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It works that way because your mind is CONDITIONED to accept that as fact. I cursed my stepfather, and I believe it's still in process. . . . . and there have been no repercussions. In fact, things have gotten better.
Infrazael, your story doesn't surprise me at all. I don't doubt it. I'm curious who you think "conditioned" my mind. I would agree that there's a whole lot written about wicca that is orthodoxy and twaddle, the spiritual equivalent of victoriana, but that stuff is numbing rather than conditioning. You may be absolutely right.
I have experienced magic as pretty much always having a significantly greater effect than I consciously expect. It's one of the lovely things about life, for me; it suggests that my conscious mind and my superconscious mind are well integrated; that my house is in order. So when I hear about a "threefold law" I say, "I know what they're talking about." But, good golly miss molly, it's far too complex and subtle to say that the threefold law is absolutely always gonna adhere (let alone adhere in an obvious and recognizable way) at all times; it is, however, something I've come to expect; something that other witches I have known have experienced as well; it you call that "conditioning" then sure, I'm conditioned according to your definition.

But I'm open to other possibilities. Yelekiah's notion of absolute balance seems far more limiting than my understanding of the creative process, btw.
Beyond that, I like the threefold law. To me it speaks of the power of creation. It sure as hell doesn't make me frightened to do "bad" things. As I said before, to my mind, there is no "bad," only choice. We invite negatives into our lives for very important reasons, and we participate in the negative patterns of others for very respectable reasons. Wiccans put a very pleasant spin on the whole karma and reincarnation thing tho. Where the Hindus have their complex calculus of good and evil, costs and benefits, shoots and ladders, wiccans speak of choice and of learning; as wiccans we choose our karma not because we long for nirvana and hate earthly existence, but because we love earthy existence and want to experience the whole of what life has to offer.
The idea that dark and negative tends to lead to more dark and negative and that light and positive tends to lead to more light and positive is just the turnings of a road; a kind of spiritual gravitation. But as you know, we have all kinds of ways of going up, even tho gravity pulls us in the other direction. Gravity's a law, but it is not absolute. And we've all, from time to time had to take the dark road to get to the light. I thought Yelekiah was misunderstanding what the threefold law meant from a wiccan perspective, so I gave him the best info I had. If he wants to repudiate that, he's free to do so.
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You are the perfect archetype I am discussing. Encasing yourself in a SOLID, instead of transparent magickal paradigm, and UNABLE TO SHIFT according to needs and practicality.
If you say so.

What the rule of three boils down to for me is simply that there is no action without consequences. And this may be where you and I disagree. There are plenty of schools of magical thought that specialize in the avoidance of consequences, and that kind of magic hasn't worked out for me. I don't like it. I don't tend to like the folk who choose it.
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The Law of Three impedes upon magickal practicality. It's sorta like Charles Dicken's A Christmas Story -- complete BS used to try to create "a sense of morality and guilt" within individuals.
Sorry, but I don't believe in guilt. I only follow the morals I choose to follow because I chose them, for no reasons than because I chose them.
I don't see guilt as a central issue in A Christmas Carol or in life for that matter. Scrooge was a bitter loveless man, who had a dream and realized that his values were effed up, so he changed. To me the story is about the power of choice and of healing. Where's the guilt?
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There is no meaning, and there will never be any. Imposing strict boundaries is like drowning one's spiritual potential in a self-created, self-perpetrated delusional reality that you're unable, and unwilling to part with.
Good luck with your limited magickal training.
Judging from the acrimony here, you may be pleased to know that I'm about done with this board entirely.
What benefit do you gain from talking this way to a total stranger in our first conversation--a conversation taking place over the internet, a place where misunderstandings are as common as grains of sand in the desert? I was thinking the slamming and flame wars on this forum were limited to the christian/atheism vector. Infrazael, what's your beef with
me?
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DOGMA, DOGMA, DOGMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LET THE DOGMATIC RUN RAMPANT ON THE EARTH, SO THE TRULY FREE MAY COME TO DOMINATE AND CONTROL THEM TO FURTHER THEIR OWN DESTINIES.
You know, maybe you and I would find reasons to dislike each other, Infrazael. If you're in earnest about this "dominate and control" piece, it that's one of the "magickal practicalities" you were talking about, then you and I have a serious disagreement. I still don't know you well enough for that to be anything but an "if."