FLY SPITTA
Jan 16 2006, 07:45 PM
Ok Quick help needed

I use to go out with the next door neighbor yeah that's bad. It was nothing serious, but I guess to her it was.... Shes 15 im 16. Now she has like a 20year old boyfriend WHICH I DONT CARE. But she has her friend call my phone leaving dumb messages. And I can't do nothing their girls! But i have a old girlfriend back and they are all mad at her.....
Need of some advice..... This is where I come because this forum solves anything
THANKS!
Yelekiah
Jan 16 2006, 07:47 PM
God I hate girls like that. Really just ignore it. You respond to it, it will only get worse, and this is from experience when I was much younger. Don't give that girl the time of day, cause in the end, she's not worth it.
FLY SPITTA
Jan 16 2006, 07:49 PM
Yeah I don't wanna talk to her shes annoying I have a new girlfriend now so I dont care. Think if I just ignore the calls they wil stop eventually. They say im immature and she says shes over me, but she wont leave me alone.
Think I should just ignore it and it will go away?
Yelekiah
Jan 16 2006, 07:51 PM
The thing is, she is not over you. Trust me. She might deny it, but she isn't.
If you do ignore it, yes it will go away. I can't imagine her calling years from now. But if it continues to persist, I'll come up with an idea.
FLY SPITTA
Jan 16 2006, 07:57 PM
Alright then thankz Im gonna hope it stops tho if not I hope ya got a good idea LOL thanks
Yelekiah
Jan 16 2006, 07:59 PM
No problem, good luck with it all
distortedpandy
Jan 16 2006, 08:00 PM
ignore it...
some girls do things like this to make males jealous, it's very immature -- be the better person
lp21why
Jan 16 2006, 08:07 PM
Can't you ring up your phone company and get them to block the number?
I know you can in the UK but the US might be different
Celumnaz
Jan 16 2006, 09:08 PM
great advice hehe... ignore them.
I agree.
Nah, if you get their number blocked then they get the satisfaction knowing they "got to you". They still get the attention.
Just full on out and out totally ignore them. Ignore who? Exactly.
nativechick1989
Jan 17 2006, 12:43 AM
Take everyone's advice . . . ignore them.
Xyfer
Jan 17 2006, 05:26 AM
QUOTE(nativechick1989 @ Jan 17 2006, 12:43 AM) [snapback]1024750[/snapback]
Take everyone's advice . . . ignore them.
Easier said then done.. I would find something like that happening very annoying
Fluffybunny
Jan 17 2006, 05:29 AM
I'd call block the numbers, but that is just me...
SnakeProphet
Jan 17 2006, 05:47 AM
I guess I'm the only one that would talk to her.
Although you're propably on the safer side, if you just ignore her, you might want to consider actually talking to her, and if you play your cards right, she'll leave you alone for a very long time, or at least stop bugging you. You have to go in there with the right attitude, that's all.
But knowing you, you might be better off on the safer side.
nativechick1989
Jan 17 2006, 07:21 AM
QUOTE(Xyfer @ Jan 16 2006, 10:26 PM) [snapback]1025273[/snapback]
Easier said then done.. I would find something like that happening very annoying

Actually it is easy to ignore a pest . . . for me at least. I had to ignore some idiots, they got the message and disappeared.
Mr Ed
Jan 17 2006, 12:28 PM
Poo in a bag and leave it on her doorstep.
Paranoid Android
Jan 17 2006, 02:13 PM
There's a rebel biker gang downtown who'll fix your problem for a price

jk.
Seriously, if she's over you, she'd have stopped calling. Just ignore her. Blocking the number will just tell her she got to you, but it might also tell her finally you're not interested. Depends how blunt you wnat to be I guess.
Regards, PA
Yelekiah
Jan 17 2006, 04:49 PM
QUOTE(Mr Ed @ Jan 17 2006, 07:28 AM) [snapback]1025520[/snapback]
Poo in a bag and leave it on her doorstep.
You're funny. And that's a great way to get someone to retaliate.
chunga
Jan 18 2006, 01:38 AM
Ignoring a problem will only prolong the problem and stand in the way of a solution to the problem.
Be proactive, let the girl know that you wont tolerate this immature behavior and will get the authorities involved if she doesnt grow up and stop at once. It only works if your serious about stopping the harrasment. Go through with the demand and call.
Her parents dont know what she is up to, but they will when the copper's come a knockin.
Thats my 2 cents worth, its probably only worth 1 cent.
FLY SPITTA
Jan 20 2006, 05:06 AM
Well tryed to ignore her, but the problem continued. So what I did was told a good friend of mine(female) to tell her to leave me the hell alone. She did because she was a great friend and the problem is solved!!!
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