Thanks again to everyone who replied. You've all given me something to think about.
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QUOTE(Razer @ Jan 20 2007, 08:49 PM) [snapback]1509716[/snapback]
Why is it people pray more when they want something? I think they are totally missing the point.
QUOTE(Lotus Flower @ Jan 29 2007, 08:49 AM) [snapback]1520911[/snapback]
You saying that reminded me of when I was about 9 or 10 years old. Our teacher at school was discussing sport, winning, losing etc etc. One kid put up his hand and said "If I were in the Olympics and wanted to win, I would just pray", the teacher's reply was "If you pray to ask to win, you are, in effect, praying for the other people to lose and I don't think you can do that".
That always stuck with me and I often look at sportsmen and women on TV, watching them in finals of sports events, kissing their crucifixes and praying for that win.
It does seem that lots of people's prayers are often selfish and to their own ends and I agree I think they (and many a time, me) have indeed missed the point.
Once again I'm having a problem distinguishing between what's considered selfish and what isn't. I hope I can state my point clearly.
If one were to pray for the salvation of their soul (in other words, to be one with God in the afterlife), isn't that, in fact, praying for selfish means?
For example:
I want to be in the Kingdom of God, therefore,
I shall pray and offer my devotion so that
I can enter into heaven.
If the intentions were good, wouldn't the following be the same?
I want the best for my family (housing, education, health care, etc.), therefore,
I shall pray for a raise (to find a better job, to win the lotto, etc.) so that
I can use the money for what they need.
I understand those were crude examples, but in both cases, the person doing the praying is still asking for something for his/her own benefit. Also, in neither example was the person praying for anything negative to happen to anyone else.
Wouldn't both examples show that the person praying is doing so for selfish means? And if not, why?