gryffin1
Jul 11 2006, 10:27 AM

personally i think it kinda sucks but hey that's just my opinion........
tcgram
Jul 11 2006, 03:13 PM
Personally, I had a LOT of fun when I was single. I think it all depends on your perspective.
Pyro Pheenix
Jul 11 2006, 03:15 PM
Personally, I think this would make a better blog entry.
I don't mind the single life in someways, but in other ways it sucks. But I can't really make a comparison, seeing as I have always been single.
Celumnaz
Jul 11 2006, 03:32 PM
the only time I didn't like it, was going to sleep alone at night, and when something happened and I wanted to share it with someone and there was noone there...
other than those 2 things... single life was da bomb
gryffin1
Jul 11 2006, 03:46 PM

yeah i know how ya feel dnt worry tho i beleve there's at least one person out there for everyone lol we just aint found them yet. cool name btw
Monkyburd
Jul 11 2006, 04:22 PM
Single life is nice, but yes, you have to deal with that feeling of being alone sometimes.
Thats the one thing that gets to me.
Otherwise its pretty fun.
COLLEGE!
gryffin1
Jul 11 2006, 04:49 PM
yeah dude i can relate
Pyro Pheenix
Jul 11 2006, 04:52 PM
QUOTE(gryffin1 @ Jul 12 2006, 01:46 AM) [snapback]1265980[/snapback]

yeah i know how ya feel dnt worry tho i beleve there's at least one person out there for everyone lol we just aint found them yet. cool name btw

Who were you refering to?
Celumnaz
Jul 11 2006, 04:53 PM
I think he was talking to you.

My name isn't cool and I know this... Pyro's are cool. *nodding head*
Pyro Pheenix
Jul 11 2006, 04:56 PM
He could've been talking to you. I am one of the un-awesome Pyros
Celumnaz
Jul 11 2006, 04:58 PM
lol Pheenix is cooler than my name too... so you're covered
Pyro Pheenix
Jul 11 2006, 05:00 PM
Aye. Plus it's the name of a Lost and Cursed City from Lee Fawkes Phantom Comics. Lost and cursed.... Sounds like me!
Never_Hit_Nirvana
Jul 11 2006, 05:05 PM
I was married for the first time at 18 and divorced when I was 19. I married my current, and last -- we've agreed that the only way either of us is getting out of it is when one of us finally snaps and kills the other -- wife when I was 24. The five years, almost to the day, come to think of it, in between were all right, I guess. A lot more drinking, but a lot less laughter. I never felt complete when I was single. I never had anyone there, that I know I could share anything with. Friends are cool, but most of the time they just don't cut it. Nobody knows me like my wife does and that is a blessing beyond reason, because she will understand when all I want to do is sit on the couch in my underwear and yell my probably drunken head off at the Red Sox and other such things.
Note: If you get tired of being single, DO NOT FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THINGS REASONABLE, go looking for a wife up north. Trust a man who has been married to a Yankee girl, and is married to a girl with the rebel flag tattooed on her right breast, southern girls are infinitely better.
=Jak=
Jul 11 2006, 05:05 PM
If you love yourself.. you can lead single life.. otherwise it will suckssss... if you don't know to love yourself.. then there are other ways to find that..
Never_Hit_Nirvana
Jul 11 2006, 06:03 PM
QUOTE(j4jak @ Jul 11 2006, 12:05 PM) [snapback]1266070[/snapback]
If you love yourself.. you can lead single life.. otherwise it will suckssss... if you don't know to love yourself.. then there are other ways to find that..

Hell, I love me some me and I still hated single life. Life is much more fun with a built in cheering section.
The Skeptic Eric Raven
Jul 11 2006, 06:06 PM
I loved the single life. So many women so little time. I miss it sometimes, but I would never have my beautiful daughter if I had stayed in it.
=Jak=
Jul 11 2006, 06:12 PM
look dictnary love have so many meaning.. if dictnary holds this much meaning... then in real life.. it says so much to us.. i am sure no one love themself or others.. because actually we don't know what is love. Only thing we know more than love is EGO
The Skeptic Eric Raven
Jul 11 2006, 06:16 PM
QUOTE(j4jak @ Jul 11 2006, 01:12 PM) [snapback]1266142[/snapback]
look dictnary love have so many meaning.. if dictnary holds this much meaning... then in real life.. it says so much to us.. i am sure no one love themself or others.. because actually we don't know what is love. Only thing we know more than love is EGO
To heck with love. When I was single it was about sex and partying. I eventually grew out of it, but it was fun. Fly the freak flag high.lol
gryffin1
Jul 11 2006, 06:36 PM
u pyro
ASOP
Jul 11 2006, 07:55 PM
I love being single! I'm 42 and never married (well almost) but I have a beautiful daughter 2 yrs old and I have been raising my two cousins 14 yrs and 17yrs both boys they are great! Well not all the time but I love them. I also have the BEST SISTER and MOTHER in the world!!! I'm not lonely. And having my bed to myself is great no one snoring or kicking me. Life is pretty good single.
Monkyburd
Jul 11 2006, 07:58 PM
You people are so wierd
distortedpandy
Jul 12 2006, 02:43 PM
I dunno, being single is fun...
I miss having a male tho
Tiggs
Jul 12 2006, 02:58 PM
Having just finished an 18 year relationship, I'm discovering that the single life is good - much less responsibility, much more adventure.
Then again, having said that, I'm currently contemplating doing the relationship thing again. Being single is fun in short bursts, but I'd imagine it gets pretty lonely over the long term...
Pyro Pheenix
Jul 12 2006, 02:58 PM
QUOTE(gryffin1 @ Jul 12 2006, 04:36 AM) [snapback]1266176[/snapback]
u pyro

Hmm. Ok then.
With the whole single thing, I guess it also depends on what kind of person you are. If you are a person who prefers the company of friends, then the single life would be great for you. But if you are the kind of person who wants a deeper relationship, then I guess single life would be the pits.
jobot37
Jul 12 2006, 03:00 PM
After a short string of unsuccessful relationships, I'm diggin' it, however I am young and carefree, but yeah, having a female in my life is a nice thing.
gryffin1
Jul 12 2006, 05:47 PM
i think im a bit of both in that sense
Purplos
Jul 12 2006, 07:55 PM
Single is a lot better than in a bad relationship... but, quite frankly, at 31 and with 2 kids, I would really like to have a partner. I get lonely and have no one to help me. I have to be strong ALL THE TIME. It's stressful.
Sigh...
coldethyl
Jul 13 2006, 03:41 PM
I gotta say, I've been married since I was 18 for 17 years so almost half my life and I wouldn't trade it for anything. It's all about finding and
being that right person. It's hard work and not always fun. But it is so worth it.
Celumnaz
Jul 13 2006, 04:26 PM
QUOTE(Purplos @ Jul 12 2006, 02:55 PM) [snapback]1267604[/snapback]
Single is a lot better than in a bad relationship... but, quite frankly, at 31 and with 2 kids, I would really like to have a partner. I get lonely and have no one to help me. I have to be strong ALL THE TIME. It's stressful.
Sigh...

Wish I had a big hug smiley... *big hug to Purplos*
Never_Hit_Nirvana
Jul 13 2006, 04:36 PM
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Jul 13 2006, 10:41 AM) [snapback]1268664[/snapback]
I gotta say, I've been married since I was 18 for 17 years so almost half my life and I wouldn't trade it for anything. It's all about finding and
being that right person. It's hard work and not always fun. But it is so worth it.

Amen to that. Would be lost and not laughing without my wife. And I get the added bonus of her being Cajun, swamp-crazed, so I get to wake up to a new personality every day! It's like having my own redneck harem!
ASOP
Jul 13 2006, 04:39 PM
Coldethyl it sounds like you have a great marriage. Thats great. I had bad relationships in the past but thats behind me and Im happy with life the way thing are. You are very lucky alot of marriages dont last that long these days.
SecondHeartbeat
Jul 13 2006, 04:44 PM
i hated the single life,but now that i'm not single there are different things that i have to worry about,but i'd say that being single was nothing compared to having someone
coldethyl
Jul 14 2006, 12:41 AM
QUOTE(Never_Hit_Nirvana @ Jul 13 2006, 11:36 AM) [snapback]1268734[/snapback]
Amen to that. Would be lost and not laughing without my wife. And I get the added bonus of her being Cajun, swamp-crazed, so I get to wake up to a new personality every day! It's like having my own redneck harem!

Southern Girls Rock!!
QUOTE(ASOP @ Jul 13 2006, 11:39 AM) [snapback]1268741[/snapback]
Coldethyl it sounds like you have a great marriage. Thats great. I had bad relationships in the past but thats behind me and Im happy with life the way thing are. You are very lucky alot of marriages dont last that long these days.
Well we both work very hard at it. Being married is one of the hardest things in the world and it hasn't been easy, trust me. We're finally at the best part now, tho. Our kids are teens, our bills are paid easier, and we know each other well.
Never_Hit_Nirvana
Jul 14 2006, 04:32 PM
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Jul 13 2006, 07:41 PM) [snapback]1269338[/snapback]
Southern Girls Rock!!
They also stab and get woogly-eyes.
Purplos
Jul 14 2006, 05:00 PM
Wish I had a big hug smiley... *big hug to Purplos*
Awwww... THanks Celumanz

How sweet.
coldethyl
Jul 14 2006, 07:53 PM
QUOTE(Never_Hit_Nirvana @ Jul 14 2006, 11:32 AM) [snapback]1270042[/snapback]
They also stab and get woogly-eyes.

True. Ballistic is a term I like to use.
Never_Hit_Nirvana
Jul 14 2006, 07:56 PM
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Jul 14 2006, 02:53 PM) [snapback]1270254[/snapback]

True. Ballistic is a term I like to use.

LOL. Yes, have heard that one.
Scariest moment in my marriage: My wife and I were playing poker with some of her relatives. I beat her in a hand and she spouted a bunch of curses in Cajun. My eyes were about 4 inches around the rest of the night.
gryffin1
Jul 15 2006, 10:14 AM

u guys lol
codenamecloud
Jul 16 2006, 11:01 PM
single life sucks at times. i have only been single now for a little over a month. i do have fun going out and meeting new people. just doing everything that the single life is good for. but during those times of the day when you would normally be with the person in question is the harder times. just dont let yourself think too much lol
coldethyl
Jul 18 2006, 01:50 PM
QUOTE(Never_Hit_Nirvana @ Jul 14 2006, 02:56 PM) [snapback]1270256[/snapback]
LOL. Yes, have heard that one.
Scariest moment in my marriage: My wife and I were playing poker with some of her relatives. I beat her in a hand and she spouted a bunch of curses in Cajun. My eyes were about 4 inches around the rest of the night.

Cajuns can be quite scary ...so I've heard!
So have you learned never to beat her in poker? My hubby still hasn't learned his lesson in Rummy....
brainfluid
Jul 20 2006, 04:24 PM
Ive got a hunny and it's great, apart from the nagging...
Never_Hit_Nirvana
Jul 20 2006, 04:39 PM
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Jul 18 2006, 08:50 AM) [snapback]1274337[/snapback]
Nope. I'm too competitive, she says stubborn. Knocked her out of a game last night, got the finger and a nasty comment about my momma.
The Skeptic Eric Raven
Jul 20 2006, 05:13 PM
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Jul 18 2006, 08:50 AM) [snapback]1274337[/snapback]
You said poker. HAHA
coldethyl
Jul 20 2006, 06:30 PM
QUOTE(Never_Hit_Nirvana @ Jul 20 2006, 11:39 AM) [snapback]1277201[/snapback]
Nope. I'm too competitive, she says stubborn. Knocked her out of a game last night, got the finger and a nasty comment about my momma.

Last time hubby and I were at a pub we were playing air hockey and this dude walks by and tells him 'don't you know you're supposed to let her win'! Truer words never have been spoken. He constantly kicks my behind at darts and that makes me want to throttle him. I kick his at Gin Rummy tho....
QUOTE(ericraven2003 @ Jul 20 2006, 12:13 PM) [snapback]1277266[/snapback]
You said poker. HAHA


Yes I did...I gotta watch that....
brainfluid
Jul 21 2006, 11:55 AM
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Jul 20 2006, 07:30 PM) [snapback]1277342[/snapback]
Last time hubby and I were at a pub we were playing air hockey and this dude walks by and tells him 'don't you know you're supposed to let her win'! Truer words never have been spoken. He constantly kicks my behind at darts and that makes me want to throttle him. I kick his at Gin Rummy tho....

Yes I did...I gotta watch that....
You go girl (or you may be a boy??)..
Darts is way cool. I have only ever hit 1 x 180.. nedd more practice
coldethyl
Jul 21 2006, 04:14 PM
QUOTE(brainfluid @ Jul 21 2006, 06:55 AM) [snapback]1278099[/snapback]
You go girl (or you may be a boy??)..
Darts is way cool. I have only ever hit 1 x 180.. nedd more practice

I'm a girl!
I love darts! We mostly play cricket. I love it!!
brainfluid
Jul 24 2006, 11:15 AM
Darts is cool...
So are darts players, the only sportsmen who drink 20 pints and smoke like chimneys..
coldethyl
Jul 24 2006, 09:08 PM
QUOTE(brainfluid @ Jul 24 2006, 06:15 AM) [snapback]1281261[/snapback]
Darts is cool...
So are darts players, the only sportsmen who drink 20 pints and smoke like chimneys..

Well I don't smoke......
brainfluid
Jul 26 2006, 01:19 PM
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Jul 24 2006, 10:08 PM) [snapback]1281901[/snapback]
Well I don't smoke......

Me neither but all the professionals do... Do you drink beers?
coldethyl
Jul 26 2006, 02:22 PM
QUOTE(brainfluid @ Jul 26 2006, 08:19 AM) [snapback]1283723[/snapback]
Me neither but all the professionals do... Do you drink beers?
Expedientially.

I love beer. It is good.
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