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Some people have brown eyes
some a different hue
Some chicks like chicks
some dudes like dudes
grass is green
sky is blue
JMPD1
QUOTE(contactismade @ Nov 24 2006, 03:01 PM) [snapback]1437894[/snapback]

I don't care if someone is gay, I just want to stop hearing about it. Enough already with the parades, what goes on in a person's bedroom is their business, I don't broadcast my actions and am not interested in others actions. If people who are homosexual are normal then they should start acting like its normal. Keep it to yourself.


Maybe, if people STOPPED treating them as if they were abnormal, they wouldn't have to be so vocal about it.

QUOTE(contactismade @ Nov 24 2006, 03:01 PM) [snapback]1437894[/snapback]

I live in a town of 15,000 people and there are three handicapped couples who live with the help of the assisted living committee. They are all heterosexual.


What does that have to do with anything?

QUOTE(contactismade @ Nov 24 2006, 03:01 PM) [snapback]1437894[/snapback]

And while we're on the subject think about this. Some of you have a flawed understanding of the words here. The word "natural" implies that the event would take place without any outside influence, an automatic event if you will. So if it was natural to be homosexual then we would all be homosexual. I think saying it is natural is the wrong word. Just say "its okay" to be homosexual. If we were all homosexual there would be no "we", because there would be no procreation. People who are homosexual do not need to try and legitimize their life choice by using words incorrectly so people will feel differently about them. You are who you are any attempt to make it okay with others is a waste of effort.
And some of the people who are pro homosexuality need to stop being so judgemental themselves. Being a victim of judgemental people doesn't give you the reason to be judgemental yourself. Nothing will ever quite down that way.


So, by your reasoning, if it were "noraml" to have blue eyes, we would ALL have blue eyes?
Or if it were "normal" to have red hair, we would ALL have red hair?

As to being "judgemental", I think you are confusing that with being defensive. By your arguments, people being put upon, whether for reli8gious, sexual orientation, or racial reasons, shouldn't speak up?

So the next time some low life uses the "N" word, I shouldn't voice any objections, right?
Paranoid Android
QUOTE(SilverCougar @ Nov 25 2006, 05:38 AM) [snapback]1437834[/snapback]

Hmm... let's see.. an entire war being fought because a bunch of fanatics.. on all sides.. is doing the work "of god". Oh yes.. I remember when our oh so beloved president told the world that God told him to do this war.

People are protesting brave soldiers' funerals with their hate... "God hates fags" sound familiar? Those people believe they are doing gods work...

And I seem to remember when christianity was allowed in with the government... there's a reason alot of us pagans fear that... I'd rather not be hung or burned at the stake for being what I am. wink2.gif And let's not forget the messed up world of the inquisition.
Then back to modern times... Don't even get me started on how messed up the middle east is again... God in the government.. what does that get? Women whipped for being raped. Womentreated like property.. and this whole mentality of being right in the eye of god so the world should change to fit them... if not, then they throw tantrums like little kids, only more deadlier.

Sooo.. yeah. The world is not screwed up because of people turning away from god. The world is screwed up because to many people take religion so seriously that they actually are killing for it. Because if someone goes against whatever fanatical view of this god... heads literaly start to roll.
One could also argue that these are the result of organized religion, and not the result of following God. Even people claiming to act in the name of God do not in fact act in the way God wishes no.gif Whatever happened to Love your neighbour? The world is the messed up place it is because everyone's running around pretending to be little gods. Running their life their way. Too bad that when we try to run things our own way we inevitably stuff up, thus making the world the way it is today. The people in religion are no less guilty of this than the secular community.
SilverCougar
QUOTE(Paranoid Android @ Nov 25 2006, 01:51 AM) [snapback]1438120[/snapback]

One could also argue that these are the result of organized religion, and not the result of following God. Even people claiming to act in the name of God do not in fact act in the way God wishes no.gif Whatever happened to Love your neighbour? The world is the messed up place it is because everyone's running around pretending to be little gods. Running their life their way. Too bad that when we try to run things our own way we inevitably stuff up, thus making the world the way it is today. The people in religion are no less guilty of this than the secular community.



Actually everything they did was because "God wanted it" They got it from the same bible that says "Love thy neighbor".

Organized religion doesn't make them any less Christian.
Paranoid Android
But is what they thought God wanted actually what God wanted?
JMPD1
And there, my paranoid friend, you have hit the nail squarely upon its head.

If people claim that their actions "are what god wanted.....", how are we to know this? You can say "god came to me and said......" but did god really? And how presumptous of man to dare speak for god. Can't god speak for him/herself?

How then, can we accept that a 2,000 year old tome is "what god said"?

Personally, I have a problem with very elderly drivers: I think that they create a risk for others. Now, if I were writing what was to be the supremely authoritative book on The Rules Man MUST Obey ('god' author, Paradise Press, 1st printing: beginning of time), then I very well just might be tempted to throw a line in there to the effect of "And God decreed verily that 70 and 1 shall be the age of the pedestrian.....". And if I claimed that the line was divinely inspired, who would disagree?
Paranoid Android
Indeed, the argument can work both ways, JM. Because of human's nature, we will all live as our own little gods. Becoming a Christian doesn't mean one stops disobeying God. It just means we try not to. I just don't think setting ourselves above God is the way to achieve a better result.

And the prophet JMPD spake unto the people of UM, saying, "Wither thou shalt go, be thouest mindful of thy elder driver, for it is they who shalt bring destruction upon all who cross their path" (JM 3:34)
JMPD1
LOL A prophet? Well, I always knew I was Devine.......

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See, I always felt that the bible was a social code of ethics, and was given the "god" stamp of approval by the authors just to dissuade anyone from disobeying.

On another note, do you really think god really cares who sleeps with who?

Do you really, really think that god has nothing better to do than keep track of the supposed deeds and misdeeds of men?

SilverCougar
And ofcourse you speak as if we all should be worshiping this god.

My wise old woman is gone.. replaced with a bitter tired feline. I have no nuggets of wisdom to show why it is best to let people worship who or what ever they please... I know it'll be ignored or passed off into "But all roads lead ti what /I/ believe is the one true god/faith/pink elephant of doom."

Feh...
Paranoid Android
QUOTE(JMPD1 @ Nov 25 2006, 02:31 PM) [snapback]1438199[/snapback]

On another note, do you really think god really cares who sleeps with who?

Do you really, really think that god has nothing better to do than keep track of the supposed deeds and misdeeds of men?
I believe God cares about what we do and how we act. Though i think he has a lot of things better to do also. But I think God's great at multi-tasking..... hey, I guess that's proof right there that God is a woman laugh.gif
contactismade
QUOTE(JMPD1 @ Nov 24 2006, 06:25 PM) [snapback]1438106[/snapback]

Maybe, if people STOPPED treating them as if they were abnormal, they wouldn't have to be so vocal about it.
What does that have to do with anything?
So, by your reasoning, if it were "noraml" to have blue eyes, we would ALL have blue eyes?
Or if it were "normal" to have red hair, we would ALL have red hair?

As to being "judgemental", I think you are confusing that with being defensive. By your arguments, people being put upon, whether for reli8gious, sexual orientation, or racial reasons, shouldn't speak up?

So the next time some low life uses the "N" word, I shouldn't voice any objections, right?

If you are going to use words of mine in quote at least use the right one would you. N_A_T_U_R_A_L, is different from N_O_R_M_A_L. Normal is a social word, natural is a science word. Don't use different words when you quote people you look like Joey from friends in that episode where he was using the pantomime quotation marks at the wrong time. Someone made a comment about people who were handicapped not being gay (actually they were more offensive about it but you get the point) (and also I'm reasonably sure there are homosexual handicapped people) So thats what that was about, read all the posts,not just the ones you want to attack. I don't know where you live but where I live people don't treat people differently because of sexual orientation, we're not that ignorant. By making such lame generalizations, and painting so many with the same brush you don't allow your arguments to speak for themselves. It would be NATURAL for everyone to have Blue eyes if genetically thats all that ever developed. It would be NORMAL for people to be gay if people weren't so hung up on people's personal lives, and already didn't have a deep seeded aversion to the lifestyle based on years and years of indoctrination and moral brainwashing. Homosexuality has enjoyed periods of acceptance and periods of unacceptance, from place to place. Hetorosexuality has had these ups and downs too, witness the puritans. We would all like it to be different, but the fact is not enough time has passed for it to become the norm rather than the exception. Not long ago in just about everywhere you want it was a crime to be gay.

And yes I was talking about people being judgemental because I actually know the real meaning of words. To judge everyone as if they come from the same ignorant neck of the woods you must be from, you end up looking like the people you rail against.
JMPD1
QUOTE(contactismade @ Nov 24 2006, 03:01 PM) [snapback]1437894[/snapback]

I don't care if someone is gay, I just want to stop hearing about it. Enough already with the parades, what goes on in a person's bedroom is their business, I don't broadcast my actions and am not interested in others actions. If people who are homosexual are normal then they should start acting like its normal. Keep it to yourself.
People who are religious often make the same mistake. They proceed like their religious text gives them mandate to tell others how to live their lives. The good book says judge not lest ye be judged yourself, if you have faith in god this should be your mission statement. Other people's lifestyle should not be your concern, live your life and they will live theirs.
I live in a town of 15,000 people and there are three handicapped couples who live with the help of the assisted living committee. They are all heterosexual.

And while we're on the subject think about this. Some of you have a flawed understanding of the words here. The word "natural" implies that the event would take place without any outside influence, an automatic event if you will. So if it was natural to be homosexual then we would all be homosexual. I think saying it is natural is the wrong word. Just say "its okay" to be homosexual. If we were all homosexual there would be no "we", because there would be no procreation. People who are homosexual do not need to try and legitimize their life choice by using words incorrectly so people will feel differently about them. You are who you are any attempt to make it okay with others is a waste of effort.
And some of the people who are pro homosexuality need to stop being so judgemental themselves. Being a victim of judgemental people doesn't give you the reason to be judgemental yourself. Nothing will ever quite down that way.



Perhaps, you need to re-read what you posted... I underlined and bolded the relevant line wink2.gif

I questioned your line:
QUOTE
"I live in a town of 15,000 people and there are three handicapped couples who live with the help of the assisted living committee. They are all heterosexual."

because it seemed like a non-sequiter and I was asking for clarification, which you provided in your later post. But, you assumed it was an "attack"

As to being judgemental......
Well, it looks like you've already made your judgement of me, and although I agree with your statement that peoples personal lives should be their own business, I will refrain from further discussion with you.

ta.
truethat
Homosexuals should act "normal" and keep it to themselves?

Right so Heteros keep it to themselves? Sex is everywhere for heteros. Just the same way you feel about Homo sex being shoved in your face, they feel about Hetero sex.

I was in a literature class recently and a gay guy remarked "God I am sick of hearing about hetero love."

Take the movie Click for example. You have on and on about how he loves his wife, she loves him, flash backs to the first kiss, his bosses girls all over the place in hootchie mama clothes, Jennifer Coolidges character whining about cheating and then hooking up with the boss. You had him going on about his daughters tits and his wife's new husband. They were kissing, everyone was fooling around. The parents even had sex in it. Heck the DOGS even had sex in it.

To a homosexual heterosexual sex is EVERYWHERE>

So they are acting normal. Its just you are prejudiced against it because it grosses you out.
contactismade
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