SecondHeartbeat
May 6 2006, 02:53 AM
Who is your girlfriend or boyfriend,what are they like,how come you like/love them,why do they like/love you,whats your favourite memory about them?
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EDIT:Or your husband or wife
SecondHeartbeat
May 6 2006, 03:00 AM
Well,i'll start it off i guess,my girlfriend at the moment is a girl named emily,i like her because of who she is,i actually think i love her,shes pretty much the same for me,i know i can tell her anything and she won't judge me by it,my favourite memory would be the first time we kissed,thats because it was the first time i had ever been kissed,which is quite sad,but anyways,behind her house there was like a clearing in woods,and then a big ass hill,and then the street,and to my left there was an alleyway,and there was this big black truck,like it was a nice truck.i knew that we were going to kiss,but i didn't know how to handle the situation so i was like,uuuhhh,nice truck,shes like,what?,then i said it again,then she stared at me,and smiled,so i must've went on for like 5 minutes about the truck,she was still,patiently waiting,then finally she got tired of me talking about the stupid truck and she said give me a kiss,then i said,ok,and then we kissed,and on my way back,i kept on saying nice truck,i kept on saying it,even though i had just gotten kissed
ShadowDancer
May 7 2006, 11:29 PM
My hubby is funny, he cracks me up constantly, it's one of his best traits. He is also really cute, tall, sweet and sensitive. The best thing about our relationship is that we spend every minute together and we're never bored or sick of each other. We always have something to talk about or giggle about or wrestle about

He's a great dude and we're perfect together.
SecondHeartbeat
May 8 2006, 12:45 AM
wicked,your lucky
LizFL
May 8 2006, 12:53 AM
my husband is sweet, funny, compassionate, fun to be with, and we can talk about ANYTHING. He also has a nice little tush
Beckys_Mom
May 9 2006, 09:57 AM
My partner of 10 years is called Gary....He is a nice all round guy...and the father of my 8 month old baby girl Becky
We have lived together for 9 long years now..we only decided to have a child after 10 years of being together LOL it took us that long eh
BUT and ohh yes there is a but...
When you 1st start dating..its all cosy and warm...all seems right..but when you have been with that same person day in day out, year in year out...it can drive you cooo kooo

You have your up's and downs just like any other couple.sex becomes more like a chore LOL...then you find yourself cleaning up after him....yelling at him to do the right thing...arguements flare and you feel as though you are talking to a brick wall...ok I am now rambling LOL but over all I am thankful I have him...i could have done a lot worse I guess
Tengu
May 9 2006, 01:49 PM
QUOTE(Beckys_Mom @ May 9 2006, 04:57 AM) [snapback]1180982[/snapback]
My partner of 10 years is called Gary....He is a nice all round guy...and the father of my 8 month old baby girl Becky
We have lived together for 9 long years now..we only decided to have a child after 10 years of being together LOL it took us that long eh
BUT and ohh yes there is a but...
When you 1st start dating..its all cosy and warm...all seems right..but when you have been with that same person day in day out, year in year out...it can drive you cooo kooo

You have your up's and downs just like any other couple.sex becomes more like a chore LOL...then you find yourself cleaning up after him....yelling at him to do the right thing...arguements flare and you feel as though you are talking to a brick wall...ok I am now rambling LOL but over all I am thankful I have him...i could have done a lot worse I guess

I know exactly what you are talking about.
I've been married for what will be 10 years this December. My husband and I have 2 beautiful little girls together. One is 3 the other is 8. After all of the initial romance and butterflies and puppies and stuff goes away the most important thing is to be with someone who can be your friend. I've found someone who is a wonderful friend and partner for me. We've had our bad times and we've had some fantastic times and mostly we have mediocre times. But when it comes down to it I look at him and see someone who works hard for his family, someone who is a great friend, and father. I feel quite lucky to have found him.
As far as best memory....
I remember when we had just been married for a few months and I was young, and pregnant with our oldest daughter. I was quite scared about the whole thing, not knowing what to expect. I couldn't go to sleep. We were laying in a twin size daybed, practically on top of each other and not very comfortable with me being pregnant. He laid there holding me and pointing out shapes in the shadows on the walls. We laid there for hours making pictures out of the shadows until I could fall asleep. It's things like that that I try to remember during the bad times. Those little things really stay with you.
coldethyl
May 11 2006, 04:27 PM
I've been with my hubby almost 17 years. He is my best friend and he supports me. He LISTENS to me and that is one thing that makes me love him so much.
Raptor
May 11 2006, 04:52 PM
I've been with my parter for quite a lot of years now. She's very quick witted, clever, a great listener and we always have something to do together.
We don't always get on, but I know she means well.
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Perfect Imperfection
May 11 2006, 05:13 PM
I've been with my boyfriend coming up on two years. We're going away for a first holiday this year. Should be a test! I see him everyday & still I don't get bored of seeing him. I'm count myself lucky to have found him (well, he found me). He's a male version of me, people say we're so well suited it's scary. One little hug or kiss from him can put a smile on my face for the whole day.
So unlike me to sound like this, I never had any interests in relationships before him!!
coldethyl
May 11 2006, 07:44 PM
QUOTE(Raptor X7 @ May 11 2006, 11:52 AM) [snapback]1184397[/snapback]
I've been with my parter for quite a lot of years now. She's very quick witted, clever, a great listener and we always have something to do together.
We don't always get on, but I know she means well.
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This made me lol! I bet she is a great listener. Does she have a name? She's gorgeous!!
Nighteyes
May 11 2006, 07:54 PM
Lol Raptor X7.
Ive been with my guy for 3 months, sometimes we fight, but its always meant well. He respects me and who I am. He never pushes anything on my, or forces me to do something. We already know if the other has a problem so that ends quickly. He tell me Im the greatest person, and always worries about losing me. I dont always believe him when he says that, but its true (most of the time) He tells me I care too much for other people, its just because he cares so little. He always worries when Im sick, and leaves school to see me even when I tell him not to. Hes not the greatest looking guy in the world, but he is mine and I love it.
Plus we made up this funny word cause the way we figuer it we are too young to say love and too old to say like, so its "loke"
SecondHeartbeat
Jul 16 2006, 06:49 AM
me and my gf have been together for 2 months and 11 days now,coincidently enough,we started to go out exactly six months after we broke up.do any of you have pictures ?
CongressmanReality
Jul 16 2006, 06:01 PM
the thing that keeps me and my wife together is that its cheaper to keep her than get a divorce
sad...i know....I think I must in one of buddisms lower levels of a crappy afterlife..
nativechick1989
Jul 17 2006, 06:17 AM

... Mark!
Thats cool, glad to hear you have an awesome relationship going ..
coldethyl
Jul 18 2006, 01:18 PM
QUOTE(CongressmanReality @ Jul 16 2006, 01:01 PM) [snapback]1272162[/snapback]
the thing that keeps me and my wife together is that its cheaper to keep her than get a divorce
sad...i know....I think I must in one of buddisms lower levels of a crappy afterlife..


Well that's terrible to hear! Is that really the only reason you're still together? Doesn't she make you laugh?
tcgram
Jul 18 2006, 06:07 PM
I've known my hubby since high school. We were friends in high school and then best buddies after that. We actually never thought of each other as boyfriend/girlfriend material until 7 yrs. after we met. Each of us had just came out of a relationship when we started dating. Ten months later we were married. We will be married for 14 yrs. this October.
What I love most about my hubby is he makes me laugh. He is kind and tender-hearted, good-looking and has a WICKED sense of humor!! I love that we can talk for hours to each other and still find out little things that we didn't know before. We've had our ups and downs as with any relationship, but I can't imagine being with anyone else.
Never_Hit_Nirvana
Jul 18 2006, 09:29 PM
I'm crazy (don't believe me, search for some of my posts).
My wife is crazier in a completely different, but harmless, way.
I think that is the key to a relationship: find someone nuts enough to always be interesting.
Of course, them being hotter than the depths of hell doesn't hurt either.
Of course we got married since she decided I was hers and made that very clear.
Luckily, I had a sanity moment, analyzed the size of her knife collection, her Cajun up- bringing, and said "Yes, Baby."
OlDrippy34
Jul 18 2006, 09:39 PM
As if it wasn't enough for you people to have your happiness. Now you have to have a thread to rub it in my face.
Best wishes to everyone though, relationships are tough as nails.
Edit-I don't like how the ads at the bottom are for "View Cheating Partners" and "YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER."
Never_Hit_Nirvana
Jul 18 2006, 09:46 PM
QUOTE(OlDrippy34 @ Jul 18 2006, 04:39 PM) [snapback]1275033[/snapback]
As if it wasn't enough for you people to have your happiness. Now you have to have a thread to rub it in my face.
Best wishes to everyone though, relationships are tough as nails.
Edit-I don't like how the ads at the bottom are for "View Cheating Partners" and "YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER."

I just noticed that. Sick!
SecondHeartbeat
Jul 18 2006, 09:51 PM
good thing my computer blocks evil ads,sounds like everyones having good relationships,with a few exceptions
Stardrive
Jul 18 2006, 10:11 PM
My girlfriend of 4 years is named Robin. She's crazy as a sh**house rat and and a real looker. We have a good relationship. We fight from time to time, but in the end, we always forgive and forget. No feud is worth breaking up over.
I dont know about the best time we ever had (to many to recall) but we had a blast this past weekend when we went to see Def Leppard and Journey in concert.
SecondHeartbeat
Jul 18 2006, 10:12 PM
awesome,your avatar is trippy
Kahrie
Jul 18 2006, 10:14 PM
I love my husband very much

the reason is because he is very much like me, very opinionated and we share the same interests together which is great. we enjoy doing a lot of great things together and i can just be myself around him which makes me love him even more.

he is a very busy man (with his job) and i admire his persaverace with anything which is great. he is very tall (over 6 feet tall!) and i'm short(but not a dwarf) which is quite funny to look at when you see us together. he is very handsome to look at with dark semi-curly hair and beautiful blue eyes. a real keeper he is.
SecondHeartbeat
Jul 18 2006, 10:19 PM
same thing with me and my gf,i love her because we share the same opinions on things so we never get into fights
Kahrie
Jul 18 2006, 10:22 PM
QUOTE(A7X @ Jul 19 2006, 10:19 AM) [snapback]1275075[/snapback]
same thing with me and my gf,i love her because we share the same opinions on things so we never get into fights
yes, but fighting is natural and somewhat needed in a relationship (it relieves tension between you both) if you don't have a little tiffle now and again, you will end up having a MAJOR fight and i'm talking from exsperience here as well, which will make or break you. because my husband and i don't back down from debates and arguments it can lead to fist-fights

which although funny to watch doesn't help your relationship
Bella-Angelique
Jul 18 2006, 10:23 PM
My husband who is a corporate supervisor is huge, muscular, cold, cruel, and frightening to look at.
We have terrific battles that shake the glass in the windows and cause the neighbors to come out into their yards periodically.
This is hot stuff to me. I am a sick person in that way I suppose.
Married now for 23 years in August.
Two sons studying pre-law in college.
SecondHeartbeat
Jul 18 2006, 10:24 PM
lol,well there are thinsg that i don't agree with that she does,but i just say whatever and bury it away,but things have been getting pretty "constriced"lately,but thats why i'm going away for a bit,i need a break from this crap town
Kahrie
Jul 18 2006, 10:26 PM
QUOTE(A7X @ Jul 19 2006, 10:24 AM) [snapback]1275079[/snapback]
lol,well there are thinsg that i don't agree with that she does,but i just say whatever and bury it away,but things have been getting pretty "constriced"lately,but thats why i'm going away for a bit,i need a break from this crap town
yes it's good to discuss together what you are both feeling (to some guys i know this is hard but must be done!

) and see what you can do from there. i know how you feel i take wee holidays away from my husband for a few days and it works because we both get our space for a few days and it helps you both to become stronger people.
OlDrippy34
Jul 18 2006, 10:30 PM
QUOTE(Bella-Angelique @ Jul 18 2006, 06:23 PM) [snapback]1275077[/snapback]
My husband who is a corporate supervisor is huge, muscular, cold, cruel, and frightening to look at.
We have terrific battles that shake the glass in the windows and cause the neighbors to come out into their yards periodically.
This is hot stuff to me. I am a sick person in that way I suppose.
Married now for 23 years in August.
Two sons studying pre-law in college.
Your husband, by that description, sounds like the kind of guy who would say to me "EVERYDAY I BUY AND SELL PEOPLE LIKE YOU!"
And it would be true.
Bella-Angelique
Jul 18 2006, 11:08 PM
QUOTE(OlDrippy34 @ Jul 18 2006, 06:30 PM) [snapback]1275081[/snapback]
Your husband, by that description, sounds like the kind of guy who would say to me "EVERYDAY I BUY AND SELL PEOPLE LIKE YOU!"
And it would be true.
Nope. That would be a chief executive officer (CEO).
OlDrippy34
Jul 18 2006, 11:10 PM
Thank Allah.
Bella-Angelique
Jul 18 2006, 11:13 PM
A corporate supervisor is more like a modern type of overseer who works under the CEOs and gets all of the dirty work done.
Tangerine Sheri
Jul 19 2006, 05:08 AM
My hubby is my best friend...not only do we share in this journey we call life, we inspire and enhance the others stroll....I really, really, really like this man. as a person and love having him to love and cherish that he is the recipient of my affections ...happily I might add.....

.......
The Skeptic Eric Raven
Jul 19 2006, 05:15 PM
My wife is a great person and mother, but I think we have never fit well. Opposites attract but in the long run you really need things in common. I love her, but if it were not for the kids and the fact I work weekneds. I think we would have divorced.
Bella-Angelique
Jul 19 2006, 05:29 PM
QUOTE(ericraven2003 @ Jul 19 2006, 01:15 PM) [snapback]1275936[/snapback]
My wife is a great person and mother, but I think we have never fit well. Opposites attract but in the long run you really need things in common. I love her, but if it were not for the kids and the fact I work weekneds. I think we would have divorced.
Easy solution.
Set up once a month mega date nights where you really splurge.
Agree together that whatever it is it has to be something neither of you would normally do.
That is meeting on neutral territory and facing a new experience together.
Have new outfits to wear for this, not something you have worn before. It helps program the mind that this is a new person.
Do not take this as a suggestion to join orgies or swaping groups. Those are for total losers.
What you want is to form a new companionship style and that is found through activities that friends do together.
Go to new places.
Try new sports, music types, food, and events.
Try everything from ghost hunting to horse races.
The Skeptic Eric Raven
Jul 19 2006, 05:34 PM
QUOTE(Bella-Angelique @ Jul 19 2006, 12:29 PM) [snapback]1275958[/snapback]
Easy solution.
Set up once a month mega date nights where you really splurge.
Agree together that whatever it is it has to be something neither of you would normally do.
That is meeting on neutral territory and facing a new experience together.
Have new outfits to wear for this, not something you have worn before. It helps program the mind that this is a new person.
Do not take this as a suggestion to join orgies or swaping groups. Those are for total losers.
What you want is to form a new companionship style and that is found through activities that friends do together.
Go to new places.
Try new sports, music types, food, and events.
Try everything from ghost hunting to horse races.
Good ideas. We have no family here so finding a babysitter is hard but not impossible. I work weekends and normally don't get home until 8:30pm. We have been trying to workout together and are going to start doing rock wall climbing. We have been together around 11 years and have tried most everything. I think after a point you just start to give up. Thanks for the suggestions.
On the swinger thing, you are right. My sister in law and her husband do it. It leads to a very unhealthy relationship. I would just cheat before I would swing. Yucky.lol
coldethyl
Jul 19 2006, 06:32 PM
You know ericraven2003 it's funny that you say that because for a while there when my kids were younger, I thought my hubby and I didn't have anything in common. My kids are both teens now and need me in a different way than they used to and I think it has changed my relationship with my hubby. We both try new things and end up enjoying ourselves and find out that we have more in common than we thought.
The Skeptic Eric Raven
Jul 19 2006, 06:55 PM
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Jul 19 2006, 01:32 PM) [snapback]1276040[/snapback]
You know ericraven2003 it's funny that you say that because for a while there when my kids were younger, I thought my hubby and I didn't have anything in common. My kids are both teens now and need me in a different way than they used to and I think it has changed my relationship with my hubby. We both try new things and end up enjoying ourselves and find out that we have more in common than we thought.

tiddlyjen
Jul 20 2006, 09:55 PM
Well, as if you couldnt tell by the signature or avvie...
my partner of nearly 28 months now is my handsome AztecInca

we were made for each other, he doesnt talk and I talk for as much as the both of us need!

lol, no, in all honestly,
he's adorably cute, (in a handsome manly man way hunny)

he makes me laugh, makes me feel secure in who i am, stops my tears when i cry and stops my pain when i hurt.
He also gives me hugs and kisses all the time so that therefore makes him the most awesome guy in the world

oh, and he is kind, caring, compassionate, generous (very much so) and a deep intellectual with very "considered" views on the world.
All up....he's one hawt cookie

And I shall love him forever and ever
jesspy
Jul 21 2006, 10:34 AM
Does my cat count as my partner?
SecondHeartbeat
Jul 21 2006, 04:55 PM
sure,as long as you don't get freaky with it
jesspy
Jul 22 2006, 08:53 AM
QUOTE(A7X @ Jul 22 2006, 02:55 AM) [snapback]1278455[/snapback]
sure,as long as you don't get freaky with it
lol.
I dont have a real partner
SecondHeartbeat
Oct 17 2006, 12:38 AM
it'll be me and my gf's sixth month on november 5,i'm excited,just gotta think of something nice to do first though
OlDrippy34
Oct 17 2006, 12:53 AM
Wait. It'll be your six month on November 5...you started this thread talking about how much you love her the day you started going out?
Oh dear. Um...good luck.
thecreeper
Oct 17 2006, 12:56 AM
my girlfriend, Sango (that is her real name I swear!) who I have dated for about almost a year now, she is funny, smart, tall (6'2), strong, this is all true I swear
ghostboy83
Oct 17 2006, 01:18 AM
I had a gf for 6 years.. we broke up and now I sleep around alot... It's fun.

You can only hang out with guys for so long..
black dahlia 83
Oct 17 2006, 06:21 AM
My partner and I started off as a one night stand we both admit we didn't really want to see each other again, but I got sick not long after that and he visited me and stuck around. Now we have been together for 5 years.
I love him for his sometimes obscure sense of humour he's sick and twisted and I like it! We like the same music and sometimes we don't.
We fight, sometimes a lot and we make up really quickly. Even joke about it. He's just like me and all our friends say they couldn't picture us ever being apart.
We have 2 wonderful daughters and he treats them like princesses, he's our provider and our hero.
I couldn't imagine life without him.
ohio tsunami
Oct 17 2006, 01:08 PM
When my wife and I started dating my firends would say "if you do anything to hurt her you're an a**hole". We just celebrated our sixth anniversary.
I love her with all of my heart and soul.

She is drop-dead beautiful and the most kind and caring soul I have ever met.
I can't imagine ever not waking up next to her in the morning. She is my absolute everything.
Outside of our wedding and honeymoon, the most fond memory I've had with her is the first time she and I went to Niagra Falls Canada. It was her first time going there and we had a blast.
I consider myself a lucky man to have found the perfect wife, and I will cherish her until the day I die.
Subtemperate
Oct 17 2006, 01:54 PM
QUOTE
Who is your girlfriend or boyfriend,what are they like,how come you like/love them,why do they like/love you,whats your favourite memory about them?
My girlfriend is a lovely little lady called Thistle. She is good in many ways, apart from poking things with sticks constantly... and needing a boost to reach the stove. She is a very sweet loving girl, with a great sense of humour... and obviously very low standards to be dating me.
My favourite memory of her is meeting her in edinburgh for the first time and spending the day with her..... It just wasn't long enough.
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