Post 2 – Women in the New TestamentBefore I begin discussing the New Testament, I would like to address Sheri’s last post:
QUOTE(Sheri berri @ Jan 31 2006, 04:26 PM) [snapback]1042311[/snapback]
What woman would be so terrrifed she would be willing to leave her daughter In-laws behind becasue she has been destroyed by 'god' and doesn't want to bring his wrath on these girls Naomi, her daughter in law Ruth begged her to take them with her. I wiped away tears

when i read this......
I’m not really sure, Sheri what point you are trying to make here. That Naomi cares enough about her daughter in laws that she would want the best for them, regardless of her personal feelings says much. The loyalty shown by Ruth says even more. This does not condemn women, but lauds them.
This goes for every other Old Testament woman that you quoted above. I understand why you posted them, trying to make them appear as strong women futilely campaigning for women's status, however............ the Bible, written in a blatantly patriarchal society, that supposedly oppresses half their population (the female half), far from depicting women as evil, inferior, unequal and Less than, it portrays them as strong, brave, loyal, heroic, courageous, smart, compassionate, loyal (oops, said that one already

). Have you conceded then that the Old Testament does indeed portray women as strong, independant and dare I say it, equal

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New Testament.
As before, I will begin by dispelling some common misconceptions regarding Bible passages in the New Testament.
The most common passage used is Ephesians 5:22-24 –
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Saviour. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. The critics have used this consistently to show the Bible discriminates women. "So, if the man comes and beats his wife, then it’s ok, the woman has to submit?" they all ask. Then they conclude that this was put in by oppressive man in order to make woman submit to him and he could do whatever he wished, own her like property.
And at first glance, it certainly looks bleak for the women, doesn’t it? Except for 2 things. Similar to Genesis 3, they conveniently forget to mention the verses straight after this:
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her – verse 25. The passage goes into quite some detail about the husband’s Loving role within the relationship – here’s a link to
Ephesians 5:22-33 if you’re interested.
The question that pops to mind immediately is How can a man be Loving if he beats his wife? It does not make sense. And if the man is not honouring his part of the arrangement, should the woman have to also? By no means!
More important than this however, is that this isn’t simply, wives submit, husband’s love. It’s targeted to a very specific form of love, that is to say, the same Love that Christ showed the church
Note: by church, it is not meaning any kind of organization or building! This was written long before there was such a thing as Catholicism or Anglicanism or any other such current religion. Until recently, the term “church” has always meant Body of believers – so those who were followers of Jesus were a church.Husbands, Love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her – Christ died for the church. It is not the intent of this debate to preach anything, but it must be said that the ultimate point of Jesus’ life was that he died for those who believe in him. And men are called upon to have that same kind of sacrificing Love for their wives. To give themselves up for her if need be, not to oppress her. Moreover, the body of believers is referred to in the feminine:
Christ…… gave himself up for her. Men.... referring to the collective of themselves....... in the feminine??????
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord – Christians submit to Christ every day, do they not? They submit to the Lord. This IN NO WAY makes them inferior beings, or somehow less than others. This includes men as well as women by the way. CHristians submit, and are not considered inferior.
Women are different to men. Both sexes have different roles within a relationship. And yes, when abused, those roles can lead to oppression, abuse and discrimination. However, it is clear that this was never the intended purpose of this passage, but rather to give guidelines for a loving, godly relationship.
In her first body post, Sheri also brings up
Ephesians 5:33 - Wives must reverence their husband. This ignores half the verse (again) – This is how that passage reads in its entirety:
However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. For the record, the King James Version, widely regarded as innacurate is the only translation to use the term "reverence". Most translations use the word Respect....
Another passage is Colossians 3:18 –
Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.. Again, this ignores verse 19 *geez, I’m starting to see a pattern here*
Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. Essentially the same as Ephesians 5, the half-quoted passage also ignores the edict for man to Love his wife.
The final passage I’ll discuss is 1 Timothy 2:8-15 –
I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling; likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness--with good works. Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. Yet she will be saved through childbearing--if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control.Of all the passages Sheri quoted this is perhaps the only one that can be construed as portraying inequality amongst women. However, there is a cultural context that needs to be considered. It was and is a sad fact that women were uneducated 2000 years ago. It was a blatantly patriarchal society, where the men had all the learning experience. Don't blame the Bible for that though. As I've shown the Bible has done its best to show women are not inferior. It is the culture that is to blame. Anyhow, to have a woman teaching anyone would mean having an uneducated person teaching something that they had no knowledge of. Would you have a mechanic or a baker or a musician (for example) teach Masters level Psychology to post-grad’s? This is the same situation.
You see, when Paul originally wrote this letter to Timothy, he would have had no idea that it would be taken up hundreds of years later and read by strangers. It was a personal letter written to a very personal friend. Uneducated women teaching something they have no knowledge of would be ridiculous, especially if there were people, educated for their entire lives that could do the job.
However, it must be noted that I do still find this passage valid. Women and men do have different roles within the life of a church. Men have certain roles, women have certain roles. This is not to say in any way that they aren't capable of completing the roles of the other sex. Nor is it to say that exceptions cannot be made, if there is no other capable to do the job, for example. However, they
do have different roles, men and women, but in no way should this be seen as a mark of inferiority, or subjugation.
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These are the primary passages used to sanction discrimination to women, but used in a laughable sweep of half verses and quarter verses. It is obvious that in its complete form, these passages do not promote inequality – far from it. They do give guidelines on how a woman should live. They also give guidelines on how a man should live. Both sexes are equal. Different, but equal! I shall expand on this in my next post. For now, as with my last post, I shall provide examples of women in the New Testament and the role’s they played.
Mary, the mother of Jesus – Mary was accounted as a woman of great Faith. In a book supposedly written by people who thought women were second-class citizens, Mary is accorded a high honour indeed. And I’m not talking about her being the mother of whom some people believe is the Messiah. When told by the angel that she was to have a child, Mary, a supposedly lowly woman, had great Faith:
Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word” – Luke 1:38In striking contrast, shortly before this, Zechariah, a man and a priest of God, when visited by the angel Gabriel and told that his wife would give birth to John the Baptist, Zechariah doubted:
How shall I know this? For I am an old man, and my wife is advanced in years.” – Luke 1:18. For his lack of Faith, Zechariah was cursed, unable to speak a word until John the Baptist was finally born. Zechariah, not just an ordinary man but a holy man of God, being put down, while Mary, a simple woman, was commended for her Faith under similar circumstances.
Mary Magdalene – At least that is to say, most people believe the woman being spoken of in
Luke 7:36-50 (this is a link by the way) is Mary Magdalene. It never actually mentions a name, but the preceding chapter does speak of Mary Magdalene, a prostitute (another one, hmm – Rahab commended in the Old Testament, Mary Magdalene in the New…… the plot thickens) and it is assumed they are they same person.
Anyhow, while Jesus is at table (I’m going to assume for dinner) with the Pharisees, a sinful woman comes to him, weeping at his feet for the wrongs she had done. The Pharisees condemn her:
If this man were a prophet he would have known who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him, for she is a sinner – verse 39. Jesus, far from doing this commends the woman for her great Faith, and treats her with equality and respect.
The woman who was healed –
Luke 8:40-48 (yep, another link for ya
). A woman is healed by Faith. This leads on to my next post, so for now it will suffice to show that through Faith, men and women were treated equally.
The poor widow – In
Luke 21:1-4 the widow was praised as being more righteous than the rich man who had more, but lacked Faith.
The Samaritan at the well –
John 4. The Bible does not only cut through cultural prejudices against women, it also cuts through prejudices against race. Here we have a Samaritan, loathed by Jews, and a woman to boot. A Samaritan should have been shunned, a Samaritan woman even more so according to the culture. When Jesus speaks to the woman, she even admits as much:
"How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?" - verse 9. But Jesus did not discriminate. The Bible does not discriminate. Instead he speaks to her and treats her fairly, as an equal. It even mentions, in verse 39 that
Many Samaritans from that town believed in him because of the woman's testimony. A woman’s testimony,
supposedly worth half that of a man, (according to Sheri at least, and as I've shown, completely incompatible with the Bible's teachings by the way) was instrumental in bringing many to believe in Jesus – the centrepiece of the Bible.
The examples in the New Testament are almost endless, of women being treated as equals, not as second-class citizens.
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My next post should not be as long and drawn out as this one, thank you for bearing with me Sheri. It’s all yours now