he has died and must go into the light now.
Elysiumfire
Sep 19 2005, 10:13 PM
Hmm, may I join in this growing 'girly' group? Hi Ladies: Joceeghost, that must've been awful to witness the accident and to take part in the resuscitation attempt. My feeling is that the chap returned to let you know that he appreciated your help. If it was something more sinister he might still be being seen by you.
The problem with accidents is that they are often sudden and fatal, death comes unannounced and unexpected, and thus the victim may still linger in terms of familiar surroundings, and emotional ties. They need help in understanding that they have passed on, they need help in being able to realise this and to 'let go' their earthly cares, which I surmise is not easy with a sudden, unexpected death.
I would suggest that this young chap's appearance is actually a good omen, because unless you know him, I doubt he would appear to you for no reason, and that he did so in the guise of that that you saw him by last. This was a grateful apparition, and he showed it.
Regards
Elysiumfire
MakeshiftSage
Sep 20 2005, 12:10 AM
Maybe somthing as simple as a small memorial in your yard will be enough to help him understand? Just a thought.
eveningsky339
Sep 20 2005, 12:20 AM
Well, it was before his funeral. Just wait until the body is put to rest...
Tia
Sep 20 2005, 10:04 AM
I'm with Ghost_Seer, do you know how to help a spirit move on?
I wouldn't worry unless you start to notice Ben is hanging around, if so help him to pass over or get someone in who can.
night shade
Sep 20 2005, 11:27 AM
well after experiencing and seeing that accident, its normal seeing those visions of him
distortedpandy
Sep 20 2005, 12:03 PM
I'm sure what you experienced was traumatizing and it is very possible that you were seeing things. But then again, I don't know. You were very vague in your description of what happened.
joceeghost
Sep 25 2005, 04:30 PM
QUOTE(Elysiumfire @ Sep 19 2005, 10:13 PM) [snapback]851953[/snapback]
Hmm, may I join in this growing 'girly' group? Hi Ladies: Joceeghost, that must've been awful to witness the accident and to take part in the resuscitation attempt. My feeling is that the chap returned to let you know that he appreciated your help. If it was something more sinister he might still be being seen by you.
The problem with accidents is that they are often sudden and fatal, death comes unannounced and unexpected, and thus the victim may still linger in terms of familiar surroundings, and emotional ties. They need help in understanding that they have passed on, they need help in being able to realise this and to 'let go' their earthly cares, which I surmise is not easy with a sudden, unexpected death.
I would suggest that this young chap's appearance is actually a good omen, because unless you know him, I doubt he would appear to you for no reason, and that he did so in the guise of that that you saw him by last. This was a grateful apparition, and he showed it.
Regards
Elysiumfire
I think you are right . A few weeks later I found out I was pregnant after trying for six years. We put a cross at the road and pour sea salt around the area he died and blessed the area. I have not seen him again.
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