QUOTE(snuffypuffer @ Sep 21 2005, 10:14 PM) [snapback]856266[/snapback]
Oh, and make sure that what you finally end up getting is something that really meants something to you and will mean something to you years from now.
Amen to that. I have seen some seriously regretable tattoos in my day. I know of more than one person that had a Michael Jackson tatoo, many many girls names that end up getting turned into ivy or leaves or some such thing to get covered up...all kinds of crazy stuff.
I have seen tattoos that are obviously going to be regretted; on the face, neck, forearms, knuckles...places that can't be covered up...in my opinion that is just a mistake. Right this moment you may think that having a naked vampiress standing there with an inverted cross dripping with blood on your forearm is a great idea until you get a few years down the road and find out that pretty much every person you meet gets the wrong idea about you because of a tattoo. ( you can gripe about how people shouldn't judge you on that; but bottom line is that they do)
I come from a different era where women didn't really get tattoos, and so when I look at young girls now getting them, I don't think it looks right; just my opinion. I don't think that they are a classy thing on a guy either, but for me, tattoos on women just seems like a mistake. All of these kids are going to have to grow up with moms that have more tattoos than dad just is a bit odd...that is just me.
I have also seen many tatoos that people do themselves, and no matter how good of an artist you may be on paper, inking yourself is not the same thing; they all end up looking like prison tatoos.
Years ago when I was in college I took a psychology course that centered around the changes that take place in kids through young adults in regards to a persons belief system. I don't recall the exact numbers, but a rule of thumb is that the average person is going to have a major change in their perception of the world and their opinion of the world they live in every 5 years on average. That caries on throughout the 40's.
Looking back on the 5 year change I can see where I really did have several major changes in politics, religion, culture...you name it.
Had I gotten a tattoo for things that I felt very strongly about years ago, odds are my opinion would have changed by now. Knowing as many people as I do that have tattoos, I know very few people that DO NOT regret getting a tattoo years after the fact.
Your skin stays with you for your life. Get an idea of what you would like and hang onto the idea for a while before you get it done. Leave the picture on the wall of your room and see if you like looking at it for a long time. Once you get one, it does not come off. I have seen what lasers do when they remove a tattoo; it just creates scar tissue and is just as unpleasant as what was there before.