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daghost
I don't know..but this site doesn't want me to talk about my phenomenal experiences on here...for the sake of the children.... i didn't think children come to this site.....the majority are adults on here..i would have thought....however, my post was about having an encounter with spirits or voices. or.however you would like to referr them as... I doubt that many people get to come on here and talk about this thing because this site limits a person of such talk...nevertheless...i have been having relations with unseen beings...

is there anyone that has similar or anyone who would like to comment on the issue... This is real stuff...
Subtemperate
This site does nothing of the sort. What it does do, is make sure the users who join all follow its rules and guidelines. You want to discuss contact with spirits/ghosts/martians/smurfs... go right ahead, however make sure you follow our rules of conduct thumbsup.gif.
coldethyl
I thought that said muffins.

Listen, daghost, I have bi-polar illness so I know what it's like to have a mental illness. You should go back to your doctor and find the right combination of meds that will work for you. Just because the ones that you are currently taking don't work doesn't mean that none will.

Also, you must be a very high functioning schizophrenic?
daghost
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Oct 25 2006, 06:38 PM) [snapback]1404018[/snapback]

I thought that said muffins.

Listen, daghost, I have bi-polar illness so I know what it's like to have a mental illness. You should go back to your doctor and find the right combination of meds that will work for you. Just because the ones that you are currently taking don't work doesn't mean that none will.

Also, you must be a very high functioning schizophrenic?



My point exactually....there is nothing wrong with me... Duh...but, it's jus an excuse, to explain what's wrong with me, given by someone who does understand him/herself...
Seraphina
Having read your previous topic, I will start by saying that it was deleted because the content was far too graphic. It had nothing to do with trying to prevent you from sharing your experience. However, I'm sure we're all willing to proceed with the more tame version....

First off: do you live alone?
daghost
QUOTE(Seraphina @ Oct 25 2006, 06:48 PM) [snapback]1404042[/snapback]

Having read your previous topic, I will start by saying that it was deleted because the content was far too graphic. It had nothing to do with trying to prevent you from sharing your experience. However, I'm sure we're all willing to proceed with the more tame version....

First off: do you live alone?



yes...i stay by myself....i'm 31yrs of age....does this have anything to do with me staying alone...no because ten years ago when it first started, i was staying with my mother...
Seraphina
I think we'll refrain from exploring the obvious possible explanations, since they've already been covered by your doctor...if we assume, for a moment, that your doctor is incorrect and you're not in fact schitzophrenic...

You say you lived with your mother when all this began? Was she at any time aware of the voices you were hearing, or your night time experiences? (and I should probably remind you at this point to avoid any details about said experiences tongue.gif).
coldethyl
QUOTE(daghost @ Oct 25 2006, 01:44 PM) [snapback]1404032[/snapback]

My point exactually....there is nothing wrong with me... Duh...but, it's jus an excuse, to explain what's wrong with me, given by someone who does understand him/herself...


Well you don't have to be so defensive.

When were you diagnosed? What treatment are you on now?
Lady_Anvilabeel
I missed the original post by looks of things.
coldethyl
QUOTE(Anvil @ Oct 25 2006, 02:01 PM) [snapback]1404074[/snapback]

I missed the original post by looks of things.


Yeah it was a doozy. yes.gif
daghost
QUOTE(daghost @ Oct 25 2006, 06:53 PM) [snapback]1404059[/snapback]

yes...i stay by myself....i'm 31yrs of age....does this have anything to do with me staying alone...no because ten years ago when it first started, i was staying with my mother...



yes, i told her about the voices, but never about the other thing... in addition, meds do not work...if i could take medicine for this that work...i would believe that i must was schizo..crazy or whatever you want to call it...but the experience that i've with meds was bad ...they don't do anything but make you worse... i jus deal with the truth...that this is way beyond medicine...
Seraphina
Have you consulted more than one doctor about it? Including a specialist in the subject?
coldethyl
Please answer my questions. thumbsup.gif
daghost
QUOTE(daghost @ Oct 25 2006, 07:03 PM) [snapback]1404080[/snapback]

yes, i told her about the voices, but never about the other thing... in addition, meds do not work...if i could take medicine for this that work...i would believe that i must was schizo..crazy or whatever you want to call it...but the experience that i've with meds was bad ...they don't do anything but make you worse... i jus deal with the truth...that this is way beyond medicine...




I have been seeing a doctor, but we don't talk about it anymore...
daghost
QUOTE(Seraphina @ Oct 25 2006, 07:11 PM) [snapback]1404096[/snapback]

Have you consulted more than one doctor about it? Including a specialist in the subject?




Zyprexza...or something like that...but i don't take it...it's only what they prescribe me...and don't tell me that i should be taking it because i function well without it....it only makes me worse...it doesn't help at all..i am noone's guinee pig....
Crocodilian
If the medication is not working then tell your doctor or find another doctor. Your original post really was out there.
How does the medication make it worse?
What happens when you take it?
Lady_Anvilabeel
How long did you take them for before you stopped them?

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i am noone's guinee pig


Sometimes we just have to be the guinee pig and keep experiementing with things. That is if you want to help yourself. There isn't always a easy clear cut way to managing or treating things..
daghost
QUOTE(Anvil @ Oct 25 2006, 07:25 PM) [snapback]1404121[/snapback]

How long did you take them for before you stopped them?
Sometimes we just have to be the guinee pig and keep experiementing with things. That is if you want to help yourself. There isn't always a easy clear cut way to managing or treating things..




I been seeing a doctor for 8yrs.....i stop taking the medicine, all together, 6yrs ago...i'm not crazy.... trust me...and if i'm crazy everyone on here is....
daghost
QUOTE(Anvil @ Oct 25 2006, 07:25 PM) [snapback]1404121[/snapback]

How long did you take them for before you stopped them?
Sometimes we just have to be the guinee pig and keep experiementing with things. That is if you want to help yourself. There isn't always a easy clear cut way to managing or treating things..




You know what...i have a good mind...and i'm not going to let noone's experiment destroy me because they don't understand natural phenomenal beyond what they see or interpertet as...
Seraphina
Curious...you were on the medication for two years? Was it always the same medication? Did you tell your doctor there was no real change, and did he try anything different? You also said you and your doctor don't talk about it anymore...how long has that been for? Does he think you don't have these experiences anymore, or do you just refuse to talk about them?
daghost
QUOTE(Seraphina @ Oct 25 2006, 07:35 PM) [snapback]1404142[/snapback]

Curious...you were on the medication for two years? Was it always the same medication? Did you tell your doctor there was no real change, and did he try anything different? You also said you and your doctor don't talk about it anymore...how long has that been for? Does he think you don't have these experiences anymore, or do you just refuse to talk about them?




He thinks that i don't have them anymore....the medicine were change at first because i told him how they made me feel...and once i realized that what ever medicine i told nothing changed but things got worse, as feel as how i felt, i just stop taking them and started dealing with the problem without meds....
Lady_Anvilabeel
Any chance you can give a summary of what your original post said?
daghost
QUOTE(Anvil @ Oct 25 2006, 07:46 PM) [snapback]1404167[/snapback]

Any chance you can give a summary of what your original post said?



I wish i could but, it would be against policy...
Crocodilian
I still think you should see another doctor and get a second opinion and maybe new medicine and see if it doesn't go away.
daghost
QUOTE(SwampGator @ Oct 25 2006, 07:52 PM) [snapback]1404173[/snapback]

I still think you should see another doctor and get a second opinion and maybe new medicine and see if it doesn't go away.




Look...i been dealing with this for ten yrs....i'm conditioned....it has not gone away since...it's not going anywhere until God is ready for it to leave.... i know that it's supernatural....because no one understand it ....there is no real explanation for it....Have you ever seen the movie "The Entity".... that's a movie about me ....just not so violent...
Lady_Anvilabeel
dag someone has filled me in. Do these experiences only happen at night when sleeping?

If so have you considered Sleep Paralysis and Hypnagogia Hallucinations?
daghost
QUOTE(Anvil @ Oct 25 2006, 08:03 PM) [snapback]1404185[/snapback]

dag someone has filled me in. Do these experiences only happen at night when sleeping?

If so have you considered Sleep Paralysis and Hypnagogia Hallucinations?



No they can happen anytime they want it!!! It doesn't matter what time of day it is...they let me know that they are jus as living as i am...
Lady_Anvilabeel
Ok then scratch out the SP theory, Just thought it be worth asking thumbsup.gif

I also don't think your problem is spirits.

Keep at it with the Dr's and stuff....
daghost
QUOTE(Anvil @ Oct 25 2006, 08:09 PM) [snapback]1404199[/snapback]

Ok then scratch out the SP theory, Just thought it be worth asking thumbsup.gif

I also don't think your problem is spirits.

Keep at it with the Dr's and stuff....




It really doesn't matter what you think.... yea i doctor goes to school to learn certain things about the body and mind, however...that all he/she knowns is certains things not everything...can a doctor fix a car...no a mechanic does that....so how do you know that a doctor can fix me...???
Lady_Anvilabeel
I don't.... But I'm just saying I don't think it's spirits.

Crocodilian
Mechanics are trained to fix cars.
Doctors are trained to fix people.
They may not be able to fix your particular problem but thats your best bet.
Of course this is only my opinion and I'm not a doctor.
Good luck!!
coldethyl
You're hostile and mostly out of line and since you won't answer my questions I think you're making all of it up. Even the part about being schizophrenic from your original post.
daghost
QUOTE(Anvil @ Oct 25 2006, 08:27 PM) [snapback]1404226[/snapback]

I don't.... But I'm just saying I don't think it's spirits.




What do you know about spirits....nothing for the way you are talking and the subjections you are giving ....what kind of experiences have you had ....were they all psychological...and so tell me why are you on here....jus for the entertainment of others ...thinking that everyone on here is some kind of freak....well i'm the real thing whether you like that fact or not...everything is real here....
daghost
QUOTE(coldethyl @ Oct 25 2006, 08:33 PM) [snapback]1404239[/snapback]

You're hostile and mostly out of line and since you won't answer my questions I think you're making all of it up. Even the part about being schizophrenic from your original post.




i'm sorry be if you read the last few post....i answered your question along time ago...
Seraphina
Daghost, I do apologise if you came on the site looking for sympathy...but that's not really what UM is for. If you want sympathy about your experience, then go talk to a councilor (which nobody on UM is).

This site is about discussing the paranormal...very few people here will take every and any claim at face value. I think you'll find that debating and sharing (and indeed challenging) opinions about the paranormal can be a great deal of fun...but if you're going to be thin skinned about your own experiences, then maybe you should avoid discussing them for the present.

Best advice I can think of would be going back to your doctor...but if you're unwilling to do that, you should at the very least seak counciling. Best bet would probably be to do both.
Lady_Anvilabeel
QUOTE(daghost @ Oct 25 2006, 09:38 PM) [snapback]1404248[/snapback]

What do you know about spirits....nothing for the way you are talking and the subjections you are giving ....what kind of experiences have you had ....were they all psychological...and so tell me why are you on here....jus for the entertainment of others ...thinking that everyone on here is some kind of freak....well i'm the real thing whether you like that fact or not...everything is real here....



I'm receptive to spirits. I'm not here for the entertaiment of others so there is no need to get rude. I don't know what your problem is but it's not a spirit problem, just trust me on that thumbsup.gif
daghost
QUOTE(Seraphina @ Oct 25 2006, 08:50 PM) [snapback]1404288[/snapback]

Daghost, I do apologise if you came on the site looking for sympathy...but that's not really what UM is for. If you want sympathy about your experience, then go talk to a councilor (which nobody on UM is).

This site is about discussing the paranormal...very few people here will take every and any claim at face value. I think you'll find that debating and sharing (and indeed challenging) opinions about the paranormal can be a great deal of fun...but if you're going to be thin skinned about your own experiences, then maybe you should avoid discussing them for the present.

Best advice I can think of would be going back to your doctor...but if you're unwilling to do that, you should at the very least seak counciling. Best bet would probably be to do both.




First of all...not looking for sympathy..just seeing could there be someone who shares the same...second your full of b.s.. why.. cause this is a site for such thing as getting answers as well...for the strange that happens o.k.. so jus cut me the crap....
Seraphina
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second your full of b.s.. why.. cause this is a site for such thing as getting answers as well...for the strange that happens o.k.. so jus cut me the crap....


There's a difference between looking for answers, and lashing out at everyone who posts an opinion. I'll say it again...if you're going to be this thin skinned about your own experience, then it might be best if you not post about it until you're going to be more receptive to alternative suggestions about it.

Everyone who posts a paranormal experience story on this website has had to answer to the skeptics...the fact that you've been diagnosed with schitzophrenia and fully admit that you no longer either take your medication or speak to your doctor about it would, one would think, make you even more likely to come under fire from skeptics.

If the best you can do is insist that you don't need to take your medication, you don't need to talk to your doctor, and you don't need to explore a medical solution, then I'm afraid there's nothing more to discuss...I'll simply leave by saying again that this is clearly far too touchy a subject for you to talk about to unsympathetic strangers.
Crocodilian
The "strange" that is happening to you has been diagnosed by a doctor and is no way paranormal so what did you expect to gain from us?
If someone here had or has the same thing happening they would have been diagnosed with the same would they not?
143
daghost, you are being hostile. If you feel you are being picked apart its because without truly being aware of it, you did post your experience for thousands of people to read.

I have mentioned this before a lot on threads, that it is an Unexplained Mysteries website and it is only fair that you have come here to seek help. You are probably fed up with trying to figure yourself out, but don't get so wound up.

I do feel bad that you are probably feeling pretty alone in all of this but well, don't give up. Thats the best advice I can give you.
daghost
QUOTE(SwampGator @ Oct 25 2006, 09:06 PM) [snapback]1404326[/snapback]

The "strange" that is happening to you has been diagnosed by a doctor and is no way paranormal so what did you expect to gain from us?
If someone here had or has the same thing happening they would have been diagnosed with the same would they not?



What do you nean from you...first of all...i all ready now what's wrong with me ...no doctor can fix...second...i only asked for peoples comments..not advice...and i ask for those who has had similar experiences... i don't expect you guys to solve my problem cause apparently you are dealing with problems you need help with as well. ... but i didn't expect for people to be so critical....because of the kind of site this is...face everyone has something weird to say on here....so don't start to judge me.....
daghost
QUOTE(Becca L 143 @ Oct 25 2006, 09:09 PM) [snapback]1404333[/snapback]

daghost, you are being hostile. If you feel you are being picked apart its because without truly being aware of it, you did post your experience for thousands of people to read.

I have mentioned this before a lot on threads, that it is an Unexplained Mysteries website and it is only fair that you have come here to seek help. You are probably fed up with trying to figure yourself out, but don't get so wound up.

I do feel bad that you are probably feeling pretty alone in all of this but well, don't give up. Thats the best advice I can give you.




The truth is that i been dealing with this for so long...without any real help...i'm so use to it....it doesn't bother me....i'm not looking for any sympathy.... i just didn't think people would react this way...it just let me know that i'm truly different and really alone, but i'm fine with that...
Seraphina
Nobody's judging you...believe it or not, we're genuinly trying to tell you what we believe is the best and most logical course of action for you to take.

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face everyone has something weird to say on here


Not really...UM isn't an agony-aunt forum. A vast majority of its members have never had, and probably never will have, a paranormal experience...they simply signed up here because they have a great interest in discussing it.

I, for example, joined the forum a little over three years ago because I have a keen interest in cryptozoology...but I've certainly never seen a crypid.

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i don't expect you guys to solve my problem cause apparently you are dealing with problems you need help with as well.


I'm slightly curious as to what you mean by this...care to elaborate a little?
Crocodilian
You asked for "anyone who might like to comment on this" and thats what we are doing.
If we didn't, this wouldn't be a forum.
No need for hostility, we are all just trying to help.
daghost
QUOTE(Seraphina @ Oct 25 2006, 09:17 PM) [snapback]1404352[/snapback]

Nobody's judging you...believe it or not, we're genuinly trying to tell you what we believe is the best and most logical course of action for you to take.
Not really...UM isn't an agony-aunt forum. A vast majority of its members have never had, and probably never will have, a paranormal experience...they simply signed up here because they have a great interest in discussing it.

I, for example, joined the forum a little over three years ago because I have a keen interest in cryptozoology...but I've certainly never seen a crypid.
I'm slightly curious as to what you mean by this...care to elaborate a little?




Why guess what...you just matter someone that has real experience with the paranormal...aside all the b.s.. so if nothing else is real on here but curiosity....i' am...
Seraphina
I'm afraid I'm having a little difficulty understanding some of your posts. I'm going to assume English isn't your first language. Whereabouts are you from exactly?
daghost
QUOTE(Seraphina @ Oct 25 2006, 09:33 PM) [snapback]1404392[/snapback]

I'm afraid I'm having a little difficulty understanding some of your posts. I'm going to assume English isn't your first language. Whereabouts are you from exactly?



excuse me for my bad grammar...however...english is my first language and i am from the USA...what i try to say is...Well guess what...you just met someone that has real experience with the paranormal...aside all the b.s.. so if nothing else is real on here.. but curiosity....i' am...
Seraphina
I see...now, meaning no offence, and not to sounch cliche but: do you have any idea how many people have said that to me? I'm certain your experience is very real to you...but, unfortunately, without some kind of evidence it's not really real to anyone else.

I mean...have you ever been physically examined for evidence of these...uh...nightly...escapades...?
daghost
QUOTE(Seraphina @ Oct 25 2006, 09:44 PM) [snapback]1404404[/snapback]

I see...now, meaning no offence, and not to sounch cliche but: do you have any idea how many people have said that to me? I'm certain your experience is very real to you...but, unfortunately, without some kind of evidence it's not really real to anyone else.

I mean...have you ever been physically examined for evidence of these...uh...nightly...escapades...?



no i'm afraid...i told you that this is something that i havn't even discuss with my doctor...this is the first time that i have ever mention it....that is way i felt so comfortable come on here...but now i don't feel the same....i don't want to be a freak...so i don't tell anyone about this...this is the only way i could talk about it....you how all of you came down on me...jus imagine if i told someone in person....
Seraphina
Well, that's why I suggested speaking to a councilor. To be honest, if you are schitzophrenic, then that isn't any reason to look down on you...just the way you happen to be. I know left handed people, I don't come down on them for being different tongue.gif

Honestly, nobody's really been speaking down to you, and I'm sorry if you see it that way...I do think that, to a certain extent, some posters have lost a little patience with you, but that's got nothing to do with your experience, and everything to do with the hostile manner in which you responded to them. The fact that your experience could possibly (yes, I know you don't believe it does, but it still possibly could) stem from a medical condition is enough to make all of us tactful about it...but they've got a right to defend themselves too ya know tongue.gif

All in all, I think talking to a councilor would do you a world of good...I know you say you didn't come here looking for sympathy and that you're 'dealing with it'...but you seem to be spending every post at the moment talking about being lonely, or thinking you're a freak, or not wanting to be different and so on. That, to me, sounds like you do want help with this.

To be brutally honest though, nobody on UM is qualified to give it. I think you need to talk your problem over with someone a bit more learned in this area.
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