About a year and a half ago, I move in with my fiance. (around that april) Mostly I moved in with him because his mother was sick in the hospital, (cancer). Around July she past on, thats when things starting getting weird around the house. It started as just cabinets opening in the kitchen, not just cabinets I go into but ones I have never used, ever. This only occered from time to time and I honest got use to it. However, around this past August, this started changing. It was the freindly feeling anymore, and the cabinets didnt open as much. During the day when my fiance was at work I would hear noises like someone opening the front dooor and slamming it shut or things droping off shelves in our bed room above the computer room, or things hitting the house. Naturaly I would go investigate the sounds to find nothing, nothing out of place or nothing to cause the noise, or no one there in general. I work late at night as a baker, and arrived home at around 2am one night, this is where the scary part begins. I was playing, my favorite mmorpg, and I started to get a funny feeling, like just being uncomfortable. Anyhow my dogs left the room which I noticed and thought was odd, but continued to play. Then suddenly it felt like someone pulled my hair, I have pretty long hair so I figured I snagged it on the chair, although thinking about it now, its really not the kind of chair you could snag hair on. About 10-15 min (guesstamit) later, I got this aful feeling and again my hair got pulled, but not like the last time. This time my hair got pulled up as if from my scalp! I couldn't move I was so freaked. I somehow got my hand to my head and pulled my hair down with some force it seemed at the time. Another few minutes passed and I got this bad feeeling again, and I yelled for my dog(a 100lb german sheperd) and the feeling just vanished. I told my online buddy in the game I needed to log off, with out any detail, and just sat there for a few minutes, to regroup. I felt something cold on my neck and put my hand on it, to my horror and suprise, I was bleeding. I screamed and ran like a bat out of hell up stairs to the bathroom. Finding a strathed compairable to a paper cut with more blood coming out of it then ever should have been. I cleaned it up and went to the bed room to lie awake till 9am when my fiance had to go to work. This seemingly small cut on my neck took almost 2 full months to heal, and I still have a scar from it, with my mother a nurse and 2 doctors at the local walk-in clinic really couldnt explain, except that maybe I was a slow healer, with isnt the case. After that the noises in the house seemed to get worse as well as the "bad feelings" I had from time to time. My freind told me to get any crystals I had out of the house which I did, but with the last snowfall(last week) I had to bring in. I AM bringing these rocks to the local psychic tomorrow(Nov, 28th) for a cleansing. However I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me, or of anyone I could go to for help about this in my area, I live in the Farmington Valley of Connecticut. To give you some history of this house as well, my fiances father killed himself ( about 30 feet from the house), around 1984-85, his brother died in 2000 (drunk driving) and his mother died about 1 year ago, last july. The house was built about 1820-30ish and was picked up and moved about 100 feet. If that can give you a general idea of the history. Advise much apprieciated, thanks Bread Also please understand I am not trying to be a jerk by posting this, but am truely and honestly scared, and am opening up for help, If I could leave this house trust me I would in a hearth beat but I just dont have the money so any help is truely appreciated.

There are other stories just like this on the forum, I'm currently helping two people with demonic problems, I'm afraid you fall under the same category.


If you like, we can discuss this in the chat room.

Is there a negative vibe around the house when you and your fiance are both home?

Sometimes, but usually more when its just me? Does that mean something I honestly never believed in this stuff untill I moved here, and all the advise I got was from freinds my own age, so its not like they have alot of experience with this, Im only 22

It seems Farah is active in this topic, she should give you some advice as well ( she's got a great reputation ) so let's hear what she has to say.

Are you the first person to experience a haunting in this house? Has anyone prior to you moving in, experienced a haunting? Has your Fiance experienced anything? What you said, it sounds like the 'activity' is only centered around you.

I know exactly what you are talking about and I ams till looking for help, and that's why I began writing in my aol Journal on October 27, 2003 as a way to deal with this situation and while in the beginning I was terrified I have now learned how to deal with it ,and hopefully some day I will learn how to solve the problem.

If you would like to read my Journal it will begin on October 27, 2003 as the first entry and lead readers right through how my problem started and where it stands today.

http://Journals.aol.com/Kitty1392/TwoWorlds/entries

Reading some of this may help you come to some conclusion as to your own situation.
Many people believe that when our friends and relatives pass over they zip right up to Heaven but in many cases that is not true and they can return to hang around earth for quite some time venting their thoughts to those they left behind.

My First question to you is how did Mother feel about you before she passed over?
Also you say the father committed suicide and the son was killed in some sort of accident that was not pleasant.

No matter what others tell you its been my experience that these relatives or friends who sometimes bother us are just unhappy and sometimes angry spirits who have a score to settle here on earth.

I am telling you this because my four tormenters are my mother, aunt and uncle and Dr. Petas a psychiatrist I knew before he died of a sudden heart attack back in l985 while out jogging with whom he said was his mistress and he said he was trying to break it off with her and she with him because they had as he said promised their spouses but he said while jogging they got into a terrible fight and the stress brought on his heart attack and he said that she fearing her husband would learn she had been with him would diviorce her and so she ran off leaving him on the Jogging trail without medical help and this has turned him into one of the meanest Spirits I have ever had the Misfortune to meet.

He lay on the Jogging trail until other joggers happened along and found him and by the time he giot to the hospital it was too late and he passed away and lay in the Hospital unidentified for at least 24 hours.

He came to vent his hostility and speak to the world through me because I was the only Psychic Channel he knew at the time and he became even meaner when I couldn't get his family to believe he communciates thoough me because as we know some people have such wrong ideas about the After Life and they believe everyone who speaks and isn't an angel or blissfully hapy is a demon but that's not always true sometimes its just unhappy Spirits who are not accepting death in an angelic way.

Now as far as I know spirits can't draw blood but its possible they could get into your thoughts as you sleep and use your own hands to scratch you to show their displeasure.

Its not easy to get people to believe what is happening to you when this happens so what I would do is either speak to or write a letter so these relatives can read it and ask them what they want you to do and why they are doing this to you?

They may at that point stop or not stop but at least you will begin to understand what may be causing the problem.

This family still considers this house their own private domain and they may resent you moving in with their son.

Why are they are they angry?

Is it because you are living with their son unmarried or do they just not approve of you at all?

These are the things that happens at times.

In my case my three relatives and Dr. P are still trying to control my life and its a matter of Control because they don't want me working as a psychic Channel for other Guides who are giving me information which they feel is more important than what they are writing and so they want to show their dominance over me.

You cannot allow spirits to cause you to run from house to house so what I have learned is you have to try to make peace with them and if that doesn't work you try to put your foot down and tell them how you feel and tell them they are not going to run your life because you have a right to run your life as you see fit just as they did when they walked the Earth.
If that doesn't work you can try to find an Exorcist to get rid of them but its hard to find an Exorcist who is not afraid of bothersome spirits themselves.
If I can be of further help you can also write me a PM if you so choose or my E-Mail is Kitty1392@aol.com

I'm wondering if you are still having paranormal occurances in your home. I don't want to reveal too much over the internet. I am the case coordinator for a Connecticut paranormal group. I am interested in speaking with you directly about your experiances. Please email me directly at proof_dani@yahoo.com. Thank you and I look forward to a reply.