QUOTE(Bogeyman @ Jan 23 2007, 05:11 PM) [snapback]1513022[/snapback]
....But dont let him get carried way as he started segregating the "special" members from the "ordinary" ones over there....Right Turtle ?


And this has what to do with the suggestion I offered????
The "segregation" you refer to must be the creation of a experiencer-only sub-forum which is not available to General membership view?
BTW, using terms like "special" (meaning experiencers of NDE) from "ordinary"(meaning non-experiencers like you)are words owned by you, not I.
The sub-forum was not my doing, but the result of experiencers asking for such.
The creation of an experiencer only forum is the first one available to experiencers on the web, whom can now share their feelings and thoughts outside the guaze and judgements of non-experiencers.
Sorry you fail to comprehend the fact that these types of experiences are very personal, disruptive and send the experiencer through some profound changes. Having a "special" area where we can discuss personal matters with people whom "been there done that, bought the T-shirt" is just as important to the experiencer as an AA meeting is to an alcoholic.
Some experiencers have a hard time understanding their feelings, let alone explaining it to "ordinary" folk like yourself.
Since you are indeed a member of the forum, you also have been witness to the personal attacks many of the experiencers endured because they could only communicate in an open forum and spend the majority of their time defending tthemselves.
As you know as well, their was very little participation from experiencers themselves and the site was inhabited from religious zealots to bible thumpers and every time an experiencer dared to share some thoughts and feelings, the wagons were circled and they were driven from the site.
Participation by experiencers whom decide to share their experiences has increased, and now have several dozen experiencers whom share their experiences and ideas with everyone in the General forum. Far cry from the one or 2 diehard sadists experiencers whom was there since inception. These experiencers are drawn to the forum because of the experiencer only forum, and we, as mods also encourage participation in the General Forum.
To me it's a win win.