QUOTE(Alisa @ Mar 28 2006, 08:27 AM) [snapback]1123225[/snapback]
Pareidolia (according to wordspy.com) is the erroneous or fanciful perception of a pattern or meaning in something that is actually ambiguous or random. Pareidolia is definitely a noted phenomenon yes.gif , but just because we have identified and labelled this tendency does not mean we know the cause no.gif . The reason people experience pareidolia remains a mystery, and therefore, is only subject to theory.
Carl Sagan suggested in his book The Demon Haunted World that the purpose for face recognition likely evolved for parent/child bonding purposes. And while pareidolia may indeed be useful in bonding, it is not proven that this is why we see faces from infancy. It is up to each of us to decide for ourselves whether we believe that people see faces in patterns and photos due to some instinctual bodily reaction to stimulus, or whether it is our innate ability to perceive the many layers of reality that exist and teem with life.
The reason may be a mystery, but the casue and effect is not. It is a trick of the mind, like Deja-vu. Simple common sense tells us that it is a great deal more likely that Pareidolia is a human survival instinct than a portal to another dimension with fairies in it, wouldn't you agree?
QUOTE(Alisa @ Mar 28 2006, 08:27 AM) [snapback]1123225[/snapback]
My theory is that we are surrounded by layers and layers of life forms that visibly border our reality through physical patterns. I believe that seeing spirits in photos is a form of interaction with the spirit world and a skill that can be gained and strengthened by searching photos--practice.
Hrrmmzzz. That is a dead set wild and out there theory. Did you come to this theory simply from the photographs you take, or do you have something else, not to be rude, but more plausible to confirm this theory? It is very bad practise to attempt to claim a theory as reality with little or no proof. This leads to ridicule. Should such a dimension exist, claiming it does without proof will make it more likely that such a wonder would never be discoverd.
QUOTE(Alisa @ Mar 28 2006, 08:27 AM) [snapback]1123225[/snapback]
Psyche101, thanks for your comments. I can see why you believe as you do.
I have tried to see it from the skeptic's point of view and understand their motivation. I was a skeptic, too, so I have some insight. I think concern of "ridicule and self esteem" is the issue. We are all, for the most part, sensitive, caring people. We want others to like us, agree with us, and find us clever--to be loveable. I am no exception. We fear that if we believe something and it ends up not seeming true, others will think we are foolish, stupid, and gullible. This is in direct conflict with our need to be respected and accepted. It is as if we have unrealistic expectations for ourselves that we must be perfect, knowing and doing everything right the first time. Learning is about trying many things and knowing that there will be mistakes. There is no shame in trying and failing. This is learning.
As I age I find that ultimately true self esteem must be internally generated. If it is reliant upon other's opinions of you and your thoughts, you live your life being true to popular opinion, but not to your own self. Again, I speak from having experienced this myself
If you never believe in fairies, orbs, werewolves, other dimensions, string theory, quantam physics, Santa Claus, good will, or whatever, it is not important in comparison to learning self-nurturing and self-acceptance. Fear of ridicule, being unpopular, or unloveable is a very understandable fear, but one we must overcome (in my opinion) in order to progress and find our own truth. Popular opinion is no gauge of truth.
A little poem "came" to me one day that I think sums up the fear of believing...
Keep your mind open wide
For all good things to come inside
Shame belongs not to believers
It belongs to the deceivers
And I too wish to return the thanks for being able to discuss this at a civil level. Most 'believers' get irate or make outrageous claims when debating such claims. Your civil attitude has been very refreshing

Concern of ridicule and self esteem is a geat concern. Kids today have too many dubious rescources to turn to when they are confused and stuggling. Teen years are very tumultuous, unfortunately, the average teen knows it all already and it's all different from when you grew up.
That's right. It's worse.
Discussing such fanciful ideals at such a time in ones life gives hope that almost anything is possible and the world is a wonderous place. There are many shysters who not only know this, but prey on it. Any internally generated self esteem is destroyed when one finds there lifes beliefs are a crock and they fell for it. Leves one felling very stupid and worthless when such reality slams home. Makes it easy to be taken advantage of one at this point. This is where my concern creeps in.
I also feel that by duping ourselves into believing such unlikely phenomena, we are tearing apart the delicate fabric of our society by creating further debate, and turing our backs on our future for our own entertainment.
I agree. There is no shame at all in trying and failing. My apprentices all get the line
If you stuff up, better to come forward and look stupid, rather than try to cover your mistake and look a complete idiot later.
Every apprentice I have ever had has responded very well to this small piece of advice. Mistakes are a part of life and growing up. We need to learn from them. We do not if we do not heed the mistakes we make, and have the foritude to stand up and say we stuffed up, nothing has been gained or learned and the entire experince a waste of time effort and space.
My life experience has taught me that no such thing as Fairies, orbs, werewolves, other dimensions, string theory, quantam physics, Santa Claus actually exist, I do know these things cannot be proven true and it is very unlikely I will ever believe in them.
Quantum Physics heh. Wish I could get into that.

Theory a day.......
I agree that popular opinion is no gauge of truth, most definitly. Hard cold facts is all I am ready to accept.
It is not ridicule I fear, it is leading people to believe in something that only exists in ones perception - that I fear and advocating such a thing. I think it is selfish to try to convince others of a very unlikely phenomena with no absolute proof. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. Repeating mistakes. That I also fear.
Keeping an open mind is a great thing. Keeping ones feet on the ground and looking where you are going is also just as important.
Good will is something I believe in. Religious people who devote thier entire existance to helping others who are less fortunate is what gives me hope for the human race.