okay i really appreciate all your replies, i'm really sorry if i gave you guys headaches for reading what i posted
f.y.i. there were no gramatical errors there, only in the matter in which i typed my story.. (cuZ oF tHe cAps)
anyways, thanks for your corrections, i'm used to typing that way when i'm writing emails.. i didn't notice...
with regards to the story.. i also appreciate your comments,
they're all your opinions and i respect them
thank you