QUOTE(texasgirlheather @ Feb 14 2007, 01:44 PM) [snapback]1543421[/snapback]
Well, I'm from California originally, born and raised on the beaches and in the inner city of San Diego(Spring Valley, Lemon Grove, Encanto, Lomita Village, Barrio Logan) and the clubs in Tijuana, I had gay friends(Haaayyyy...Hillcrest), druggie friends, Mexican friends, black, Samoan, Filipino, whatever, (I'm white) I was curious about and hung out with everyone! I was exposed at least once to all religions in a casual way, but everyone else was mostly atheist too. Except for my Mexican friends who were mostly Catholic. My family was and is atheist. So I have to say the predominant influence when I was growing up was "open-minded,"secular humanistic atheism. I found Christ by myself at age 22. External influences had nothing to do with it either way.
I also lived in Georgia mountains (Appalachia) for a while when my kids were babies, a long time ago. It is absolutely not true that they are dumbed down. What a dismissive stereotype. I thought we were not so quick to label people here, but I see a lot of it going on. Unless you've been to the South, you have no right to judge that culture. Because if you haven't been there, you're going on media portrayal and commonly held stereotypes. They are not backward in the least, I don't know why people think that. They have college and everything now. Short of chaining their kids to the beds and not letting them go outside every day, I don't know how you would keep people from being exposed to everything going on in the world. Where did you get the notion that Southern people are not exposed to anything else. Are people in California not exposed to anything else? Of course they are. Same is true for everyone else in the country.
I have relatives and friends in the south, this is based on personal interpretation i also have lived outside of california. this is first hand knowldege,i have moved around.I did say too that not all people are this way, it does seem a certain god fearing mentality is predominate more so then in the bigger citys......It was an observation not a judgement , their is a difference.... Exposure does count for a lot IMO...Not ot infer taht one in georgia couldn't be diverse if this was the guiding principle .Hubby has lived all over the world, we are going off of that....
california seems be more in tune with what we are wanting to instill, why make parenting harder, i am a vegan also and the state i am in supports the idea enough to where i could continue on this path (its warm all yer veges are more likely).....also In my job which its very public i have the oppourtunity to meet many from all places and i ask, I share the feedback. Not everyone would like califiornia its a matter of taste.......Texas contrary to what you think I may think many who live in a god fearng enviorment are proud of it and feel it is the best for them and their kids, As it should be I have myself and family to worry about how can I possibly decide whats best for another, because i add to the conversation with a persepective that is unpopular doesn't mean that its wrong and i am right its just another view, we all have one its what makes life interesting...
california is so diverse, Long beach is recognized as the most cuturally diverse location in the world.... You can grow up where you did and experince things that say i living in the redondo beach,palos verdes, hermosa beach area will experince a different set of core guiding principles, yet I will say i grew up in sylmar the foothills the diversity there is alot to be said for it, i and my kids can adapt to any social situation,any relgioun, any culture and wanting to live in peace and unity, we are all one this is great fertile ground for experincing tolerance and understanding differences.... In my neighborhood every culture lives every walk of life... its all inclusive a macro life experince but we have a specific core principle we are going for in molding our kids...I hope this helps lady

Do you speak spanish texas??? its so easily picked up here hubby and two of my kids learned it from their friends...