QUOTE(ragus @ Jul 12 2006, 02:52 PM) [snapback]1267164[/snapback]
I had a similar thing happen to me when I was in college about 20 years ago. I'll share the story (sorry it's long):
I lived in the dorm with 4 other roommates. We shared a living room and bathroom, while each of us had our own bedroom. The bedrooms were pretty small but offered privacy. I was in my room late one night preparing for bed as usual. At the time, I wore contact lenses and every so often when I took them out for the night, I would do a more thorough cleaning (beyond the usual cleaning... also since they were not disposable contacts). Anyway, I had been sitting in a chair at my small, built-in desk and had just finished cleaning both lenses and put them in their lens case (right one in the "R" compartment, left one in the "L" compartment... for those who wear contacts, you know the deal with that).
Anyway, immediately after I put them in their case and the tops were tightly closed, I reached to put away the bottles of cleaning solution, etc. and I accidentally knocked my contact lens case off the desk. I heard it hit the floor with a pretty loud thud (I even felt it hit the floor as my feet could feel the thud off the floor when it hit). Well naturally, I then bent over to pick it up but couldn't find it anywhere.
I've also experienced those times when you drop something and look down, expecting the object to be right about there where you dropped it but it seems to have bounced or rolled far away. So I knew to also look far away from where I thought the lens case had fallen, in case it bounced and ended up further than I thought it should be. I checked EVERYWHERE, literally. I had a very tiny room, and I kept it clean and uncluttered... so there were not too many places it could have gotten lost. The floor was bare and nothing on it except a small trash can on the wall behind the desk. It was close enough that if something bounced, it could have fallen in there. So I thoroughly searched the trash can (didn't have much in it at the time anyway) and did not find the lens case in there.
I searched every nook and cranny... all the corners, under the bed, on the bed, in the bed, I searched my desk (both inside and out), I checked in the closet (which was also kept neat and uncluttered), I literally checked every square inch of that room. No luck in finding the lens case. I thought I was losing my mind. This was not just dropping a contact lens (which I've done before and don't think it's odd at all not to find one of those), this was the whole darn case -- much too big to lose like a contact lens.
Well my sister also attended this college at the same time I did and lived in her own dorm in another part of campus. So the next morning I got her to come over and help search my room. I thought maybe it was there and I just wasn't seeing it. So I thought another pair of eyes would be good (and yes, even though I'd taken my contact lenses out of my eyes, I DID have sense enough to put my glasses on so I could see...LOL).
She searched the room just as thoroughly as I did, every nook and cranny. There was not a place in that room that didn't get looked over. Still, she didn't find the case either.
It must have been the weekend then, because our mom had come by later that day and then the three of us all searched again. Still did not find the case. As well as that little, uncluttered room had been searched, there's no way a contact lens case could have been missed IF IT HAD BEEN THERE. It was as though the case had disappeared into thin air. I even toyed with the idea that maybe it had fallen through a black hole of sorts and was in another dimension -- like it fell through a "black hole" in the floor (I know it hit the floor because I both heard and felt it)... so it didn't just vanish while falling through the air.
Needless to say, I ended up having to get a new pair of contact lenses (and case). I was very careful not to drop them off the desk like with the other pair and I went on to finish out the semester that year. All along, I still kept an eye out for that lens case, still never found it. Then, since the end of the semester came and it was time for me to move out, I had to pack up and say goodbye to that little room. I thought that would be the perfect opportunity to make sure, once and for all that my contact lens case was not there. So as I packed each thing, I made extra sure that I examined each thing carefully in case my contact case showed up. Still nothing. It eventually came to the point that all my stuff was packed and in my car and the little dorm room was empty. I even lifted the small twin mattress that was on the bed without any bedcoverings at this point (which we'd looked there before), but still nothing. There was literally no place for it to hide. The room was stripped.
I was disappointed in not finding the lens case... not to mention, confused. And I went on home to my parents' house where I unpacked (still not finding the case) and enjoyed my summer before having to return to college the next fall season.
Well the fall semester finally came and my sister and I decided to get our own apartment to share instead of living in the dorm. We visited several different apartment complexes before deciding on the one we liked, put down a deposit and promptly moved in. Nothing really significant happened here. We just lived there normally and attended classes at the college nearby. The following year, our aunt who also lived nearby told us that she had an apartment (built onto the side of her house) that was available now and so she asked if we would like to live there. Of course we jumped at the chance because it was cheaper, was a pretty place, and we liked our aunt.
I forget how long we lived there when one day we had a leak in our bathroom. My aunt had to call a plumber to come fix the pipe, which was behind the wall (the living room wall). There was no way to get to the pipe without cutting a hole in the living room wall to get to it. I remember my sister wasn't too happy about that because she had just wallpapered the living room. Anyway, after the guy cut the hole and peered in, he started saying there was a bunch of stuff hidden behind the wall. My aunt then said she wasn't surprised because when the apartment was made, that all used to be part of the house (the main part, which is her house). She said additional walls had been put up by the previous owner of the house (before she ever bought that house) to make the bathroom and bedroom of the apartment addition, so if some things got left behind the walls, she wasn't surprised. Anyway, the man started pulling out objects that were back there. Old magazines, coupons, a comb.... I forget what all else. But then he pulled out a contact lens case. I immediately recognized it as mine because I had my initials wrote on it (because my sister also wore contacts and we had our intials on them so we could tell them apart). My sister and I just looked at each other in disbelief.... because HOW could I have dropped that case off my desk in the dorm at college and it end up in the wall at our aunt's house, where the walls had been built before she even bought the house? Totally freaky!!!! It still freaks me out to this day thinking about it and I have never been able to come up with a logical explanation.
The contacts were still in the case, with the solution and contacts still there in perfect condition as though I had just put them in there. Weird! If anyone can come up with an explanation for this, I'd love to know because my family and I are still baffled by this. When I read the story about the wallet disappearing and then suddenly reappearing in the pocket of those pants, it really brought back memories of my own experience. I'm glad to share it with you all. I haven't told too many people about it.
I really enjoyed reading that ragus, the first thing that comes to mind is were you going through a time of wondering about life/afterlife etc?
Secondly, when you went for new contact lenses did you need an adjustment at all from what the previous ones were?
Thirdly, you could say that looking back now it seems like the events were connected (synchronized events) spirit knew and perhaps was guiding you in that you would end up at your aunts house and find the contact lenses again. It was ment to happen, For what purpose? to prove beyond no doubt that the spirit world exists. I think it is a lovely story, thanks for sharing it!