QUOTE(Paranoid Android @ Jan 31 2006, 06:12 PM) [snapback]1042496[/snapback]
I was at my friends house about 3 weeks ago when their next door neighbour rocked around. She was drunk, swearing, and crying. Six months ago this neighbour's son was diagnosed with AIDS. After listening for a while, I got the gist - her son went to Melbourne to be an artist. he has artworks put up in the Melbourne museum of Art somewhere. He met his gay lover and unfortunately contracted HIV from that.
What to do, what to do? I could stay silent. I could give her a lecture on the evils of homosexuality, or if not about that, then about the wrongs of drinking to excess. I could do all these things, yes any of these i could do but I didn't!
I told her that her son has artworks in the museum. No matter what happens he will always have that legacy. Most of can live our full lives - live past a hundred, but never get anywhere close to the legacy that he will have. The brightest flame burns quickest. He may not have much more time to live, but he HAS lived every moment he had to the fullest, and provided something that people generations down the track can look upon in awe and wonder.
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While drinking to excess is wrong in my opinion, as is homosexuality, it is not my place to tell judge people and condemn them. I met this person for all of an hour. She does not know I am Christian, instead she knows me as the man who gave comfort, support and hope to her in her time of grief. CHristians, above and beyond anything else they are, they are supposed to Love their neighbour, treat them with respect, regardless of difference in beliefs.
What has all this got to do with Christianity?
You have done what any good natured sensible person would do at such a moment, that is to comfort and support someone in their hour of crisis. Nobody goes preaching about religion and stuff and condemning people when they are up against something that really shatters their life. Well...on second thought, may be there are some people who do but let's not talk about such people right now.
QUOTE(Paranoid Android @ Jan 31 2006, 06:12 PM) [snapback]1042496[/snapback]
This is a spirituality forum, where we can all express our views.
Yes, we can all express our views in this forum and one of the forum rules is to respect the religious beliefs of other members. Now, saying that certain religious beliefs of some people are wrong isn't exactly respecting their beliefs, is it?
QUOTE(Paranoid Android @ Jan 31 2006, 06:12 PM) [snapback]1042496[/snapback]
Just curious though, saying "You are wrong for saying others are wrong" - is this not also wrong?
No it isn't. The topic that we are discussing right now is not sports, politics, history or such, where you can say a person is right or wrong when he states something, and can then support your argument by providing some proof which cannot be denied. We are speaking of spirituality and religion here where nothing is so far proven to be absolutely true. All that we can talk about this topic is about perceptions and beliefs. Nobiody can prove a darn thing from some religious scrolls ans scriptures and state something from it as a fact. So, while the truth is yet unknown, the topic is still open for debate. So, basically anything goes ... What you personally believe is only true to you, it needn't necessarily be true for anybody else.
While you can say that some things according to some religion can be a possibility, at the same time you cannot say something else concerning some other religion cannot be a possibility...because the fact is....truth is still unknown. That's why you're wrong in saying
others are wrong(
concerning this topic). Now, do you understand why?
Btw, I am not standing up for some particular relgious beliefs. I don't have any. I'm just standing up for people's right to believe in whatever they want.
QUOTE(AnuKabal @ Jan 31 2006, 06:52 PM) [snapback]1042513[/snapback]
Why can't he say that what I do is wrong, it doesn't hurt me
Well ...may be because everbody else might not be as unsure about their beliefs as you probably are about yours.