Ok Quick question me and my girlfriend are trying to work things out (personal problems) But when we talk on the phone she's extremely quiet..... And I am suppose to call her back in about 20minutes to make plans for seeing her Wednesday.... Any advice on topic to talk to her about on the phone? I always say "how was your day" "what are you doin" "what you have planned for tomorrow"

Any advice on what to talk about 'cause I always say your quiet all she says is sorry! So anyone know any good topics to talk about???


PRAY THIS DON'T GET CLOSSED welll at least let me get a few suggestions first.

Well assuming this is a new relationship how about asking her things like what she would like to do with her life. Its important to ask ingaging questions. Girls like to talk about themselves ( i know it and I admit it). Make sure you focus on things that she is interested in, for instance if she like politics ask her about her opinion on current events in your area or country. If she likes music, movies, or books ask her to tell you about her current fav. She could just be a lady of few words and needs a bit of prompting to get her started. I hope this helps.

Thanks that's helpfull this is not really a new relationship we went out back in September and broke up. When been friends ever since except we're going out again now. For about 2weeks now.

well, first of all, pointing out that she's being quiet isn't going to help one bit. she knows she's being quiet; she's not stupid. lol. i'm just a naturally quiet person for the most part and my boyfriend does the same thing: he tells me i'm being quiet, i apologize, he tells me not to apologize, and then the silence comes back. so if she's being abnormally quiet, the first thing to do is try and figure out if there's something wrong. if she doesn't seem to be upset, she's probably just not in a talkative mood. offer to call her back in a little while if she's busy or just keep the conversation light and cheerful. if she doesn't cheer up after a while, there probably is something wrong, at which point you need to comfort her and help her through whatever problem she's having. assure her that you care about her, etc.

Not all girls like to talk about themselves. But I don't know this girl so you can certainly try. What kind of music does this girl like? What is she passionate about?

Well yeah she does know she's being quiet, but what else can I say anyways we kinda had a talk today and just as I knew something was wrong. Hopefully things will go better.

See I am different, I like to call my BF every day just to say Hi and he would never do the same for me...I so wish he would and ask me how I am doing ect...some girls love to be asked how their day is going, what have they got up to ect

Shes different from many girls perhaps the most complicated, but I'll see what happens thanks to everyone for the feedback.

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