QUOTE(aquatus1 @ May 2 2006, 07:01 PM) [snapback]1172220[/snapback]
Yes, but those are all mere technical differences. Differences in definition. Homosexuals feel attraction for members of the same gender; pedophiles for children (not necessarily pre-pubescent). In the same way that a homosexual claims they cannot choose their sexual preference, so do pedophiles say the same thing. In the same way that homosexuals have been and are accused of being sick and immoral, so are pedophiles now. Think about it: you just admitted that pedophilia is nothing more than a preference. It is not an action, it is not crime, it is nothing more than a personal preference. And yet, you are willing to side with a murderer, which is not simply a personal preference, but rather an action which has had most significant consequences for at least one person (namely, the victim). You are, in other words, comparing a criminal action to a mere thought that does not include in its definition any specific action. Wanting to have sex with children is not the same as having sex with children. Being a murderer is far more serious than merely wanting to kill.
I don't think it is okay to want to have sex with children. Period. Children are not capable of defending themselves physically and mentally against an adult who intends to exploit them. And by your definition all murderers are bad which isn't always the case. Some people murder in self-defence and some people who are labeled as murderers may have killed accidentally. That isn't black and white either. If you follow your own logic then wanting to kill is not as bad as killing because wanting to have sex with children isn't as bad as doing it. Again, the line is blurred. Either way I still find sex with children (and murder for that point) wrong.
QUOTE(aquatus1 @ May 2 2006, 07:01 PM) [snapback]1172220[/snapback]
I'm not trying to get you to agree with my personal point of view, but can you see where I am coming from?
I understand your argument, yes.
QUOTE(aquatus1 @ May 2 2006, 07:01 PM) [snapback]1172220[/snapback]
And yet, it is the exact same, word for word, argument that has been leveled against homosexuals. Why does it no longer apply to them? Why is a pedophile sick, and a homosexual not?
For the exact reason that I stated above. Pedophilia involves children and homosexuality does not necessarily.
QUOTE(aquatus1 @ May 2 2006, 07:01 PM) [snapback]1172220[/snapback]
I'm sorry, I thought you were being pretty clear and specific when you talked about "the" murderer. And he had a criminal record (he had been to jail twice) before he went on his killing spree.
Is that what this argument is really about? Defending a murderer or pedophilia? I don't 'support' this man one way or the other. I can say however, that if it had been my child molested I might feel differently.
QUOTE(aquatus1 @ May 2 2006, 07:01 PM) [snapback]1172220[/snapback]
I also never said that you supported what he did, although it is pretty hard to interpret your statement in any other way: "I would much rather stand next to the murderer than next to a supporter of pedophiles." Perhaps when you said "stand", you were referring to the line in the supermarket?
I mean it literally and figuratively. Child molesters sicken me. I didn't say I did support this man, but if it came down to it, I would support him over a child molester any day.
QUOTE(aquatus1 @ May 2 2006, 07:01 PM) [snapback]1172220[/snapback]
If the topic is disturbing to you, that's perfectly normal, but you don't need to feel defensive. No one is accusing you of anything, nor are your statements going to be used against you in a court of law. Just try being a little more objective. You don't have to agree with other points of view, but it wouldn't hurt to understand the logic behind them.
I understand the 'logic'. Don't insult my intelligence. I just think it's disgusting to try and defend pedophilia, that's all. Why do you suppose even people in prison punish child molesters harshly? Could it be because it is wrong?
QUOTE(aquatus1 @ May 3 2006, 11:14 AM) [snapback]1172971[/snapback]
We have different standards for what constitutes intelligent action.
I can't say I know any. Or maybe I do, but they haven't 'come out' to me yet. I would like to say that I wouldn't treat them any differently, but chances are pretty good that I wouldn't let my children alone with them. Biases die hard. I'm still a little uncomfortable around homosexuals, but, personally knowing at least two of them, I can say that I haven't too much a problem with their PDA.
I suppose that, as long as they don't attempt to include me in their personal activities, and the pedophiles don't attempt to move on my children, I won't have too much an issue with them.
Chances are pretty good you wouldn't let them alone with your children!!?? Either you do not have children yet or you are beyond naive!