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Paranoid Android is my boyfriend - actually my virtual fiance'

He is smart, sweet, loving, caring and is sexy! He has an Aussie accent. "swoons"

Man he is great. He makes my heart flutter - all I can think about is how happy he makes me feel inside. I cannot wait to see him. blush.gif
SecondHeartbeat
QUOTE(OlDrippy34 @ Oct 16 2006, 06:53 PM) [snapback]1393020[/snapback]

Wait. It'll be your six month on November 5...you started this thread talking about how much you love her the day you started going out?

Oh dear. Um...good luck.


when i started this thread was the first day we started to go out for the second time.Me and her were already together for 7 months before and then her dad ended up hating me because he didn't think it was going to last so he made her break up with me,and then we weren't toegther for six months.Every day in those six months i was depressed,and then it started to get really bad as i still loved her and she still loved me.then out of nowhere she said that she didn't care what her dad thought and that she was willing to block out her dad just to be with me.but i didn't want that to happen cause then he'd really hate me,and now we're back together,and i still have to meet her dad,he likes me now.this relationship that me and her have now is much better than our last one,seeing as how we know what its like to not have the other so i love her even more than i did before blush.gif
Dark entity
My girlfriends name is Amy and we've been going out for five months next week. we're so alike its scary we like the same foods, drinks, views and have the same music taste (well there are some exceptions).

I met her through one of her friends called Danni who i was going out with at the time. Me and Danni split the week after i met Amy and i decided to give relationships a break for awhile. About a month later me and some people were out drinking and Danni, Amy and Danni's new bf asked me to help walk Amy (who could hardly stand) to a friends house.
We were nearly there and two guys who were older than all of us came over and started causing trouble, they head butted me in the nose and punched me in the eye (which nearly ripped out my eybrow piercing).

The next day Amy sent me a messge on mypace asking me out.

We have the same arguements that all couples have, but other than that the relationship is great. She is the best thing that ever happened to me and i love her dearly.
demon_82
My gf is BlackDahlia. I wouldn't want anybody else (besides, noone else would have me). As she said, we've been together for 5 years and have two beautiful girls together. She is a great mother and has stood by me through all of stupid moments. She has a great sense of humour and laughs at all my jokes, even the really, really bad jokes. She knows what I'm thinking before I do, which sometimes works against me, but I wouldn't have her any other way. I love her dearly and would kill, die, anything for her.
Episteme
My husband completes me. That's the best way I can describe it. All the areas of my life, my personality, and my intellect where I feel I fall short, he excels - and vice versa. Together we are a whole person. We've been together 14 years and I look forward to a lifetime more. grin2.gif


Take a screenshot, it's the only subject you'll ever see me get mushy on! laugh.gif
AtlantisRises
My girlfriend is a damn fine lady.

We get on pretty well togethor.

We met years ago when i was 5 or 6.

We met in a Muay Thai class and we have known each other ever since. I picked up the courage to ask her out about a year ago and we have been pretty good ever since.

We are still training together and we push each other to our limits and beyond.

We enjoy each others company to.

Do I love her... Maybe. I guess time is the only answer to that question.

As to why she likes me... No idea. I'm an ugly sort.
SecondHeartbeat
who heres been with their loved one for 5 years or more,do you still love them as much as the first year?have you ever had feelings for somebody else?has anybody been with their loved one since high school?
coldethyl
QUOTE(A7X @ Oct 18 2006, 08:20 PM) [snapback]1395871[/snapback]

who heres been with their loved one for 5 years or more,do you still love them as much as the first year?have you ever had feelings for somebody else?has anybody been with their loved one since high school?


I've been married for 17 years next month and I love him more now than I did when we first got married. I had a crush on him in high school but we didn't date until after I graduated. I was 18 when I married him and we're still married. I have never had feelings for anyone else like I feel for my husband. Sure I've been physically attracted to other people, but I've never loved or been loved anywhere near like it is with my hubby.

Marriage and love is hard work but if you both are willing and you both work at it the rewards are enormous.
black dahlia 83
QUOTE(A7X @ Oct 19 2006, 11:20 AM) [snapback]1395871[/snapback]

who heres been with their loved one for 5 years or more,do you still love them as much as the first year?have you ever had feelings for somebody else?has anybody been with their loved one since high school?


I reckon I love my partner more than ever, we have been going out about 5 and a half years, and we understand each other better than ever
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Lady_Anvilabeel
QUOTE(Raptor X7 @ May 11 2006, 05:52 PM) [snapback]1184397[/snapback]

I've been with my parter for quite a lot of years now. She's very quick witted, clever, a great listener and we always have something to do together.

We don't always get on, but I know she means well.

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I hope you don't thump her when she plays up tongue.gif
Otacon
I'm going to post and break the chain here, oh well...

I am an island. I have no need for a significant other in my life to make me complete or happy and I am fine living my life alone. Love is only a feeling anyways...
Episteme
QUOTE(A7X @ Oct 18 2006, 09:20 PM) [snapback]1395871[/snapback]

who heres been with their loved one for 5 years or more,do you still love them as much as the first year?have you ever had feelings for somebody else?has anybody been with their loved one since high school?

I love him much more than the first year! Never had feelings for another since we've been together. We've been together since high school.

What makes me so sad is when people in good relationships confuse infatuation with love. Looking for excitement, they become infatuated and have an affair and lose the good thing they have... Only to find out later what a huge mistake they made. Have seen that happen so many times. sad.gif

Otacon, personally I find nothing wrong with that. I think I'd be that way if I didn't find my husband. I'd at least have a good dog or three for company though... laugh.gif
itsnotoutthere
QUOTE(Raptor X7 @ May 11 2006, 05:52 PM) [snapback]1184397[/snapback]

I've been with my parter for quite a lot of years now. She's very quick witted, clever, a great listener and we always have something to do together.

We don't always get on, but I know she means well.

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so is the sex part of your relationship, shall we say a little one sided grin2.gif
itsnotoutthere
My wife & i have been together for 16 years now. (she was only 15 when we met) & engaged for 8 years before that. Most days i tell her that i love her twice as much as i did the day before.(& i mean it).
Last week our 14 year old daughter Robyn caught us having a kiss & cuddle on the sofa, & with a look of disgust called us freaks. 'why are we freaks' i asked.
'well' she replied, 'none of my friends parents did that', to which i pointed out that most of her friends parents are divorced huh.gif
Episteme
QUOTE(itsnotoutthere @ Oct 20 2006, 09:32 AM) [snapback]1397763[/snapback]
'well' she replied, 'none of my friends parents did that', to which i pointed out that most of her friends parents are divorced huh.gif

ROFL!! thumbsup.gif
Dark entity
Well its been a couple of days since i posted about my other half, we were together for only 5 months but we've decided to call it a day, maybe it was for the best.
SecondHeartbeat
what happened?
girty1600
I think some of you might know the love of my life, he goes by the name Falco Rex on UM. In fact, UM is somewhat responsible for our being together. In the past year he has shown me more love, respect and kindness than any two people have my whole life. Much more than I deserve.
West Aussie
Kinda off topic hear, but i noticed someone saying something about aussie accents. what is it about the accent ?, when i was in canada all the canadian chicks were going nuts about it...


West Aussie
Cant edit my post sad.gif

anyhoo, i used hear instead of here ****
SecondHeartbeat
its alright.Well,my gf's going to be going to another school next year,she either might go to the city,stay here(but theres a slim chance of that happening) or she will go to another province for an even better school than the citys. sad.gif I'm happy for her but at the same time i don't want her to leave.But i told her that i'd rather have it where she went to another place for schooling then that way she'd have better oppurtunites farther down the road,i dunno,what'd you guys think i should have done?We're still together.Just don't know if i should end it now,that way we'd have more time to heal or if i should just wait till june and then see what happens.What would you do?
coldethyl
QUOTE(A7X @ Oct 26 2006, 10:07 AM) [snapback]1405336[/snapback]

just wait till june and then see what happens.What would you do?


You did the right thing. Now just go one day at a time. yes.gif
fadinginnocence
QUOTE(Juno @ May 5 2006, 09:53 PM) [snapback]1176536[/snapback]

Who is your girlfriend or boyfriend,what are they like,how come you like/love them,why do they like/love you,whats your favourite memory about them?
Start Posting grin2.gif

EDIT:Or your husband or wife




Lolz Well My Boyfriend Matt and i have been together for 7+ months and im looving every minute of it tongue.gif we get along amazingly and i love him more than anything in the world


Ummmm my favortie memory of him is definately the way we actually got together. we were into eachother for like awhile but both if us were to shy to tell eachother but my friends all knew...well actually everybody knew and my darling friends decided that they wewre sick of waiting for one of us to make a move...which is why they made an enormus sing the said in HUGE purple letters SHE LIKES YOU which they showed him one day at school i have never been so embarassed ion my entire life then of course we still said NOTHING to eachother about the stupid sign so they took further action by stealing a note that i had written him out of my binder and gave it to him i got a long reply and then nothing for a week until my birthday party where we started talking about this thearcher at school who kept trying to get us to strt dating...we decided that we would wait for awhile to drive people even more insane..but that really didn't work out considering that not ten minuted later he grabbed me by the hand and used the corniest line ever to ask me out wub.gif


lol yeah thats my weird story about Matt and I rofl.gif

Please Excuse the oddness of the picture it's like 10ish at night and we're coming back from an actvity day/concert/hospital visit

He's a Dork But I Love Him-Matt
ghostboy83
QUOTE(A7X @ Oct 26 2006, 12:07 PM) [snapback]1405336[/snapback]

its alright.Well,my gf's going to be going to another school next year,she either might go to the city,stay here(but theres a slim chance of that happening) or she will go to another province for an even better school than the citys. sad.gif I'm happy for her but at the same time i don't want her to leave.But i told her that i'd rather have it where she went to another place for schooling then that way she'd have better oppurtunites farther down the road,i dunno,what'd you guys think i should have done?We're still together.Just don't know if i should end it now,that way we'd have more time to heal or if i should just wait till june and then see what happens.What would you do?


Dude what province is she going to? I live in Canada maybe I could hook up with her. thumbsup.gif
Ziggy Stardust
Her name is Banushka. She arrived a few years back and although she speaks only russian, her cooking is great.
SecondHeartbeat
QUOTE(ghostboy83 @ Oct 26 2006, 08:17 PM) [snapback]1406132[/snapback]

Dude what province is she going to? I live in Canada maybe I could hook up with her. thumbsup.gif

haha,no, well.if it made her happy then sure
ghostboy83
QUOTE(A7X @ Oct 27 2006, 07:07 PM) [snapback]1407292[/snapback]

haha,no, well.if it made her happy then sure


rofl.gif Just kidding tongue.gif
Shankpin
I could hit mine over the head with a frying pan, but what can I say?

that's what makes the world gooooo rooooound, heh!! :}
Kazahel
Well I dont have a partner and I dont really want one. I dont like having people around me anymore so finding another partner is not going to happen. I'm not interested in friendships or relationships with anyone and havent been for ages. Thats why I kinda ignore people I guess which I'm sorry for. Like I love people but I find it hard to talk to them so I avoid it now as much as possible. Kinda.

The main thing I miss though, is a back scratch but not much more.
SecondHeartbeat
k,so whats your guy's biggest regret in a relationship?mine would be the fact that i never met her dad we we first went out.and right now,its when she was practicly crying in the hallway of the hotel with her friend,and i didn't even ***EDIT*** go over there,i'm sorry for swearing,but i now realize that that was the worst thing for me to do at that moment.we talked it over and stuff but i still regret it everyday,theres more but i can't get into it right now

EDIT- In future please avoid being sorry for swearing by not doing it in the first place. This site has language filters for a reason. Thank you.
IamsSon
21 years ago, a very pretty girl smiled at me as we walked toward each other down the hall at school. The smile was kind of a shy smile, she just glanced at my eyes and quickly looked down. A month-and-a-half later I asked her to be my girlfriend. She answered by giving me a wonderful kiss.

This December we will have been married 16 years. We have two kids. A boy, 14 and a girl, 10.

She is my best friend. We can spend the day together and still look forward to sleeping next to each other that night. She knows me better than I know myself, she is usually the one who tells me how I'm feeling (I'm too busy thinking to worry about figuring out how I'm feeling). What makes our relationship amazing though are the hard times, the blah times, the tired times and the "plain ole angry" times. Because even during those times, as bad as they may be, we are still together and we are still in love.

She loves me for my tall, dark, ruggedly handsome good looks! w00t.gif

SecondHeartbeat
lol,
6th month in 4 days
REBEL
I hope i find true love again. hmm.gif


Edit: I think the hackers attacted my post. blink.gif
SpeedOfDark
QUOTE(ShadowDancer @ May 7 2006, 11:29 PM) [snapback]1178750[/snapback]

My hubby is funny, he cracks me up constantly, it's one of his best traits. He is also really cute, tall, sweet and sensitive. The best thing about our relationship is that we spend every minute together and we're never bored or sick of each other. We always have something to talk about or giggle about or wrestle about wink2.gif
He's a great dude and we're perfect together. grin2.gif


That is the cutest thing ever. happy.gif

And wonderful too ofc! Best of wishes, and I hope to share your luck some day. original.gif

QUOTE(Raptor X7 @ May 11 2006, 04:52 PM) [snapback]1184397[/snapback]

I've been with my parter for quite a lot of years now. She's very quick witted, clever, a great listener and we always have something to do together.

We don't always get on, but I know she means well.

Picture

happy.gif


Hahaha, u clever bastard u... I knew something was fishy when I was reading your post and I just couldnt put my finger on it tongue.gif


QUOTE(Kazahel @ Oct 28 2006, 01:21 PM) [snapback]1407938[/snapback]

Well I dont have a partner and I dont really want one. I dont like having people around me anymore so finding another partner is not going to happen. I'm not interested in friendships or relationships with anyone and havent been for ages. Thats why I kinda ignore people I guess which I'm sorry for. Like I love people but I find it hard to talk to them so I avoid it now as much as possible. Kinda.

The main thing I miss though, is a back scratch but not much more.


Hmm I c. However, unlike what most poeple would think, that is not necessarily abnormal or even a bad thing. If one can learn anything from this world, is that everybody is different and achieves happiness in their own special way. Many great minds have been on the same page as you regarding their relations with other poeple: Einstein and Newton, just to name a few. You should read quotes by Arthur Schopenhauer, I think you will like them. He is a 19th century philosopher who seems to have the same perspective. (And obviously, Einstein also has very promising quotes... and was actualy a big fan of Schopenhauer's famous "Man can do what he wills but he cannot will what he wills.").

Anyways, this is two of Schopenhauer's quotes:

"What now on the other hand makes people sociable is their incapacity to endure solitude and thus themselves."

"The presence of a thought is like the presence of a lover."

Schopenhauer's quotes are pretty good... except the ones on women, but sexisme was sort of the norm in his time... so its kind of understandable and should not take away any of the value in some of the other things he has said.

On the other hand, other great minds have been the most excentric of poeple. Feynman and Tesla jump to mind here. Not sure about Tesla for sociability (he was probably stranger than sociable), but Feynman was definitely a very open and sociable person. A bit too much perhaps. An american physicist, he became famous for his great lectures on physics which had audiences well beyond the undergraduate community, and made several key advancements in quantum theory (one of which he won the nobel prize for). A very crazy and intriguing guy he was... more than 1 book written by/on him. The most popular called "Surely, you must be joking Mr Feynman?" I believe. Anyways, now Im just rambling.


You can find quotes from Schopenhauer here, if you are interested:

http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Arthur_Schopenhauer


@everyone in general,
www.wikiquote.org = sexy website btw, just as good as its 'pedia' brotheren tongue.gif

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As for myself?

I am deeply in love.




With.... ehm.... myself? hmm.gif
maybe?... no? ... eh... but...... I.. sad.gif




*cries* NOBODY LOVES ME-E-E!!!

*runs away sobbing*

crying.gif
SecondHeartbeat
6 amazing months as of today,hopefully we last another 6 grin2.gif thumbsup.gif wub.gif
Kazahel
QUOTE(SpeedOfDark @ Nov 4 2006, 09:09 AM) [snapback]1414554[/snapback]

Hmm I c. However, unlike what most poeple would think, that is not necessarily abnormal or even a bad thing. If one can learn anything from this world, is that everybody is different and achieves happiness in their own special way. Many great minds have been on the same page as you regarding their relations with other poeple: Einstein and Newton, just to name a few. You should read quotes by Arthur Schopenhauer, I think you will like them. He is a 19th century philosopher who seems to have the same perspective. (And obviously, Einstein also has very promising quotes... and was actualy a big fan of Schopenhauer's famous "Man can do what he wills but he cannot will what he wills.").

Anyways, this is two of Schopenhauer's quotes:

"What now on the other hand makes people sociable is their incapacity to endure solitude and thus themselves."


I like that quote.. thanks. original.gif

I shouldve added that I am actually very happy because I know what I typed could sound depressing.. I actually feel the happiest I've ever felt because I'm not thinking that I am lacking something by needing to find 'the one' anymore. And by not looking for love outside myself in that way it's made me almost center my love more I guess.. or something.. its hard to word but I feel happier for sure. There are just some things which I made a choice to not do anymore and looking for love in that way was one of them. Another was not celebrating my birthday traditionally anymore or christmas... like for my birthday I dont look at it as celebrating my birth so much but more like celebrating the worlds birth to me. If that makes sense. Anotherwords I have always been and when I was 'born', the world was born to me, not me to the world. So my birthday is more of a day to celebrate the worlds birth which includes everyone in it, I dont look at it as a day to celebrate just me at all anymore which actually makes my birthdays pretty cool.

My family is getting used to it because I dont wish for gifts anymore on either occasions and I guess they might find it antisociable that I dont give gifts or want them back but imo its only because we have been brought up to worship our birthdays and christmas in that kinda fashion... we all say that christmas is not about buying gifts etc etc but everyone still does it hey. Which is why I ended up making the choice to not to anymore.. the same as for love. And now I only buy gifts for my son because I still want him to go through that part still. original.gif Like a learning thing.

So yeah.. I'm pretty happy and its only really other people that bring me down sometimes by assuming that I must not be.
SpeedOfDark
haha! Its you! After all this time with no response, I had assumed I had simply misinterpreted or offended you or something like that lol...

Yeah I had a feeling you weren't sad, but the lack of emoticon, use of blunt sentences and that crying angel avatar made my mind force me to conclude otherwise. No matter though, because some good came out of it: you liked the gosu quote. ^^

I'm a little bit the same way with my interactions with those around me... I value a few poeple in my life a lot (like I'm sure you do with your son and maybe a few others), and I'm not interested much in socializing with random poeple just to do it, or pass the time or anything of that sort. If someone talks to me, I'm friendly and I talk back, but I don't really feel the need to or the need to approach other poeple as much as I might have when I was younger to "fit in" and all that preteen junk.

Up to now, I still want a partner (who doesn't at 19 with all those hormones kicking about? tongue.gif). Will I always? I dunno, I'm still a tad bit too young to decide things like that yet... only time will tell original.gif

The only thing I do know for sure, is that as long as there remains the faintest thought in my head, I will always be happy, no matter what happens, because lets face it... life is a sexy beast. wink2.gif
gone
My husband and I have been married 14 years, 15 in January.
Dark entity
QUOTE(A7X @ Oct 24 2006, 11:35 PM) [snapback]1403075[/snapback]

what happened?


Hey sorry i didn't reply i was away for awhile. Well she had been really off with me for a few days and i tried and tried to find out what was wrong and help her. No matter how hard i tried everything just failed so i decided to give her some time alone. A couple of weeks later we went out and decided to get some booze (friday nights just arn't the same without it lol) and i had to lend her some money, after i had given her the money she didn't speak to me all night and decided to stay with her ex bf.

So basically she was using me for money, an excuse to stay away from home and another thing that will remain undisclosed lol.

Then later on i saw her lying down on the pavement, she was really drunk and her ex had just left her there, i tried to help her up and she kept telling me to f*** off.

Some other stuff happened and i just snapped i got fed-up with being used so i just told her where to shove it and walked back home
Kazahel
QUOTE(SpeedOfDark @ Nov 7 2006, 10:15 AM) [snapback]1417463[/snapback]

haha! Its you! After all this time with no response, I had assumed I had simply misinterpreted or offended you or something like that lol...

Yeah I had a feeling you weren't sad, but the lack of emoticon, use of blunt sentences and that crying angel avatar made my mind force me to conclude otherwise. No matter though, because some good came out of it: you liked the gosu quote. ^^
Yeah sorry for not responding for abit.. I'm not the best at responding promptly.. I usually find it hard to keep in time like that kinda.. Which is why I tend to not respond as much as I should with people, which I'm always kinda sorry for. So no offence to anyone that I may seem to almost ignore sometimes.. its just kinda the way I am. Just so you's all know and dont get offended when I somewhat ignore ya. blush.gif It's just me!


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